One of the best ways to do this is by wearing the right perfume. Scent is strongly linked to emotions and has a huge impact on the way people perceive you.

The secret is choosing a perfume that creates the impact you are looking for. Here are the basic perfume categories and what they say about you …

Floral

Floral perfumes are light and flowery. They include scents like lavender, rose, gardenia and geranium.

Florals are great for TG girls since they are the most feminine fragrance. Wear them when you want to appear especially girly or romantic.

Examples of floral perfumes include: Dior J’Adore, Stella by Stella McCartney, Kenzo Flower by Kenzo, Anais Anais, Beautiful by Estée Lauder, Eternity by Calvin Klein, L‘Air du Temps by Nina Ricci, and Lovely by Sarah Jessica Parker,

Fruity

Fruity perfumes are usually based on citrus scents like lemon or grapefruit, but can also include strawberry, peach, kiwi, etc.

Fruity perfumes are fresh and youthful, so they are great for gals over 40. They are also a good choice for when you want to feel confident and energetic.

Examples of fruity perfumes include: Fresh Sugar, L.A.M.B. by Gwen Stefani, Cartier Eau de Cartier, Nina by Nina Ricci, Sun Flowers by Elizabeth Arden, Beautiful Sheer by Estée Lauder, DKNY by Donna Karan, and Emporio White by Giorgio Armani.

Fresh

Fresh perfumes (also called green scents) are light and airy. They are based on scents of grass, green leaves and the ocean.

Fresh perfumes are energetic and rejuvenating. They are a great choice when you are out “en femme” since they boost your mood and put other people at ease.

Examples of fresh perfumes include: J.Lo Glow by Jennifer Lopez, Covet by Sarah Jessica Parker, Fifth Avenue by Elizabeth Arden, Diorissimo, Dune by Christian Dior, Bond No. 9, and Safari by Ralph Lauren.

Oriental

Oriental perfumes are rich and dramatic and smell of spices, musk, vanilla and heavy flowers.

Oriental perfumes tell the world that you are sexy and sophisticated. Just be sure to choose a light scent since oriental perfumes can lean toward the masculine side.

Examples of oriental perfumes include: Dior Addict, Lancome Attraction, True Star by Hilfiger, Opium by Yves Saint Laurent, Samsara by Guerlain, Lalique Perfume by Lalique, Sun Moon & Stars by Karl Lagerfeld, Jean Paul Gaultier Perfume,

Woody

Woody perfumes are heavy and dramatic and are based on scents like sandalwood, patchouli, and cedar.

Woody perfumes are sensual and exotic, but they are the most masculine of all scents. Most woody perfumes should be avoided by TG girls.

Examples of woody perfumes include: Passion by Elizabeth Taylor, Escada by Escada, Lovely by Sarah Jessica Parker, Cashmere Mist by Donna Karan, Habanita by Molinard, Givenchy Organza.

What is YOUR favorite feminine perfume? I want to hear from you, so leave me a comment below!

Love,
Lucille

Your options are shaving, waxing and depilatories.

Do-it-yourself waxing is painful and you can hurt yourself if you don’t know what you’re doing. Go to a salon instead - many big cities now offer male Brazilian waxes. Depilatories are a good option for the bikini line, but aren’t supposed to be used in the genital area. If you want to take it all off, I suggest shaving.

Here are my top 4 pubic hair removal tips:

1. Trim first.
 
If you’ve never shaved your pubic hair before, you’re going to have a LOT of hair to deal with. You should trim the hair first to avoid clogging up your razor. Use a scissors or trimmer to trim the hair down to 1/4″.

2. Use the right razor.

It’s easy to cut yourself with normal razors. Instead, use a razor especially designed for the pubic area.

If you want to use a disposable razor, try Noxzema Bikini Shavers. They have a narrow head, making it easier to shave the nooks and crannies of your crotch. You can find Noxzema Bikini Shavers in any drug store.

Another great option is the Philips Norelco Bodygrooming System. This electric shaver has a built-in trimmer and can be used anywhere on the body. You can find it at Walmart and drugstores for around $45.00.

3. Avoid irritation.

Needless to say, the groin is a very sensitive area. Go slow and avoid shaving over the same area repeatedly – this leads to razor burn.

Use shaving cream, even if you are using an electric razor. (The Philips Norelco Bodygroomer can be used in the shower with shaving cream.) Use shaving cream for sensitive skin – NOT the stuff you use on your face.

4. Get rid of ingrown hairs.

The pubic area is especially prone to ingrown hairs, which is NOT a sexy look.
 
The best way to avoid ingrown hairs is to exfoliate daily using a loofah or washcloth (just be gentle with your private parts!). Exfoliating gets rid of dead skin cells that can clog your hair follicles.
 
A final note …
 
If you’ve never shaved your pubic hair before, you will probably experience irritation and itching. It takes about a month for your skin to adapt to being shaved. Avoid shaving more than once per week and use aloe vera gel to sooth any irritation.

Now let’s hear from you … Take my Pubic Hair Poll and leave me your comments and suggestions below!

Love,
Lucille

Full lips are a symbol of youth and femininity – and they’re just plain sexy. Most TG girls could benefit from lip plumping, so I’m going to share 4 tricks for getting those Angelina Jolie lips …

1. Try a cosmetic lip plumper

There are loads of cosmetic lip plumpers on the market and some of them actually work. The results are subtle, but hey – every bit counts.

Look for a lip plumper that contains hyaluronic acid, like Lip Fusion or City Lips. Hyaluronic acid is the same ingredient that is used in lip injections. The HA in these plumpers draws moisture to the lips and has a plumping effect.

Avoid lip plumpers that contain cinnamon and other ingredients that irritate the lip tissue. The swelling makes your lips look fuller, but it dries them out in the long run.

2. Use a lip plumping device

You’ve heard of vacuum pumps for “other” parts of the body, so why not the lips?

Luscious Lips is a specially-designed vacuum pump that draws fluid to the lips, creating a plumping effect. Luscious Lips plumps lips up to 50% and the results can last for several hours.

I have this device myself and can tell you that it works. (Just don’t get any other ideas for that pump!)

3. Take hyaluronic acid supplements

Here’s a cool trick …

The same hyaluronic acid that is used in lip plumpers and lip injections also comes as a supplement.Taken internally, hyaluronic acid acts as an internal moisturizer.

There have been many reports of HA supplements having a plumping effect on the lips. Combining HA supplements with HA lips plumpers enhances the results.

You can find HA supplements at the drug store or health food store. Take a capsule before bed and you just might wake up with bigger lips!

4. Get lip injections

Finally, if you’ve got the money and pain tolerance, lip injections is a guaranteed way to enlarge your lips.

Lip injections do NOT have to give you the trout pout look. They should be a subtle enhancement of your natural lips. The advantage of lip injections is that they can reshape the lips and cupid’s bow – giving you not only fuller lips, but prettier lips, too. 

I’ve had my lips injected in the past and liked the look. The downside is that they doesn’t last long for the money.

Ok, now let’s hear from you! Have you tried plumping your lips? What worked and what didn’t?

And be sure to take my Sexy Lips Poll below!

Love,
Lucille

Here are my top 7 ways to look 10 years younger:

1. Choose the right hairstyle

The wrong hair can age you faster than anything else. Long hair is feminine, but it can drag your face down if you have saggy skin. Styles above shoulder length are most flattering. Bangs are another great option – they look girly and are perfect for hiding forehead wrinkles.

2. Add color to your wardrobe

If you wear a lot of black or neutral tones, try adding bright colors to your wardrobe. Bright colors look youthful and brighten up your face. Just be sure to select colors that harmonize with your natural coloring. (Learn how to analyze your hair and skin tone and determine your best colors in The Ultimate En Femme Fashion Guide.)

3. Try a beauty gadget

Anti-aging devices are hot right now and are a great alternative to surgery or injections. Some of the most effective gadgets that I’ve tried include: Tua Viso, Safetox and LightStim. They use electrical currents and LED lights to tone facial muscles and rejuvenate the skin.

4. Get enough sleep

We all need our beauty sleep, but the older you get, the more a lack of sleep shows up on your face. Eye bags, dark circles, and sallow skin distract from a feminine look, so be sure to get 7-8 hours of sleep each night.

5. Whiten your teeth

Teeth are a subtle cue of age – old teeth tend to look yellow or grey. Whitening your teeth brightens your face and takes years off of your appearance. Try Crest White Strips for cheap and easy tooth whitening.

6. Get a tan

We tend to lose color from our faces as we get older. A self-tanner or bronzer can give you back that youthful glow. Adding color to your face also diminishes the look of wrinkles and shadows, making you look younger and more refreshed.

7. Smile

Yes, it’s trite advice, but smiling really is the fastest way to improve your appearance. A smile lifts the cheeks and acts like an instant facelift. Smiling also gives you a pleasant look and puts people at ease – making it easier to blend in as a woman.  

Another tip? Look at classy, attractive women over 40 for inspiration …

Who is YOUR favorite ageless beauty? Take my poll and leave me your comments below!

Love,
Lucille