How to Be More Feminine in 2011
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Can you believe we’re already one week into the New Year? Did you make any resolutions for 2011?
I love the idea of giving your FEMININE SELF a fresh start – but we both know that resolutions don’t work.
So I have a different idea!
Instead of resolutions, why not create a THEME for the year? A theme keeps you focused, but since there are no rigid rules, you can’t fail.
Here are a few feminine themes to try:
Theme: The “Bold Girly Actions” Year
This year, I will take bold girly actions that move me towards being the woman I want to be.
Theme: The “Hot Lady-Body” Year
This year I will eat better, exercise and do whatever it takes to have a hot, slender, feminine body.
Theme: The “Stepping Out as My True Femme Self” Year
This year, I will honor and express my feminine self as often as possible.
What’s YOUR theme for the year? I’d love to hear from you, so leave me your thoughts below!
Love,
Lucille
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Hi Lucille. I know this is an old column, but I took it to heart, and I am more feminine than I have been in years. I have acquired more and more clothes, makeup, two corsets, lots of panties (including padded ones), two sets of breast forms (C&D), bras, camisoles, shape-ups, and a new wig. Have not found the right jeans yet, but when I do the Levi’s are going to the volunteers. 2011 is going great! I’m eating salads and waxing my legs and shopping at Sephora.
Love your site!
Diana
My Theme is to be a better person in 2011, also try and go out inti the public ans enjoy my tie as a Woman.
Pamela
all yougirls look lovely.i am presently living in a place where i am recovering from a broken hip.when that is done (soon)i intend to get an apartment and live full time as a woman,i can’t wait. then i will get some pictures,and maybe a website.
I have been on female hormones now for 71 days. Estrogen progestorone and a nasal spray. At the age of 53 i understand that it may take from 4 to 5 years for a complete transformation. that’s hard to take as i await every new day to wake so i can get closer to my goal. Better late then never i suppose. Terrilynn
Lucille, I am now “Lucy”, a cmpliment to you I think. I also have high heels and have bought my very first skirt. I am learning to walk like a woman and it makes me feel so different! I may even resume growing my breasts.
I would love to meet a women like you! Yeah Baby!
My resolve this year is two fold:a)grow my breasts fully; and b) share feelings with me-like male wanting to be female.
I have already accomplished my first goal this year, which was to finally go out for an evening stroll, fully en femme. I did this while on a business trip to another city to ensure anonymity. No one came really close, so it was easy pass successfully. A really heady feeling.
My theme for the rest of the year is to go on more public outings fully en femme, in environments where I am not likely to be “spotted” or, if spotted, are supportive. I also want to interact with other t-girls. Thus far this has been a very private adventure.
I know one thing for this year and that is I am going to be more of what I have become and that is me. I will however try to become a more practicle me. Meaning that I will Try to get that “hot” body I want, but a 6yr old around the house; realy like i get to eat like i am supposed to most of the time. “Bold” I think any of us that are our true selves are alraedy being bold in society and we all are bold in our own way. As far as “my True Self” well I try to be this even in the face of adversity. Though it is hard to be a lady at times when some jerk is standing there making fun of you or saying your voice is too deep for you to be a woman. Really I know several Nateral born woman with deeper voices than mine and I even know one that has to shave their face daily. So I say to all of us out here doing the best we can….LETS GIVE THEM HECK AND KEEP BEING US!!!!!
I’ve gotten a chance to go out as a female last weekend. Went out to a nightclub with a friend and I was getting compliments from different people. Thankfully never had anybody say anything to me about being a man whatsoever. I’m definitely going to spend nights out as a female this year.
Rachel you look so pretty…I wish I was feminine like you. All I want to be is female but some reason there is a block…I feel so frustrated and in despair…you are all a blessing. I wish I was like a girl like all of you.
You look really sweet. I like how you do yourself up.SWEET,SWEET,SWEET!!
Congratulations hun! Keep going! Some of us dont have a friend to go out with, thats why we stay in the closet. xoxoxo
Sharon!
I am working on being who I want to be more than ever. Just wish I wasn’t on shrot term disabilty at 50% of what I can’t afford to meet required expenses. Now would be the perfect time to hit the lottery don’t need to hit it big just enough to continue on my M2F path. It’s all good I am just doing the best I can with your tips and those from others on the same path. If I could only wake up as the woman of my dreams it would go from being “it’s all good” to living my happily ever after!” Don’t even need a partner for my happily ever after just need Natalie to emerge and be Natalie all day every day!
Thank you for all your tips and emails once I hit the lottery I’ll buy all the other programs I have been promising myself I would get. Begin voice lessons, HRT, M2F 24/7 the last 2 are just in case I hit it big if not I would be happy with a few hundred so I could get all your programs!
Happy New year Lucille and all
Warm regards,
Natalie
I am determined to get out more, and dress more, and enjoy my femme side more than ever. I intend to continue developing my bust (thanks for all your tips Lucille) and I have started a limited course of hormones.
I intend to take a break and take the whole time dressed and en femme.
Happy New Year to everyone XXXXXXXX
Jacqui
You look quite fetching in that x-rated top Jacqui. Congratulations hon.
Are those girls real? They sure look nice and you are a knockout!
Love Lori
Hi Kimberly you look fab in your fem outfit,I would say your skert is a wee tuch short though don’t get me wrong but
might spoil the image of your self, every thing els is realy good on you and you look smart best regards…..Bobbie.
Hi Kari,If you know who you are then go for it,it is no use wasting your life being someone that you are and not getting out of your shell.
you go for Girl and bring the best out in you, good luck…….Bobbie
Hi ALLISON,if you go on the web on Googl and put in estrogen you will have loads of componies that sell it and be able to perchase it.
wish you Luk………Bobbie
Hi everyone I hav ben on Fenugreek for about twelv months now and doing wel with my boobs.I am already into a C CUP and still getting biger, I take two capsuls three tmea per day this hase increased the haormone groweth.So how are girls ding in the CUPS.
Let into your seacrets,I dont caer much
for my Spelling though……..Bobbie
This year is a year to be feminine every day and to make my image as perfect as I can be. I started last year working out in a health club. Last year I was register by my male name and my workout clothes were ladies, but andongenous. This year I am register under my femme name with a femme pix on my ID. I lowered my weight to 150 lbs last year and this year I intend to lose another 10 lbs and am working with a PT who will work with trimming my waist, increasing my bust and butt. Love you and Happy New Year. Susan H.