Feminine Body Language Secrets – Part 2
CommentsWow, last week’s blog post on feminine body language struck a nerve. Thanks for all the great comments and extra suggestions, girls!
Last week we talked about feminine posture. But there are 4 critical elements of body language:
- Posture
- Gestures
- Facial expressions
- Eye contact
Remember, body language counts for over 50% of what you are communicating, so this is a huge part of your feminine image.
Here are DO’s and DON’Ts of mastering the other 3 elements of body language (plus some pics of me doing a little modeling for ya.):
1. Gestures
Women tend to be more expressive with their gestures than men. Next time you’re out, notice how women use their hands and bodies to express ideas when they talk.
- DO use your hands to emphasize what you are saying, but don’t overdo it. Check out GG’s for the correct balance.
- DON’T make jerky or clumsy movements. Slowing down your gestures makes you look confident and in control. Keep your elbows in and practice slow, smooth movements.
- DON’T fidget. Avoid nervous movements like twirling your hair, shaking your leg, or peeling the labels off your beer bottles.
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| DON’T fidget nervously or twirl your hair | DO practice slow, smooth movements with elbows in |
2. Facial expressions
The expressions you make say as much as the words that come out of your mouth. If you’re feeling nervous, it’s easy for this to be reflected on your face. On the other hand, pleasant facial expressions put people at ease and help you blend in and get the respect and acceptance you deserve.
- DON’T wear a stoic expression. What feels “neutral” to you may come across as grumpy to others.
- DO put on a pleasant face. Keep the corners of your mouth turned slightly up at all times.
- DO greet clerks, waiters, and people you meet with a smile – even if they’re strangers. Everybody loves a smile.
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| DON’T look stoic | DO smile! |
3. Eye contact
Eye contact is a major way to gauge a person’s personality. People who don’t make eye contact appear insecure or as if they are hiding something. People who look you in the eye appear confident and sincere.
- DON’T avoid people’s eyes. You know that confidence is half the battle to passing – so look people in the eye and show them that you’re a confident women.
- DO make eye contact and hold it for a second or two. (But not too long unless you want people to think you are trying to seduce or intimidate them!)
So what do you think? What are YOUR secrets for feminine gestures, facial expressions, and eye contact? I’d love to hear your thoughts, so leave me your comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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When I first started going out I was very nervous, worried about being outed…but then I started to have fun and soon forgot about it. It is funny that when I was nervous I outed myself…but as I loosened up smiled and laughed people just naturally started to accept me because I accepted myself. I think that compensates alot for being so large and maybe not always being so graceful…I am a bit of a clutz but I laugh about it and that makes it cute in other peoples eyes. Feeling good about yourself will make a difference. It makes a differnce in how you walk, stand, sit, and do everything. It makes you more feminine.
Thank you so much lucille for all your excellent advice. Please keep it up. You can never learn everything so never stop trying to improve.
Dear Lucille, As usual your advice is great. My wife has known about my girl side since before we married and has been supportive and helpful in so many ways. she herself is extremely feminine and so so ladylike. Over the years she has coached me in so many ways about my deportment, actions, make-up and appropriate dress.
Thankfully her casual comments are now few and far between. She gave me five bits of advice on all aspects for looking, acting and appearing to be a woman. Learn all you can about how women dress, act etc. by observing, reading and then practice, practice and practice until it becomes second nature. Luv you and thanks for everything. Susan H.
Hola Lucille (Hi! Lucille).
My English isn’t not enough good, but I want to say: believe me, you have been an enormous help to my journey across this turbulent ocean of feminization…
Espero sigas adelante con tu trabajo, pues siempres seras una mano amiga para las personas como yo.
Atentamente desde México,
Dolores Palacios.
I just came out to my BFF and you would not believe what a relief it is to have that weight lifted off my shoulders.She was very understanding and encouraged Me to be myself,especially around her.She is helping Me choose clothes and helping with My makeup.If I had known,I would have done it years ago.
Jess
You have such a special BFF
I love your advice and will contiue to become the most and sexiest female I can thanks to you I want to become a woman full time
Hiya. For all of us trying to be the woman we
KNOW that we are, any help is lovely.I agree
With Shell that it just makes you feel girly
And feminine, even if you’re only practising.
As always your tips are like pixey dust, not
Enough of it about but glorious when you’ve
Got it so you use it carefully
Love and kisses
Teri
I spend as much time as possible “People Watching” and your wonderful advise confirms what I have seen and digested. Although some time ago I got told off by my Partner for smiling to much, she called it a stupid grin! So like all things everything in moderation. I stay away from, what I can only call “Drag Queens” where every action (including make-up and dress) is so over the top. Your advise is spot on, and sometimes when doing normal things like stirring your coffee, holding a glass of wine, it just takes a little alteration to be fem. My motto is “Look, learn and do”
As always my best regards,
Lesley Ann Sanders.