Feb
09
Where Do You Present Yourself En Femme?
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One of my goals this year is to help you express MORE FEMININITY in your life. I realize that your femme side might be hidden and that you don’t get nearly enough girl time. (You’re not alone: 75% of my readers rarely or NEVER go public as women.)
So rather than writing an article for this week’s blog post, I’d like to ask the question: Where do you present yourself en femme?
Please take my poll (you can select more than one answer) and leave me your comments below!
Then stay tuned for my next email because we’re going to chat about ways to bring MORE girliness into your daily life!
Love,
Lucille
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I want to be a girl all the time, but I’m afraid of what my family and friends would think, so decided to start the flat2fem program in secret, and when my breasts get big enough to be noticable to people, I will just pretend I have no idea why its happening and just go from there.
Im not at all picky where is go, but most of the time i like shopping,or taking a walk. Nothing like the wind blowing threw your hair(and other places)…
i am young and still live at home in Nebraska. i know if my father which who i live with would disown me if he knew which makes it hard. my mother if she found out would probably tell my father so i have no were else to go but to her. its hard living in both lives and i start to wonder if it is all worth it.
“F” what others might think! Just keep your head up and walk proud, just remember dressing femme doesn’t mean you should look like a Vegas whore. That is one of the main points Lucille is trying to make.
I might be a little differant when i came out it was when i was asked to put on a nitie by my mother becaus my pj’s were all drity. So when i put it on i know at that point it all was right. to be dressed as my self.It was not until later that i new what I was, and that a woman liveing in a mans body. I started to were my mothers cloths under my own. Ie Panties, Bra’s, Nylons, and the such to school and to outtings that m mother wanted me to go. It was not until I was in Junior High School that i was wearing them all the time and,I cought quite a few times by her. At the end of being cought 12 or more times she just said go and change ) when she would catch me. I wore all of her cloths. I would change into them after she went to work and were them to school. and then change into a complate out fit after school.It cought to the point to were my mother would ask me not to wear her bra’s top bed. only to school and the such. I finely came out full time when i was 45 and i have never felt better in my life.And i live now as a woman, and work as a woman i basicaly am a woman to all. I even came ou to my church, and they are still triing to understand it all.I know that i was put here for a reason. I just need to find out so i can help others as i can. I am a business owner as-well.
I am a part time girl, hoping for full time. I go out as my true self quite often. I have enjoyed shopping trips, bars/clubs, movies, dining, etc…..
I love being Jenn.
Thanks sooooo much Lucille! I love reading you blog so very much <3
So, as for your question, I go out as my feminine self more and more as time goes on…it sort of seems more of a necessity…even though I have not come out to my family or the majority of my friends. While I started first by going out for trips in my car, then shopping and even going out to eat. But, as of the last two years, I started volunteering 1 day a week en fem at a local womans health center and I absolutely LOVE it! I look forward to my volunteer day every week!
Lucille:
I just dress at home in privet I gees I don’t feel like going out as a femme yet .
So I work the grave yard shift and I well ware my bra’s and pantie under my work
close every now and then I only dress in privet at home. I even have my night
Gown to sleep in. When I’m by my self I well go all over the house dress.
If I travel by myself I well dress in my motel room it relaxes me. There now you
know how Tammy dresses.
Tammy
Hai Luci, I am very much thankful to you. I am follow your tips and guide lines. Now i got nice shaped breast and also nice structure. Nowadays i verymuch improve my makeover skills and express my feminity. My friend are told to me you are more beauty nowadays. i am enjoyed my feminine side. Thankyou very much Dear Luci.
Looking forward and excited
I don’t go out Dressed en-fem very often, but until i cut my hair off I always wore my pony tail flipped with the topsy tail.
I wore it that way all the time, work and out and about.
One time on vacation I had a row of 5 topsy tails and received a couple of compliments.
I have presented myself dressed in a mini skirt and tennis shoes already at a small rest area walk area.And was met by a man who just looked at me with no response.
The labels, as I get fem. the onley lable I have is [[WOMAN]]!!!!!!
Larry
My breast are getting really big…I’ve been feeling more femmine with some of your stuff and some of cheetu’s stuff…I feel really good sometimes…
i live daily as a man but take every opportunity i get to dress and relax as a woman.. i do go out shopping, the park, to church and even to do laundry when femmed up… i have been on a few dates with men who wanted the companionship… i also have been growing breasts for the past year and must say that i am very pleased with my progress.. albeit trying to stay “manly” in appearance i have grown to a perky B cup… and love them… i am divorced and have 3 kids and they are the reason i probably will not progress into a full woman… how does a dad tell his children he wants to be a woman… anyway… such is life and i am happy with who i am.. where i am… and am a faithful reader of your tips and suggestions to make my relaxing transitions more appealing for all.
Hi Joanne..may I ask if you are using the flat to fem program…I have purchased, but haven’t had the opportunity to begin. It seems as though whatever you are doing is working wonderfully. Anyway, I was just curious. Hugs…you look gorgeous.
Britney
My best time is when I hire a cottage or flat for a week. Then I can be myself 24 hours a day. Among the first thing I do is to book time for a professional skin care and make up. This is such a wonderful luxury and makes me feel absolutely marvelous. I then spend time shopping and sigthseeing.
Living full time as the real me for day after day is incredible. I can live on these memories for a long time.
Maria