Poll: What is Your Feminine Style? (For Crossdressers and MTF Transgender Women)

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Is your femme self a: Classy lady? Sexy bombshell? Edgy fashionista? Bohemian princess? Or maybe you have your own totally unique style? Your personal style tells the world who you are. Are you presenting yourself as the woman you want to be? The elements that make up your style include: Clothes Accessories Hair Makeup Knowing… Continue Reading

Your First Time in Public as a Woman? (For Crossdressers and Transgender Women)

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A couple months ago, I created a poll asking how often you go out in public as a woman. I was happy to see that the majority of “my girls” go out at least occasionally. As I’ve said before, stepping out publicly is a powerful way to validate your femme self. Now I’d love to… Continue Reading

7 Simple Ways to Improve Your Appearance (MTF Transgender / Crossdressing Tips)

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Do you think that looking your best means you need a head-to-toe makeover – or even feminizing surgery? It doesn’t! Looking beautiful often comes down to a few simple changes. Of course, the basics are important. Nice hair and makeup, flattering clothes, and a reasonably fit body are a great starting point. But beyond that, it’s the… Continue Reading

What is Your Greatest Transgender or Crossdressing Achievement?

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If you’re reading this right now, then I’m guessing you work very hard at perfecting your feminine image. There’s a lot to think about, isn’t there? Clothes, hair, makeup, voice, movements … And that’s not even counting serious life changes like hormones or surgery. The problem is that when you focus on everything that still… Continue Reading

3 Rules for Dressing Sexy at Any Age (MTF Transgender / Crossdressing Tips)

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One of the biggest mistakes many crossdressers and transgender women make is dressing too sexy. This often looks ridiculous – ESPECIALLY as you get older. Does that mean you need to turn down your sex appeal after a certain age? Absolutely not, girlfriend! All you need to do is follow these 3 simple rules for dressing sexy at any… Continue Reading

Transgender / Crossdressing Poll: How Often Do You Go Out in Public as a Woman?

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Stepping out publicly as a woman is one of the most powerful ways to validate your femme self. So how often do you do it? Do you live as a woman full time? Do you crossdress on occasion? Or is the answer (sadly): never? The better I understand your lifestyle, the better I’ll be able… Continue Reading

The Top 5 Bra Styles Every Crossdresser and MTF Transgender Woman Should Own

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With so many bra options to choose from, it’s no wonder so many crossdressers and TG women get confused and wear a bra that’s the wrong size or style. In my last post, I discussed how to find your correct bra size. Now I’ll show you how to select the ideal bra STYLE. Keep reading to discover… Continue Reading

Introducing The Boudoir LA: The Ultimate Crossdressing Experience

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While my purpose with Femme Secrets is to help you express your femininity on your own terms, I know that sometimes a girl just wants to sit back and be pampered! Visiting a transformation service can be a wonderful indulgence. It can also be a powerful catalyst for your femme self. That’s why I’m excited… Continue Reading

How to Find Your Bra Size (MTF Transgender / Crossdressing Tips)

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It’s impossible not to feel totally girly in a beautiful bra – but the fact is that most crossdressers and transgender women are wearing the WRONG bra. Don’t feel bad – 80% of genetic women are too! In this 2-part series, I’m going to show you how to select the perfect bra for your feminine transformation…. Continue Reading

7 Belly-Flattening Fashion Tricks for Crossdressers and MTF Transgender Women

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A slim waist is an important symbol of feminine beauty. So does that mean all hope is lost if your tummy is your trouble spot? Absolutely not, girlfriend! Keep reading to discover 7 belly-flattening fashion tricks for crossdressers and MTF transgender women: Trick #1: Wear a shaping camisole Corsets and girdles will certainly pull you… Continue Reading