Whether you are an occasional crossdresser or live as a woman full time, lingerie is a great way to connect with your femme self.

How can you NOT feel totally girly in a pretty lace bra and panties?

But let’s face it …

It’s hard to hide your flaws when you are practically naked!

Here’s how to look HOT in feminine lingerie (even if you have a beer belly and manly hips):

1. Get the right fit

Nothing will destroy your image faster than saggy bra cups or too-tight panties creating a “muffin top”. It’s impossible to look good in lingerie that doesn’t fit right.

Your bra and panties should fit snug, but should never dig into your skin. (That’s how you get ugly bulges.)

Be sure to check your bra cups – they should fit smoothly over your breasts or breast forms. Wrinkled bra cups means you need a smaller cup size.

Need help with your size? Check out these Victoria’s Secret calculators to determine your correct bra and panty sizes.

2. Flatter your shape

The #1 secret to looking hot in lingerie is to hide your flaws (like a big belly) and highlight your assets (like sexy long legs).

Here are the most flattering pieces for crossdressers and transgender women:

• Babydoll lingerie – Babydoll lingerie is sweet and sexy and best of all, it’s great for hiding an ample belly.
• Ruffled panties – Do you wish you had bigger hips? Ruffled panties feminize your figure by adding fullness to the hips.
• Kimono robe – Slip on a sexy kimono to hide broad shoulders. Look for a sheer style so you can disguise your upper body while still showing some skin.

3. Complement your skin tone

Color has a dramatic effect on your appearance (and your mood) so choose wisely.

The most important thing is to choose colors that complement your skin tone. White and black are popular lingerie colors, but they make pale skin look even more pasty. Nude tones and bright colors flatter most skin tones.

Have some fun with this! Choose colors that make you feel sexy, girly, vampy – or whatever aspect of your personality you want to channel that day.

4. Be impeccable with your grooming

Let’s face it – there’s nothing sexy about hair peeking out of your bra or panties!

If you are going to wear beautiful lingerie, be sure your grooming habits are up to par. Shave or wax regularly and apply lotion daily so you are always prepared to show some skin.

So what do you think, girlfriend? Lingerie is one of my favorite things in the world and I’d love to hear YOUR thoughts. Do you have a favorite piece of lingerie that makes you feel ultra feminine?

Please tell me about it in the comments section below!

Love
Lucille