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Happy New Year, girlfriend!
Are you as psyched about 2012 as I am? I’ve got loads of exciting things coming up that I can’t wait to tell you about!
What about you? Have you thought about your FEMME intentions for 2012? This is a perfect time to think about how you want to honor and express your femininity this year.
But let’s face it – most resolutions fail. That’s why I’d like to share 3 tips for setting feminine intentions that you’ll actually keep:
1. Set intentions, not resolutions.
When I hear the word “resolution”, I immediately think of all the times I fell off my New Year’s diet or failed at some other goal. Ugh.
So rather than setting resolutions, I now set intentions. An intention is literally an “aim that guides action”. Intentions are more flexible than resolutions and don’t make you feel like a failure if you fall off track every now and then.
My own intentions for 2012 are: to express more gratitude, to get out of my comfort zone more often, and to take great care of my body.
What are yours?
2. Don’t set more than 3 intentions.
FOCUS is the key to accomplishing anything, including your feminine intentions. That’s why I suggest limiting yourself to 3 intentions max.
Wouldn’t it be great to accomplish a few important goals – whether it’s mastering feminine communication, creating a fund for transition, having daily girl time, etc. – instead of looking back at a bunch of half-completed goals next year?
3. Create a reminder system.
It’s easy to set intentions and then forget about them. The trick is to create a daily or weekly reminder system that will help you stick with your goals. Here are some ideas:
- Post your intentions in a place where you’ll see them often (the fridge, bathroom mirror, bulletin board, etc.).
- Write your intentions on a piece of paper and keep it in your wallet.
- Set up popup or email reminders in Google Calendar.
- Install a reminder app on your iPhone.
I’d love to hear about your FEMME intentions for 2012, so please share them with me below! 
Wishing you a year full of girly joys and wondrous surprises!
Love,
Lucille
The fastest way to be accepted as a confident, feminine woman is to FEEL like one. Clothes, makeup, and hair help, but true femininity comes from within.
The great news is that you don’t have to wait until you are “perfect” to feel more confident and feminine NOW.
The secret is to change your state of mind. Says motivational guru, Tony Robbins: “The state that you’re in at any given moment determines your perception of reality – and thus, your decisions and behaviors.”
In other words, your MOOD has a huge impact on how you feel and how you project yourself as a woman.
So how do you go from a state of insecurity and doubt to a state of confidence and femininity?
Try MUSIC! Music alters your brain wave patterns and can literally change your state within minutes.
My advice is to create a playlist of GIRLY POWER SONGS to listen to anytime you want to boost your mood and bring out your inner woman. Even better, get up and dance! Moving your body is another powerful way to change your mental/emotional state.
That said, here my top 10 girly power songs for transgender women – guaranteed to make you feel sexy, sassy, and totally feminine!
1. “Man I Feel Like a Woman” – Shania Twain
2. “Supermodel” – RuPaul
3. “I am Woman” – Helen Reddy
4. “Girls Just Wanna Have Fun” – Cyndi Lauper
5. “She Wolf” – Shakira
6. “Lady Marmalade” – Christina Aguilera, Lil’ Kim, Mya, Pink
7. “Run the World” – Beyonce
8. “Respect” – Aretha Franklin
9. “It’s Ladies Night” – Kool & the Gang
10. “My Humps” – Black Eyed Peas
What are YOUR favorite songs for bringing out your inner woman? Music is one of my favorite topics, so I’d love to hear from you. Leave me your comments below!
Love,
Lucille
P.S. Here’s one more song as a bonus. 
(Thanks to Lana for the great suggestion!)
11. “I Enjoy Being a Girl” – Flower Drum Song
