How to Look Shorter (Male to Female Transformation Tips)

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Does your height hold you back from presenting your fab femme self to the world? It shouldn’t. In fact, I say embrace your height, girlfriend! While it’s true that many crossdressers and transgender women are taller than the “average” female, who cares? Tall women are HOT! But if your goal is to downplay your height,… Continue Reading

Quiz: How Ladylike Are You? (For Crossdressers and MTF Transgender Women)

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What do you think of when you hear the word “ladylike”? I think grace, elegance, and femininity – qualities every crossdresser and transgender woman should aspire to. The question is – how ladylike are YOU? Take this fun 10 question quiz to find out!   So, how did you do? (Obviously this is just for… Continue Reading

Transgender / Crossdressing Poll: What Do You Love Most About Being a Woman?

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There are so many great things about being a girl: Shopping, getting dolled up, being permitted to be “emotional”… Those are a few of my favs. So what do YOU love most about being a woman? Please take my poll and share your comments below! Love, Lucille P.S. The #1 thing I love about being… Continue Reading

Poll: What is Your Feminine Style? (For Crossdressers and MTF Transgender Women)

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Is your femme self a: Classy lady? Sexy bombshell? Edgy fashionista? Bohemian princess? Or maybe you have your own totally unique style? Your personal style tells the world who you are. Are you presenting yourself as the woman you want to be? The elements that make up your style include: Clothes Accessories Hair Makeup Knowing… Continue Reading

7 Tips for Feminizing Your Body Movements

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The way you move is a huge part of your feminine image. But what if you feel you have all the grace of a truck driver? The good news is that there are some simple techniques for feminizing your body movements. In a previous article, I explained how to walk like a woman. Now let’s… Continue Reading

Checklist: 10 Elements of a Flawless Feminine Image (For Crossdressers and MTF Transgender Women)

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There are a LOT of details that go into creating a beautiful feminine image: Clothes, hair, makeup, shoes … The list goes on and on! To help you keep track of everything, I’ve put together a “Flawless Feminine Image Checklist”. Can you answer “YES” to these 10 questions? If so, you’re ready to share your fab… Continue Reading

7 Simple Ways to Improve Your Appearance (MTF Transgender / Crossdressing Tips)

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Do you think that looking your best means you need a head-to-toe makeover – or even feminizing surgery? It doesn’t! Looking beautiful often comes down to a few simple changes. Of course, the basics are important. Nice hair and makeup, flattering clothes, and a reasonably fit body are a great starting point. But beyond that, it’s the… Continue Reading

3 Rules for Dressing Sexy at Any Age (MTF Transgender / Crossdressing Tips)

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One of the biggest mistakes many crossdressers and transgender women make is dressing too sexy. This often looks ridiculous – ESPECIALLY as you get older. Does that mean you need to turn down your sex appeal after a certain age? Absolutely not, girlfriend! All you need to do is follow these 3 simple rules for dressing sexy at any… Continue Reading

Transgender / Crossdressing Poll: How Often Do You Go Out in Public as a Woman?

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Stepping out publicly as a woman is one of the most powerful ways to validate your femme self. So how often do you do it? Do you live as a woman full time? Do you crossdress on occasion? Or is the answer (sadly): never? The better I understand your lifestyle, the better I’ll be able… Continue Reading

Introducing The Boudoir LA: The Ultimate Crossdressing Experience

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While my purpose with Femme Secrets is to help you express your femininity on your own terms, I know that sometimes a girl just wants to sit back and be pampered! Visiting a transformation service can be a wonderful indulgence. It can also be a powerful catalyst for your femme self. That’s why I’m excited… Continue Reading