Transgender / Crossdressing Poll: Do You Blend In or Stand Out?


Are you afraid to step out as a woman for fear of not passing? Or if you’re out, do you allow your happiness to be determined by how passable you are? If so, I think you’re making a mistake. Instead of worrying about passing vs. not passing, my advice has always been to try to… Continue Reading

How to Look Hot in Swimwear (5 Tips for Crossdressers and Transgender Women)


We still have a full month of summer left in the Northern Hemisphere, so you know what that means… Still time to rock a bikini or swimsuit! Even if you aren’t ready to hit the beach en femme, I think every crossdresser and transgender women should own a bathing suit. Wear one for sunbathing, lounging… Continue Reading

How to Get an Hourglass Figure (Male to Female Transformation Tips)


One of the best things about being a woman is having CURVES galore! But maybe you’re wondering… It is really possible to look like an hourglass if you’re built like a rectangle or an apple (as many crossdressers and transgender women are)? The answer is YES! Keep reading to learn how to slim your waist and enhance… Continue Reading

How to Walk in Heels: 7 Dos and Don’ts for Crossdressers and Transgender Women


A gorgeous pair of heels instantly makes you feel slimmer, sexier, and more feminine. The trick, of course, is walking in them! Walking in heels is definitely a skill – and it’s something a lot of women (including genetic women) struggle with. Ready to perfect your sexy strut? The first step is to learn these 7 dos and… Continue Reading

How to Speak like a Woman (Male to Female Transformation Tips)


There’s more to speaking like a woman than the sound of your voice. The words you use (and how you use them) are just as important! It doesn’t matter how good you look or how “passable” your feminine voice might be… If you speak like a guy, you’re going to send mixed messages to people…. Continue Reading

How to Become a Sexy Woman: 4 Tips for Crossdressers and Transgender Women


Want to know the secret to becoming a sexy woman? Here’s what it’s NOT: Wearing super short skirts and stripper heels Putting on huge breast forms Pouting your lips and sticking your butt out True sexiness is a state of mind! There are lots of small things you can do to boost your feminine sex… Continue Reading

How to Look Hot in Feminine Lingerie (MTF Transgender / Crossdressing Tips)


Whether you’re an occasional crossdresser or live as a woman full time, lingerie is a great way to connect with your femme self. How can you NOT feel totally girly in a pretty lace bra and panties? But let’s face it… It’s hard to hide your flaws when you are practically naked! Here’s how to… Continue Reading

How Do You “Label” Yourself? (Gender Identity Q&A)


When I tell people about my work with the TG/CD community, I occasionally get responses like: “Oh, you mean drag queens?” Or… “You work with transvestites?” There’s a lot of ignorance out there and I get annoyed when people mislabel “my girls”. The fact that there are so many identities under the transgender umbrella only… Continue Reading

Where to Find Women’s Shoes in Your Size (MTF Transgender / Crossdressing Tips)


Note from Lucille: This is a guest post from Alex of Isy B. Shoes. Enjoy – and if you know any other resources for large size women’s shoes, be sure to share them with us below! A beautiful pair of shoes can give you a boost of confidence — and show the world just who… Continue Reading

How to Look Hot in Your Femme Photos (MTF Transgender / Crossdressing Tips)


Photos are a great way to share your femme self with the world. But maybe you think you have to look like a model to take stunning photos? Guess again! Taking beautiful photos is all about SKILL. Here are my top 5 secrets for looking HOT in your femme photos: 1. Angle your body When… Continue Reading