I hope 2023 is off to a great start for you!
I don’t know about you, but I love the fresh start that a new year brings…
On that note, do you have any goals or resolutions for your female self for 2023?
If so, I’d love to hear them!
Please take my poll and share your femme goals below. (Note: You can select more than one answer in the poll.)
Wishing you a fun, feminine, fabulous 2023!
Love,
Lucille
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I finally made the commitment to getting whole body laser hair removal and just had my first session 2 days ago! I’m soooo excited as I’ve wanted this for a long time!
I love feeling completely smooth all over and hate ingrown hairs and razor bumps from shaving. This will help me to feel more feminine always and inspire me to further my feminization at a faster rate. ❤
I just want to be more loved and accepted as a very beautiful full figure plus size woman and to keep dressing as a very beautiful full figure plus size woman
I just want to enjoy continuing dressing as a woman
Hopefully be able to get out in public dressed way more often than I have the last two years. I really miss having not been able to get out shopping and to cultural events due to covid and family related problems.
I was on Pueraria Mirifica for about 6 months up until July of last year and did have some breast development (nothing to a decent ‘A’ cup) but stopped due to some potential medical problems that may have been related to taking it. If the Dr. doesn’t think it might be related I would love to start again and hopefully get to a ‘C’ cup so I can fill my bra’s with me and not need my silicone breastforms any longer.
I started HRT over 3 years ago and have been following your program since. I even purchased the “Unleash Your Inner Woman” program. I lost my phone and I was able to get the program back. And got a personal message back from Lucille. I thought that was a very nice touch. I have used several of these programs and I love them. Thank you Lucille for what you do for the transgender community. I know I appreciate what you do. Thank you.
I actually completed my first goal-I showed up and surprised my therapist as Melinda from head to toe for our first session of the year. She was completely blown away and told me I inspire her.
The best advice as a trans woman of 19 years can give to those starting don’t rush. Transition takes time….give your body time. I developed to a 36DD without the need for breast augmentation. Your body can become a shaplier with exercise. Transition takes a strong person to handle the criticism, discrimination, and don’t get offended by wrong pronouns…..life’s to short to worry about trivial things. If someone doesn’t want to date you, it may be you’re not their cup of tea. Don’t think a person is being transphobic. There is to much negative in the trans community…be a positive. This negatively affects the trans community as a whole, when one goes out of their way to be a bad influence. Be kind and respectful of others, even if you don’t share the same views. After all we are all entitled to our opinions. Best wishes to those just starting out.
Jessica
Ahhh, you are wise.
Hi I have been working on getting My
Name and gender marker changed
In Oklahoma! That says it all!
I started my transition exactly 12 months ago. It’s my second attempt and this time I’m going to pull it through. (I crapped out of the first one 15 years ago while I was still in college, I guess I was just too immature back then and couldn’t handle the emotional pressure.) My point is, this time, I already had a foundation to build on (like, very little body hair, experience with facial electrolysis and pain management, voice training, being emotionally prepared for the “funny” effects of hormones, you name it), so didn’t have start from scratch.
My ’22 goals are:
* Face: Get finished with hair removal/electrolysis. I’m almost done, there’s only very little hair left on the upper lip, all other other areas of my face and neck are clean. I expect to be entirely done by end of February.
* I have my FFS scheduled for April, hoping that this will remedy my most pressing dysphoria pain points (nose, lips, chin, eyebrows, hairline, larynx). For me, it’s THE single biggest step at all in my transition.
* Body hair: wearing a proper bathing suit (bikini top and a mini skirt, to conceal the pre-GCS bulge) and with a little shaving here and there, I already pass as a female. I have laser epilation booked for the whole year through and expect that there’ll be no more re-growth of visible body hair by the end of the year.
* Top hair: Continue to grow out my hair. I consider myself lucky that my hair grows reasonably fast, about half an inch per month. It’s shortly above my shoulders now, and I hope it’ll be well down below my breasts by end of this year. Of course, hair never grows fast enough, imo, but that’s the same for cis women 😉
* HRT: I plan on getting (re)started with hormones shortly after my FFS. I know what to expect (the good as well as the bad), and this time, I think (I hope) I’m emotionally and mentally prepared and can handle it.
* Body: I’m planning to have a body contouring procedure around mid-year, provided the circumstances of the pandemic allow for it.
* Voice: Thanks to having a naturally high voice (for an AMAB), singing, and the M2F voice training Iessons I took some 15 years ago, I pass 100 percent as female, voice-wise. Nonetheless, I have (sometimes more, sometimes less) dysphoria about it and I’m anxious that in some weird stress situation, my voice might accidentally slip out of control and out of tune. Therefore, I want to undergo VFS by around the end of the year (so that I could use the Xmas holidays for the initial phase of voice recovery) in order to remove the physical precondition that would permit such a kind of accident, in the first place.
* Breasts: IF, and only if, the circumstances (my budget, all other procedures working out according to schedule, grace time between surgeries, and of course, the pandemic) allow for it, I would be over the top happy if I could have breast augmentation surgery (implants). But it’s not a dysphoria pain point for me, since I already have natural (small) B cups that provide enough cleavage to wear any top I like.
It’s not even close to what I would *like* to do, but I think it’s an ambitious schedule anyway and if it’s going to pan out as planned, I could tick off some major milestones on my transition roadmap and I’d be more than happy.
I wish ya all much success in ’22, gals, and the strength and determination to pursue your dreams! … Love, Shelly