Photos are a powerful way to express your feminine self.
Whether you take selfies or get professional photos, beautiful pictures can be a major confidence booster for any crossdresser or transgender woman.
The best part is, you don’t need to be a supermodel to look fabulous in photos! It’s all about skill – and avoiding a few common mistakes.
In this blog post, I’ll walk you through 5 common photo posing mistakes and how to fix them!
1. Shooting Shoulders Straight On
If you’re worried about having broad shoulders or a larger upper body, there’s a simple trick to help you achieve a slimmer appearance.
Simply angle your shoulders away from the camera to create a more flattering look. By doing so, you can minimize their width and create more feminine-looking body proportions.
2. Holding Your Body Too Straight
We all know the struggle of looking stiff and awkward in photos. The secret to capturing flattering and feminine shots is to embrace softness and curves in your body positioning.
Get playful and try bending your arms and legs slightly, tilting your head, pushing a hip out, and letting your fingers relax.
These simple adjustments can make a world of difference in creating attractive photos.
3. Shooting in Unflattering Light
Lighting makes all the difference in the world in photos. The #1 rule is to avoid strong overhead or side lighting since this creates ugly shadows on the face. Here are some tips to keep in mind:
- If at all possible, take photos in natural daylight. Try shooting in front of a window where there is soft natural light.
- If you are shooting indoors and don’t have enough natural light, use a ring light or try placing a couple lamps with soft lighting around you.
- If you’re outdoors, avoid shooting in strong midday sunlight. The best time of day is to shoot at dusk or dawn when the sun has a soft, diffused glow.
4. Placing the Camera Below Eye Level
If you want to avoid that dreaded double chin in your photos, never pose with the camera below eye level.
For a more flattering look, position the lens at or above eye level. This simple adjustment not only helps diminish a double chin and downplay a prominent jawline, but it also makes your eyes appear bigger and more captivating.
5. Not Engaging Your Mind
Looking great in photos is as much about mindset as it is about your appearance. Trust me, if you’re not feeling fabulous, it’ll definitely reflect in your pictures.
Now, let’s talk about boosting your confidence during those photo sessions. An easy trick is to imagine that you’re portraying a character, be it a real or imagined persona.
Think Megan Fox, Cleopatra, or Sophia Loren. By “modeling” yourself after someone else, you can tap into their energy and charisma, infusing your photos with that captivating aura.
Let’s see your best shot!
Taking great photos is only the first step. Sharing them with the world is where the real magic happens!
On that note, I’d love to see the photos you’re most proud of. Please share your femme photos in the comments below!
Love,
Lucille
P.S. If you enjoyed this article, you’ll love my Stepping Out Secrets Program! This training program covers the 6 “alluring arts” that must be mastered to create a stunning feminine image. It even includes a bonus module on photo posing!
Helpful advice, as usual. Thanks.
thyank you you are so helpful thanks a bunch coket
This may seem a bit weird, but it works. I want to minimize the appearance of my double chin, so if I have to get a face-on photo, I crane my head forward some, and try to tilt my face very slightly down and lower my head a little. This both stretches and hides the neck flab. It’s not always possible to do this and avoid looking really strange, and if overdone, suddenly you don’t have a neck in the pic! But it works in many cases, especially in head-and-neck ID photos. Other times ya just gotta grin yer way through it.
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thanks for the tips lucille xx
Great tips Lucille! They are so true..I have been busy myself trying to take the best pics that I can..Also I have been playing with photoshop to make them even better..For the past couple of years I have been trying differnt outfits, makeup and photo shots to look as fem and natral as a women..Next is to work on voice..I have a deep mans voice..In need of lots of help on this..
U look great!
Have u had Amy look with our voice? I find this the most daunting, don’t know where to start!
GOOD RESULT
ASSELLE
hiya lucille,
I just wanted to say thank you so much for giving us tg girls some great advice and just for being there for us, giving us hope of finding a happy place in a world that can be so hurtful and mean
take care
pippa
x
Hi Naterlie, thanks for your kind thoughts. I’m in northern Virginia, outside of Washington, DC.
omg Gina you look fabulous and i luv your hair short so sexy!