Did you know that your clothes are the first thing people notice about you?
It’s true! And that means that the right clothing is critical to your female image.
In this article, I share 10 essentials that should be part of your feminine wardrobe. Here are the must-have transgender / crossdressing clothes you need to own!
1. Little Black Dress
Every woman should own a little black dress. It’s a wardrobe staple. A simple black dress in a flattering length can go from day to night and will never go out of style.
2. Basic Bra
A great fitting bra is every girl’s “breast” friend. Here are 3 tips for choosing the right MTF bra:
- Start with the two basic bra colors: one black and one nude color that matches your skin tone.
- Avoid frilly or lacy textures that can be visible from beneath your clothes.
- If you wear breast forms, choose a full coverage bra with underwires and substantial straps.
Avoid the temptation to wear a white bra under white or lightweight fabrics – white tends to show through while nude blends in with your body.
3. A Vibrant Scarf
A colorful scarf is a wardrobe must. Scarves are extremely versatile, particularly for trans women and crossdressers.
A scarf can be worn around the neck to disguise an Adam’s apple or draped over the shoulders to minimize the look of a broad upper body.
4. Black Pumps
Shoes are your most important accessory. Classic pumps are sexy, feminine, and work well with many types of clothes. Black pumps with a 2″-3″ heel and rounded toe are classic and will give you the most mileage. (Choose a lower heel if you are tall.)
5. Shoulder Bag
Bags are a status symbol among women, so it’s worth investing in a great shoulder bag. You don’t have to splurge on a designer bag, but look for a classy, upscale design that complements your existing wardrobe.
6. Waist Cincher
A waist cincher is a great way to reduce the belly for crossdressers and transgender women who tend to carry weight in the midsection. Here’s how to figure up the sort of waist cincher you’ll need:
- Use a boned waist cincher for a dramatic shaping effect.
- Use a shaping camisole for comfort and control.
7. Two Skirts
Two simple skirts in neutral colors will give you almost endless options for mixing and matching with other items in your feminine wardrobe. Choose:
- One fitted skirt, like a pencil skirt
- One skirt that’s pleated or full
8. Sheer Black Hose or Tights
Bare legs might be trendy, but in cooler months, nothing beats the polished look of hosiery. Control top hose or tights are also great for helping flatten out the tummy. Go for classic black pantyhose or tights.
9. Figure Flattering Jacket
Jackets are endlessly versatile. Since they are more structured than other pieces, they’re great for figure shaping. Look for tailored jackets that accentuate the waist and add curves.
Styles of jackets that work well for crossdressers and transgender women include:
- Peplums
- Belted styles
- Empire waists
- Gathered fabric
- Feminine details like princess seams and darts
Avoid boxy jackets and shoulder pads as these can accentuate a square body shape and/or broad shoulders.
10. Evening Clutch
A sleek clutch can dress up even the most casual outfit and is a must for the evening. Clutches look more chic than shoulder bags at night and can really set your outfit apart.
What are YOUR wardrobe essentials?
These 10 transgender / crossdressing clothing pieces are a great place to start. Once you’ve covered the basics, the fun begins and you can add on items that reflect your own unique style.
Now it’s your turn to tell me about your must-have items. Share them in the comments below, or better yet, upload a selfie showing off your favorite outfit!
Love,
Lucille
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My favorite female clothes is well sewed long dress, especcially flower printed dress. Now I have in my wardrobe 132 dresses and the most of them are long.
I have been on a major diet and need to scrap my old wardrobe and replace it. So these tips are timely for me. Time to build anew, it should be done right.
What a great item and i agree totally. I love my check dress’s but i started with a little black dress. just need the confidence to go out now
Well,me,I prefer a pair of black flats. I got birdtoes,so flip flops are out. A good pair of black flats can go with alot,and their not as hot as boots or tennis shoes.
I’m a sucker for skinny jeans. I can’t live without em.
I loved your top ten tips, although my wardrobe is split into two, as a mature lady my clothing reflects my years in one wardrobe, in my other wardrobe is all my dominatrix/kinky clothing ranging from PVC and rubber.
I love a corset as an essentail, in addition to what you have as the 10 essentails,
Take Care Wilma
Hello Wilma Ann–
I cannot wear a corset because my belly is not flat, and I will end up losing clutches (like a 100% chance), so for me the essentials are tight hose and flats.
Perfect “Top 10” and advise for the beginner, or even the veteran. My three Tricks of the Trade books elaborate on the above advise even more. If anyone is interested in securing my books, of which Lucille is a contributor, let me know. Hugs, Carollyn
Hi Carollyn
I would dearly love to find out more details about your Tricks Of The Trade publications.
Love Richard
Please write me at: carollynolson@yahoo.com and I will get you all the information on the books. They are on Amazon Kindle right now under my name. Thanks, CC
I’m interested. … if I can afford them. More info?
Please write me at: carollynolson@yahoo.com
I will send you all the information on the books on Monday. Thanks, CC
Thanks Carolyn! Proud to be part of your fabulous resources. Do check out her books, ladies. 🙂
Thanks for the compliment on my books. Without your help, they would never be as comprehensive as they are. Love ya, CC