Did you know that your clothes are the first thing people notice about you?
It’s true! And that means that the right clothing is critical to your female image.
In this article, I share 10 essentials that should be part of your feminine wardrobe. Here are the must-have transgender / crossdressing clothes you need to own!
1. Little Black Dress
Every woman should own a little black dress. It’s a wardrobe staple. A simple black dress in a flattering length can go from day to night and will never go out of style.
2. Basic Bra
A great fitting bra is every girl’s “breast” friend. Here are 3 tips for choosing the right MTF bra:
- Start with the two basic bra colors: one black and one nude color that matches your skin tone.
- Avoid frilly or lacy textures that can be visible from beneath your clothes.
- If you wear breast forms, choose a full coverage bra with underwires and substantial straps.
Avoid the temptation to wear a white bra under white or lightweight fabrics – white tends to show through while nude blends in with your body.
3. A Vibrant Scarf
A colorful scarf is a wardrobe must. Scarves are extremely versatile, particularly for trans women and crossdressers.
A scarf can be worn around the neck to disguise an Adam’s apple or draped over the shoulders to minimize the look of a broad upper body.
4. Black Pumps
Shoes are your most important accessory. Classic pumps are sexy, feminine, and work well with many types of clothes. Black pumps with a 2″-3″ heel and rounded toe are classic and will give you the most mileage. (Choose a lower heel if you are tall.)
5. Shoulder Bag
Bags are a status symbol among women, so it’s worth investing in a great shoulder bag. You don’t have to splurge on a designer bag, but look for a classy, upscale design that complements your existing wardrobe.
6. Waist Cincher
A waist cincher is a great way to reduce the belly for crossdressers and transgender women who tend to carry weight in the midsection. Here’s how to figure up the sort of waist cincher you’ll need:
- Use a boned waist cincher for a dramatic shaping effect.
- Use a shaping camisole for comfort and control.
7. Two Skirts
Two simple skirts in neutral colors will give you almost endless options for mixing and matching with other items in your feminine wardrobe. Choose:
- One fitted skirt, like a pencil skirt
- One skirt that’s pleated or full
8. Sheer Black Hose or Tights
Bare legs might be trendy, but in cooler months, nothing beats the polished look of hosiery. Control top hose or tights are also great for helping flatten out the tummy. Go for classic black pantyhose or tights.
9. Figure Flattering Jacket
Jackets are endlessly versatile. Since they are more structured than other pieces, they’re great for figure shaping. Look for tailored jackets that accentuate the waist and add curves.
Styles of jackets that work well for crossdressers and transgender women include:
- Peplums
- Belted styles
- Empire waists
- Gathered fabric
- Feminine details like princess seams and darts
Avoid boxy jackets and shoulder pads as these can accentuate a square body shape and/or broad shoulders.
10. Evening Clutch
A sleek clutch can dress up even the most casual outfit and is a must for the evening. Clutches look more chic than shoulder bags at night and can really set your outfit apart.
What are YOUR wardrobe essentials?
These 10 transgender / crossdressing clothing pieces are a great place to start. Once you’ve covered the basics, the fun begins and you can add on items that reflect your own unique style.
Now it’s your turn to tell me about your must-have items. Share them in the comments below, or better yet, upload a selfie showing off your favorite outfit!
Love,
Lucille
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Hi Ladies – I agree with all of Lucille’s advice on items needed in your wardrobe. I’m a girly type of transgender woman and I also love my little black dress for fun outings in the evening. Here is a photo of me a few months ago, before this virus thing hit us! I’m 73 and retired and live my life pretty much 24/7 as a woman and love it! Hugs, Suzy
You are so lucky to do as you wish.
I am 71 and would love to be as open as you are.
God bless you!
I mostly wear pants and shorts….rarely do I go anywhere, where it would require me to dress up.
You are so pretty and I wish I were young and could express myself like you do.
When I was young I would have never been able to dress as a girl like I would have loved to do.
I’d be dead without a bunch of henleys 🙂
A well fitting pair of Black Pants is one of my staples.
By the way I have a size 12 waist and size 6 hips, and size recommendations?
How is that possible? How are you two different sizes?
I where a size 6 panties and with a size 40 waste
my legs are like base ball bat size,
I would love to be small from top to bottom!
A pair of well fitting black or navy PANTS is one of my “essentials”.
By the way I have a size 12 waist and size 6 hips what size would fit best?
Oh my, 10 essentials? I think I have two-hundred and 10!! 🙂
I’ll answer as if I could only have 10 items in my wardrobe, they’d be:
1- stretch-lace padded push-up bra
2- little black dress (body-con zip-up back sheath)
3- black lace-top thigh highs
4- cute black cushioned flats
5- two black skirts (cotton, satin-lined pencil and rayon flared-pleat)
6- classic ivory crepe long-sleeved sheer blouse
7- cute Nine West black shoulder purse
8- tan silk-blend fitted blazer with tan-white-black flowered silk scarf
9- white lacy body-on nylon camisole with rolled silk spaghetti straps
10- stretch cotton-knit off-white long sleeve ribbed turtleneck
A corset is a must
Dianne
You look beautiful, feminine, and classy xoxo
Dianne, you have a lovely figure and great fashion sense!
Stephanie
A corset is the best!
Dianne
Hi all,
I am sure we all have our own fashion ideas. My wife teases me of having a fifties housewife style. But we are daring to wear who we are and that’s what matters.
xoxo,
Sarah
Love the entire look . That dress is sooo pretty:)
Hi Sarah,
You look fabulous. I love your fashion style.
Love Irene
Thanks Irene, we all need every bit of encouragement we can get.
🙂
I could not agree moor