Did you know that your clothes are the first thing people notice about you?
It’s true! And that means that the right clothing is critical to your female image.
In this article, I share 10 essentials that should be part of your feminine wardrobe. Here are the must-have transgender / crossdressing clothes you need to own!
1. Little Black Dress
Every woman should own a little black dress. It’s a wardrobe staple. A simple black dress in a flattering length can go from day to night and will never go out of style.
2. Basic Bra
A great fitting bra is every girl’s “breast” friend. Here are 3 tips for choosing the right MTF bra:
- Start with the two basic bra colors: one black and one nude color that matches your skin tone.
- Avoid frilly or lacy textures that can be visible from beneath your clothes.
- If you wear breast forms, choose a full coverage bra with underwires and substantial straps.
Avoid the temptation to wear a white bra under white or lightweight fabrics – white tends to show through while nude blends in with your body.
3. A Vibrant Scarf
A colorful scarf is a wardrobe must. Scarves are extremely versatile, particularly for trans women and crossdressers.
A scarf can be worn around the neck to disguise an Adam’s apple or draped over the shoulders to minimize the look of a broad upper body.
4. Black Pumps
Shoes are your most important accessory. Classic pumps are sexy, feminine, and work well with many types of clothes. Black pumps with a 2″-3″ heel and rounded toe are classic and will give you the most mileage. (Choose a lower heel if you are tall.)
5. Shoulder Bag
Bags are a status symbol among women, so it’s worth investing in a great shoulder bag. You don’t have to splurge on a designer bag, but look for a classy, upscale design that complements your existing wardrobe.
6. Waist Cincher
A waist cincher is a great way to reduce the belly for crossdressers and transgender women who tend to carry weight in the midsection. Here’s how to figure up the sort of waist cincher you’ll need:
- Use a boned waist cincher for a dramatic shaping effect.
- Use a shaping camisole for comfort and control.
7. Two Skirts
Two simple skirts in neutral colors will give you almost endless options for mixing and matching with other items in your feminine wardrobe. Choose:
- One fitted skirt, like a pencil skirt
- One skirt that’s pleated or full
8. Sheer Black Hose or Tights
Bare legs might be trendy, but in cooler months, nothing beats the polished look of hosiery. Control top hose or tights are also great for helping flatten out the tummy. Go for classic black pantyhose or tights.
9. Figure Flattering Jacket
Jackets are endlessly versatile. Since they are more structured than other pieces, they’re great for figure shaping. Look for tailored jackets that accentuate the waist and add curves.
Styles of jackets that work well for crossdressers and transgender women include:
- Peplums
- Belted styles
- Empire waists
- Gathered fabric
- Feminine details like princess seams and darts
Avoid boxy jackets and shoulder pads as these can accentuate a square body shape and/or broad shoulders.
10. Evening Clutch
A sleek clutch can dress up even the most casual outfit and is a must for the evening. Clutches look more chic than shoulder bags at night and can really set your outfit apart.
What are YOUR wardrobe essentials?
These 10 transgender / crossdressing clothing pieces are a great place to start. Once you’ve covered the basics, the fun begins and you can add on items that reflect your own unique style.
Now it’s your turn to tell me about your must-have items. Share them in the comments below, or better yet, upload a selfie showing off your favorite outfit!
Love,
Lucille
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My favorite outfit would probably be sheer mesh tight leggings ultra sheer suntan pantyhose a cute nylon off the shoulder crop top and sexy toe cleavage flats…..or maybe a pair of luscious nude wedges….OMG!!!…and I haven’t even started with makeup and lipstick and yummy lashes and darling cute wigs!……
my 10 essentials are totally different then most of you girls. 1 is slips half and full slips 2 night gowns that go all the to the floor. 3 silky panties that make feel good all day. 4 control tank tops with built in bras that i can wear every day even in male mode. 5 stockings either knee or thy high so i can wear every day under pants or skirts and dresses. 6 the most prettiest floral print maxi desses you can buy because when put one of these on you can not think of anything but being femine. 7 silky floral blouses that trap you on the femine side when you wear them 8 long skirts that make feel good all day. 9 flats and mules are my go to shoes. 10 petticoats and lacey bras and camisoles are the only way to make a swing dress or skirt look good that is my 10 essntials
I agree, long flowing nightgowns feel sooo good. I would also include cute short and flowy sundresses that you can wear with some short heels or some cute flat t-strap sandals. I also love some cute capris. You can’t have enough panties of all kinds, sheer lace cheekys, bikinis of all kinds, even some granny panties for you simply are not feeling sexy lol !!!
I posted this LBD & a Smile and it disappeared?
You look stunning and happy in that LBD!
You look cute and so sexy. Love your legs!
A few accessories, hats , glasses , bag , and as always !!! A Smile !
A smile in a LBD
& confidence!
I don’t see blogs to help out the oversized. I’m a size 32. Never sure what to wear. I’d love to be a 14/16, what girl wouldn’t, but that’s not achievable for me.
Hi Lesley,
I know how you feel. I am in the same boat you are. It doesn’t mean we are any less feminine though.
I just don’t feel very feminine. When I look in the mirror I don’t like what I see and am very self conscious
Hello ladies,
I am surprised that a pair of jeans and sandals are not on the list… I am very casual and I love to go out in well fitted jeans, a cute tshirt, and a pair of thin sandals…
Berenise ♡
I don’t go anywhere that would require me to dress-up. This is as fancy as I ever get….lol
Best Wishes, Jessica
I love your blouses, they are sooo cute and feminine. You are truly beautiful!
Thank you
You are making me jealous – I envy you, So Pretty!
I just feel more comfortable in jeans and t shirts, tank tops, and blouses that can work with jeans
Really, you are vary beautiful, would even be hotter if you dressed for a night out. Wearing a little black dress with heels .,
Yeah I have no reason or need to dress up.