Did you know that your clothes are the first thing people notice about you?
It’s true! And that means that the right clothing is critical to your female image.
In this article, I share 10 essentials that should be part of your feminine wardrobe. Here are the must-have transgender / crossdressing clothes you need to own!
1. Little Black Dress
Every woman should own a little black dress. It’s a wardrobe staple. A simple black dress in a flattering length can go from day to night and will never go out of style.
2. Basic Bra
A great fitting bra is every girl’s “breast” friend. Here are 3 tips for choosing the right MTF bra:
- Start with the two basic bra colors: one black and one nude color that matches your skin tone.
- Avoid frilly or lacy textures that can be visible from beneath your clothes.
- If you wear breast forms, choose a full coverage bra with underwires and substantial straps.
Avoid the temptation to wear a white bra under white or lightweight fabrics – white tends to show through while nude blends in with your body.
3. A Vibrant Scarf
A colorful scarf is a wardrobe must. Scarves are extremely versatile, particularly for trans women and crossdressers.
A scarf can be worn around the neck to disguise an Adam’s apple or draped over the shoulders to minimize the look of a broad upper body.
4. Black Pumps
Shoes are your most important accessory. Classic pumps are sexy, feminine, and work well with many types of clothes. Black pumps with a 2″-3″ heel and rounded toe are classic and will give you the most mileage. (Choose a lower heel if you are tall.)
5. Shoulder Bag
Bags are a status symbol among women, so it’s worth investing in a great shoulder bag. You don’t have to splurge on a designer bag, but look for a classy, upscale design that complements your existing wardrobe.
6. Waist Cincher
A waist cincher is a great way to reduce the belly for crossdressers and transgender women who tend to carry weight in the midsection. Here’s how to figure up the sort of waist cincher you’ll need:
- Use a boned waist cincher for a dramatic shaping effect.
- Use a shaping camisole for comfort and control.
7. Two Skirts
Two simple skirts in neutral colors will give you almost endless options for mixing and matching with other items in your feminine wardrobe. Choose:
- One fitted skirt, like a pencil skirt
- One skirt that’s pleated or full
8. Sheer Black Hose or Tights
Bare legs might be trendy, but in cooler months, nothing beats the polished look of hosiery. Control top hose or tights are also great for helping flatten out the tummy. Go for classic black pantyhose or tights.
9. Figure Flattering Jacket
Jackets are endlessly versatile. Since they are more structured than other pieces, they’re great for figure shaping. Look for tailored jackets that accentuate the waist and add curves.
Styles of jackets that work well for crossdressers and transgender women include:
- Peplums
- Belted styles
- Empire waists
- Gathered fabric
- Feminine details like princess seams and darts
Avoid boxy jackets and shoulder pads as these can accentuate a square body shape and/or broad shoulders.
10. Evening Clutch
A sleek clutch can dress up even the most casual outfit and is a must for the evening. Clutches look more chic than shoulder bags at night and can really set your outfit apart.
What are YOUR wardrobe essentials?
These 10 transgender / crossdressing clothing pieces are a great place to start. Once you’ve covered the basics, the fun begins and you can add on items that reflect your own unique style.
Now it’s your turn to tell me about your must-have items. Share them in the comments below, or better yet, upload a selfie showing off your favorite outfit!
Love,
Lucille
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can someone suggest a good coat for this outfit please
Hello Zoya,
Form fitting jeans really accentuate your figure! Love your shoes gurl.
It’s so refreshing to just dress up and accept what I am, a woman inside.
I have just started to wear stockings and panties for my master as he loves me to be his slave and when we meet I get punished I can’t wait
I find that women’s dresses with a built in waist don’t work for me because the waist line is at a difficult place for women and me.
Instead, I buy straight waisted dresses and use a belt.
Yeah I have no reason or need to dress up.
I’m planning on dressing and going out in public for the first time for this closet CD/now emerging trans.
This is the outfit I’m planning with simple black sketchers. I want to add a scarf but I don’t know if I should go vibrant since the outfit is quite muted, or keep with this style and go plain colour.
Is that you in the photo?
I was doing some research on trans dressing because I just found out my brother has been hiding his “inner woman” from us for years.
Im a little frightened to say that you are really cute. If I saw you in a bar on a night out you look exactly like the type of girl I would start chatting to.
I haven’t seen my brother dressed up yet but he is kinda your same build so maybe he looks good too.
go for it girl, you look so cute in that outfit, you would blend right in! could you send me the link for the cardigan please, i would really like it!
I think your outfit is cute! Go gurl 🙂
I adore steel boned corsets for that hourglass shape.
Corsets are amazing.
You look stunning!!!
Great tips! I am looking into some of them
When I had my first apartment, I bought this little number from Sears and the Kardashian Kollection. I love the fact that it has pockets.
Cute and practical for sure 🙂
Thanks, Honey