I’ve observed that many crossdressers and transgender women recognize their gender identity at a young age. For some, it’s an early realization, while for others, it unfolds later in life.
I’m curious about your experience…
When did you first realize you were female or had a feminine side? Was this something you felt as a child, or did it develop over time?
I’d love to hear your story! Feel free share your thoughts in the comments below!
Love,
Lucille
For me I was 11 or 12 when I knew some thing was not right. I hated the boy thing. I mean playing with dolls. Lord I even dressed Ken as a girl. My older sister to pity on me and help me dress and do my makeup. Until I was 17 then she married. Luckily my wife allows me time to be myself, pisses her off because I look better then her. She has said that often. Lord I know how lucky I am. I don’t know where I’d be if I couldn’t be a girl inside and out.
Love and Kisses
Nikki
I was a late bloomer. Or at least as far as I can tell I was. I knew there was always something different about me as far back in my early childhood as I can remember but had never really given being feminine a thought. I never wore makeup or put on feminine clothing. Then in my early to mid fifties, a friend of mine picked up on my “being different” and recognized all the signs. She explained to me it was alright to be the person I was meant to be. Not just to be the person society taught me I should be. When I found out how wonderful it felt to dress feminine and act accordingly, I was amazed and felt a load lifted from my shoulders. In fifty years I was never any happier than I am now.
Roni
I first tried on my older sister’s bra and underwear when I was about 10! I laid down in it and it felt sooo good that I came almost imeadiately and felt great!!!! That was my first time!
Tammy , I can totally relate to that first experience and feeling wonderful after that first ejaculation.
I didn’t become interested in cross dressing until after my wife went through menopause and we stopped have sex because it was too painful for her. I was over 60 at the time. I started by wearing panties. It seemed to make me feel closer to my wife. I wanted to more feminine! I now wear them 24/7 and wear makeup and jewelry in public in boy mode, and “dress up” fully on occasions.
Paula
Paula I am in the same boat about menopause and my wife! But I still hide my innerfeelings for silk and nylon! They feel so right!
The first time I felt like a girl was when I was watching my Mother undressing and wanted to try her undies on, and when I did I felt very different and at every opportunity I put her corset or dresses on, it made me feel good.
i think from a very early age i realiised i should have been born a women maybe 5 or 6 i knew i was a girl but i have been very feminine all my life
i started my transition for myself only 3 years ago as it got to a point where i could no longer deny the real me and felt i needed to live my life for myself and not please other people which was what i was doing but i was scared of what other people would think
As i have struggled with depression for most of my life which my gender was the cause of my depression but after starting my journey it went away completly and i am so much more happy and setled within myself
but i am now well on my journey living full time for well over 3 years now and having facial hair removal and speach therapy and i have been on hormones now for a year and have a wonderful and supportive boyfriend i changed my name about 2 years ago now
my family kwew from the start about how i identify from how i have behaved as a child and more so now
i do have a brother who is a homophobe
but my mother father and sister all support my decion to live my life as the women i am
thankyou
katie
I had my first experience when I was about five, I realized I wanted to be a girl at that time when I tried on for size my moms breast pumps. Ever since I have tried every thing I can to be as a girl, I loved dressing up in my sisters clothing whenever I found my self alone at home. As I grew older I lived alone for some time and went out a few times dressed as a woman. I am back in the closet for now just waiting to come out for good.
Since my mother wanted a baby girl after the 1st boy child she already had and it was her last chance because the doctors had told her she cant concieve after that. when I was born it was a great disappointment, bit gradually she got over it bit she bupto my 5th year brought me up as a girl. omly wjen i had to go to school, she allowed my hairs to cut and wear boys dresses. nut u remained a shy boy not interested in outdoor games and was more comfortable in the company of girls. I used to be teased a lot by the boys
After completing education and going through arranged marriage to a successful career minded girl and having a baby girl, when i got a chance tp feel those soft smooth gorls dresses. my child good memories came back, and i desperately wanred wear women;s dresse. i couldnor resost for a long rime and started weaing my wife’s undergarments. the strai of doing rgis stealthily was too much and i did come out to mt wife. After the initial shock and reluctence dhe dod agree with some conditions. mainly only She woll know and nobody shoiuld know about it and more importatntly when i dressed I will be the woman of the house and has take care of the house, perhaps that was to dissuade me, But i readily agreed
Now I have left my job and become a full tome home maker and am dressed up most of the time and enjoy the role of the woman of the house