Stepping out publicly as a woman is a powerful way to validate your female self.
In fact, I recently published a poll asking “How often do you go out in public as a woman?”
I was happy to see that the majority of my readers (transgender women and crossdressers) go out at least occasionally.
No matter how often you do it, I’m sure you can remember your first time presenting as a woman or crossdressing in public.
Since this is such an important gender-affirming step, I’d love to hear about it!
When was it? Where did you go? And what was your experience?
Please share with us in the comments below!
And if you’ve never been en femme in public, I’m sure you’ll find lots of inspiration in these stories.
As always, thank you for reading and participating!
Love,
Lucille
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First time was in March of this year. Went to the local mall. Had a great time shopping and interacting with the SA’s in the stores.
Was much easier than I would have ever thought.
Been out 4-5 times since then.
Schedule just doesn’t permit more ‘Jackie’ time
I called my friend one night he and his partner was going to have a bdsm cd tstv leather and latex party so he called me told me to come by but thing was I lived 4 hours from him so I sit around the house and thought what an I going to do so I shaved my body painted my toe nails put my sexy undies on thigh highs garter belt latex pants put a latex body suit on grabed my leather jacket got my wig and got my bags and left it was dark and never thought I would do it so I stoped 2 hours into the drive I put my nails on painted them put makeup on fixed my wig poured the perfume on I felt so sexy so I got 30 mins away and called he said that the party canceled and he had to leave made me mad here I was dressed head to toe and could not have any fun 🙁 so I turned around and drove back then I got a flat I stopped at a rest area and got out to check tire by this time I had for got how much I was dressed in latex and I I was wearing pink lipstick and perfume then 3 truck drivers came up and said ma’am can we help you at that point I realized I was dressed and to my mind I thought I did not look like a woman they changed my tire and gave me a kiss and said drive safe nothing happened I got into my car and drove on I knew by the time I would get home was going to be late so I called a girl friend and she said don’t change come on over I have some vodka and wine and I’ll be the man lol that was a long night but I’ll never forget that first time I dressed out and it was well worth it 🙂
The first time I went out dressed as a woman was about 7 years ago I went shopping in the mall. was complamented by men and woman alike on how pretty i was
“Mark”…”Sweetie”…”You Sound Super Sexy”…”Do You Have A Boyfriend” ???
I have no confidence to do this, and I’m not even sure how strong my desire is. My family and wife don’t know about this, so I prefer to indulge these fantasies in private, at least for now. However I do enjoy reading your blogs, thanks. J.S.
It was august of 2009. I had just returned from Las Vegas where I had had a professional make over. Could not believe how attractive the lady in the photograph was. Las Vegas was the first time anyone had seen Victoria. Was feeling so high, when I returned, I dressed and walked around the neighborhood and a couple weeks later went down to the outlet mall nearby. Exhilarating
I inquired at my local hospital if they knew of any place in in my area that would welcome a crossdresser. I had not gone out in public before so I left home in male clothes as I didn’t know for sure if the place they mentioned really did welcome people like me. I did bring female cloothes with me and I asked at the door if they would mind if I dressed there. They let me and I met about 13 others like me. I left there in female clothes and have not looked back since.
Goin out to get my hair done. First time out. Was awesome. Git a whole lot better with the makeup.
Goin out to get my hair done. First time out. Was awesome. Git a whole lot better with the makeup.