Wearing lingerie is a guaranteed way to feel feminine. Best of all, it’s something you can indulge in on a daily basis.
What are the lingerie pieces every trans woman or crossdresser should own?
I’ve compiled a list of 10 must-have transgender / crossdressing lingerie items that should be part of your MTF wardrobe. Read on to learn more!
1. Basic Black Or Nude Bra
Every girl needs a basic bra, so a simple nude or black bra is a must.
If you’re having trouble finding your size, try the Leading Lady Lightly Padded Contour Underwire Bra. It comes in a wide range of sizes that would fit most crossdressers and transgender women. (Band sizes 36-54, cup sizes A-G)
2. Panty Gaff
For a flat and feminine look, a panty gaff is your best friend. A gaff is an undergarment designed to offer a smooth and tucked appearance. Here are a few options:
- Gold Seal Gaff by The Dress Form Store
- Super Strong Hiding Gaff by Suddenly Fem
- Thong Gaff by Glamour Boutique
3. Shaping Camisole
Who couldn’t benefit from a little mid-section slimming? A shaping camisole can help you slim down your waist and stomach without constricting you like a corset or girdle would. I like the camisoles from Yummie, which go up to a size 3x.
4. Padded Panty
If you crave feminine curves (and who doesn’t?), padded panties offer an instant solution. Your options range from light lifting to full-on hip and butt shaping. Here are a few of my favorites:
- Light shaping – Ulta Sheer Padded Panty by FeelFoxy
- Medium shaping – The Glamour Gal Silicone Hip and Butt Padded Shaper
- Full shaping – Veronicas by Classic Curves
5. Nude Or Black Pantyhose
While women don’t wear pantyhose as often as they used to, pantyhose looks more polished than bare skin and enhances the appearance of your legs. Your lingerie wardrobe should definitely include a pair of black and/or nude hose.
6. Slinky Nightie
There’s nothing like slipping into a slinky nightgown to make you feel extra feminine. Whether you prefer long or short, you should own at least one silky nightie. Or better yet, buy a few in different lengths and colors.
7. Basic Panties
Sometimes simple is best! Whether you prefer thongs, bikinis, or briefs, you should own at least a few basic panties.
8. Sexy Bra And Panty Set
While the basics are important, half the fun of lingerie is expressing your sensual side. That’s why no wardrobe is complete without at least one super sexy bra and panty set.
9. Nubra
The Nubra is an adhesive bra that’s fantastic for creating cleavage. Since it’s backless and strapless, it can be worn alone or under another bra. To learn how to create feminine cleavage with the Nubra, see my post on How to Get Feminine MTF Cleavage.
10. Silk Or Satin Robe
A silk or satin robe is a classic boudoir piece that will make you feel ultra feminine. You should have at least one so you have something sensual to slip into when you are at home.
Let’s talk lingerie!
It was hard to narrow this list to just 10 items, so I’d love to hear your thoughts…
What are YOUR must-have lingerie pieces? Please share in the comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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I have two long satin robes,but what I really want is a long silk dressing gown trimmed in feathers! Have looked everywhere and just can’t find anything. Alas, it appears old school glamour has disappeared.
If anyone can be of assistance, please reply.
Great advice Lucille , only thing I don’t own as a transgender woman is a robe. …lol.
Jessica
i wear panties all the time .i have silky robe in blue. i also wear abbra at work and other bras went in femme thank you lucille
Oh my gosh! Where do I begin? My absolute favorite is my bras. I actually have many to wear. I wear sports bra I almost every day under my drab clothes, in either white or black. When I am dressed en femme, I have a selection of lacey bras in many shades.
A close second is pantyhose, especially control tops. The panty gives me a feeling of support, slimming and flattering my girlish body while the nylon legs make my legs feel so soft and silky. I wear pantyhose nearly all of the time. After my nylons are worn and have runners, I cut off the panty and wear them alone, just to have that hugging flattering feeling. Controlling my curves makes me feel so feminine!
Lucille, I get so excited when I see our emails in my in-box. I look so very much for your tips and advice. Thank you so much.
Deb
“Debbie”…”You sound just like me”…I Love Wearing My Bras (With Matching Panties)…I Now Have Over 100 Bras In My Collection.
I’m already a step ahead girl on the clothes and stuff please keep. In touch
I agree Lucille, camisoles are fantastic.
I have also been finding the under-wire padded
bra gives good shape for ‘B’ cup boobs and there
are some nice patterned bras available.
The semi-laced full brief pants make the butt
look great too.
I wear a basic bra or t-shirt bra under my clothes everyday, I wear panties all types 24/7, I also wear lace cami everyday plus I wear very sexy clothing to bed every night- I wear tights or stocks/thigh highs at least 4 days a week. I don’t own an male dress tee’s, under wear at all any more, any dresser/Trans can do this if they really desired- I am moving into dressing more feminine/everyday wear female now on my days off! I wish and pray my hair would grow faster so I could have longer hair it is only to my ears now! Thank you for your wonderful programs that are helping me grow as a woman each day- I Love being a transwoman!
Love, Autumn O’Shea…
Miss Lucille—— I love wearing panties. I would love for you Miss Lucille to send me some panties .
I always love to get an email from you. What wonderful suggestions for lingerie. I have to get just a couple of them but it is soo much fun to shop for lingerie that having 2 of each would be a great homework idea for me.