Wearing lingerie is a guaranteed way to feel feminine. Best of all, it’s something you can indulge in on a daily basis.
What are the lingerie pieces every trans woman or crossdresser should own?
I’ve compiled a list of 10 must-have transgender / crossdressing lingerie items that should be part of your MTF wardrobe. Read on to learn more!
1. Basic Black Or Nude Bra
Every girl needs a basic bra, so a simple nude or black bra is a must.
If you’re having trouble finding your size, try the Leading Lady Lightly Padded Contour Underwire Bra. It comes in a wide range of sizes that would fit most crossdressers and transgender women. (Band sizes 36-54, cup sizes A-G)
2. Panty Gaff
For a flat and feminine look, a panty gaff is your best friend. A gaff is an undergarment designed to offer a smooth and tucked appearance. Here are a few options:
- Gold Seal Gaff by The Dress Form Store
- Super Strong Hiding Gaff by Suddenly Fem
- Thong Gaff by Glamour Boutique
3. Shaping Camisole
Who couldn’t benefit from a little mid-section slimming? A shaping camisole can help you slim down your waist and stomach without constricting you like a corset or girdle would. I like the camisoles from Yummie, which go up to a size 3x.
4. Padded Panty
If you crave feminine curves (and who doesn’t?), padded panties offer an instant solution. Your options range from light lifting to full-on hip and butt shaping. Here are a few of my favorites:
- Light shaping – Ulta Sheer Padded Panty by FeelFoxy
- Medium shaping – The Glamour Gal Silicone Hip and Butt Padded Shaper
- Full shaping – Veronicas by Classic Curves
5. Nude Or Black Pantyhose
While women don’t wear pantyhose as often as they used to, pantyhose looks more polished than bare skin and enhances the appearance of your legs. Your lingerie wardrobe should definitely include a pair of black and/or nude hose.
6. Slinky Nightie
There’s nothing like slipping into a slinky nightgown to make you feel extra feminine. Whether you prefer long or short, you should own at least one silky nightie. Or better yet, buy a few in different lengths and colors.
7. Basic Panties
Sometimes simple is best! Whether you prefer thongs, bikinis, or briefs, you should own at least a few basic panties.
8. Sexy Bra And Panty Set
While the basics are important, half the fun of lingerie is expressing your sensual side. That’s why no wardrobe is complete without at least one super sexy bra and panty set.
9. Nubra
The Nubra is an adhesive bra that’s fantastic for creating cleavage. Since it’s backless and strapless, it can be worn alone or under another bra. To learn how to create feminine cleavage with the Nubra, see my post on How to Get Feminine MTF Cleavage.
10. Silk Or Satin Robe
A silk or satin robe is a classic boudoir piece that will make you feel ultra feminine. You should have at least one so you have something sensual to slip into when you are at home.
Let’s talk lingerie!
It was hard to narrow this list to just 10 items, so I’d love to hear your thoughts…
What are YOUR must-have lingerie pieces? Please share in the comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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Garter belt and thigh highs. I love the feel, and the ritual of putting it all on and attaching the garters to the stockings always gives me a bit of a rush.
My fav is any lace n silk Teddy,any colour.I love the feeling of silk n lace against my body.I look n feel very sexy n fem.with matching stockings n heel or wedges 😉
I love wearing Pantyhose, and some times will do so at work under my male cloths. I also have to bras that work really while. i will have to find a black one though.
Can you wear something like skinny jeans
I have a sexy fetish for sheer suntan pantyhosd……giggles…..I just love them they feel sooo cute fem and lusciously girlie……but I like wearing them with wedges or open toed platforms…..what should I do…..sexy kisses….sabrina
Please talk about help for us large plus size ladies 3/4x
“Bob”…I am also a “Plus Size Girl”…I find a lot of my “Plus Size Clothes” at JCPenney and Amazon.
Although a skimpy lace thong is incredibly sexy, finding them to fit men can be very difficult. I prefer to wear women’s underwear and do so on a regular basis. The best fit and feel I’ve found are Vanity Fair nylon briefs. Yep good old granny panties. I also enjoy vintage lingerie such as teddies, rompers and Olga nightgowns.
Same here. I keep the panties simple so I can buy them in packs. Just the fact they are women’s panties is sufficient. Besides, when it’s sexy time, I drop the panties anyway. 😉
Dear Lucille,
For the past 6 years I‘ve been cross dressing as a woman and I really enjoyed wearing a complete lingeries before wearing a skirt and a blouse. Again, my aunty always plaited my hair the same style with the one she had. If I got myself dressed like this, I need nothing again than to be mingled in a women.
Now I‘ve resolved with my dear aunty to transitioned from male to female. For the past 6 years months now I‘m on hormones and get my testoterones blocked.