Wearing lingerie is a guaranteed way to feel feminine. Best of all, it’s something you can indulge in on a daily basis.
What are the lingerie pieces every trans woman or crossdresser should own?
I’ve compiled a list of 10 must-have transgender / crossdressing lingerie items that should be part of your MTF wardrobe. Read on to learn more!
1. Basic Black Or Nude Bra
Every girl needs a basic bra, so a simple nude or black bra is a must.
If you’re having trouble finding your size, try the Leading Lady Lightly Padded Contour Underwire Bra. It comes in a wide range of sizes that would fit most crossdressers and transgender women. (Band sizes 36-54, cup sizes A-G)
2. Panty Gaff
For a flat and feminine look, a panty gaff is your best friend. A gaff is an undergarment designed to offer a smooth and tucked appearance. Here are a few options:
- Gold Seal Gaff by The Dress Form Store
- Super Strong Hiding Gaff by Suddenly Fem
- Thong Gaff by Glamour Boutique
3. Shaping Camisole
Who couldn’t benefit from a little mid-section slimming? A shaping camisole can help you slim down your waist and stomach without constricting you like a corset or girdle would. I like the camisoles from Yummie, which go up to a size 3x.
4. Padded Panty
If you crave feminine curves (and who doesn’t?), padded panties offer an instant solution. Your options range from light lifting to full-on hip and butt shaping. Here are a few of my favorites:
- Light shaping – Ulta Sheer Padded Panty by FeelFoxy
- Medium shaping – The Glamour Gal Silicone Hip and Butt Padded Shaper
- Full shaping – Veronicas by Classic Curves
5. Nude Or Black Pantyhose
While women don’t wear pantyhose as often as they used to, pantyhose looks more polished than bare skin and enhances the appearance of your legs. Your lingerie wardrobe should definitely include a pair of black and/or nude hose.
6. Slinky Nightie
There’s nothing like slipping into a slinky nightgown to make you feel extra feminine. Whether you prefer long or short, you should own at least one silky nightie. Or better yet, buy a few in different lengths and colors.
7. Basic Panties
Sometimes simple is best! Whether you prefer thongs, bikinis, or briefs, you should own at least a few basic panties.
8. Sexy Bra And Panty Set
While the basics are important, half the fun of lingerie is expressing your sensual side. That’s why no wardrobe is complete without at least one super sexy bra and panty set.
9. Nubra
The Nubra is an adhesive bra that’s fantastic for creating cleavage. Since it’s backless and strapless, it can be worn alone or under another bra. To learn how to create feminine cleavage with the Nubra, see my post on How to Get Feminine MTF Cleavage.
10. Silk Or Satin Robe
A silk or satin robe is a classic boudoir piece that will make you feel ultra feminine. You should have at least one so you have something sensual to slip into when you are at home.
Let’s talk lingerie!
It was hard to narrow this list to just 10 items, so I’d love to hear your thoughts…
What are YOUR must-have lingerie pieces? Please share in the comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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I have most of those things, except the nightie and robe. I hope to get those soon. I have about 40 bras and 50 panties. Many colors and patterns.
I have many sexy silky nitties and wear them every night and bras and panties everyday 24/7
“rockie”…I also wear My Bras and Panties 24/7, 365…I wear my Nightgown over them every night.
Hi Lucille honey goodness girlfriend I so want a slinky satin nightgown but I guess my shaping camisoles will have to work for now I don’t think I’ll ever go for surgery I guess that leaves rather in between genders but I’m alone and it’s not looking to much like that will change being one of those lucky girls that likes other girls on and now am I supposed to look sexy in those skimpy little sexy panties with a panty gaff lol I guess that’s for after surgery whos going to make a bra and matching panty gaff ok Suddenly Femme has the panties with the gaff built in but the bras don’t match the lace has to match doesn’t it not that I have any but that is one reason why just because they both have lace isnt good enough the lace must be the same at least that’s how all the bra and panty sets I’ve seen were I’ve had some before but time took them away and now I can’t any like them I have one pair of panties left from those sets but they’ve seen better days perhaps someday I’ll find them again I hope they weren’t Frederick’s or Victoria’s Secret but I loved them anyway ok I’m a little cheap but we’re not all named Trump lol I hope ok no more political humor Love MJ
Mj you need stop being so cheap and come off some money n buy decent pair panties and bra set or try buying them one at time in color’s u want they don’t have be expesenive one’s but at reasonable prices)zena
Hi Zena honey goodness girlfriend I really want to buy myself better things but right now I can barely afford to eat I’m only getting by on my disability benefits which barely cover rent and other bills I’ll do better I hope soon I was doing better until 2010 I’d bought quite a bit of new stuff then in 2014 my wife passed away I got upset and purged almost all of the things I’d bought then I lost everything my home most of what was in it I haven’t ever recovered yet but I’m moving forward best I can honey I hope how soon things get better but I’m a tough cookie I’ll make it and be just fine I hope it’s tough being alone 24/7 well Sis visits a little bit is still trying to accept me I just have to be patient a little more thank you for the support and encouraging words Love MJ
Girls, If you have something up top get a 1/4 cup shelf bra. One that has an underwire for support. Empire Intimates has a great feminine selection. Love it! Good luck and stay Feminine
I so love lacy pretty pink and flowery. I have everything on the list and love to sleep in sexy satin gowns, baby dolls and my favorite a nice fitting teddy. I wish I could live full time but the time is not right but I won’t say never. I would like to go to Seattle and find a group to do a make over and spend a few days all girl if anyone has ideas that would help.
❤️❤️Raquel
Well Ladies I think wearing a Suspender belt and Stockings with either Black or White Bra & Panties is a most special feeling and silky to say the least .
Thank you, Miss Sorella for your wonderful tips on becoming a more feminine version of myself. I have no desire to “transform” fully, but I acknowledge and love my feminine side, and have found value in your tips…I’m new to your site and program…thanks to your advice, I’ve ordered 2 pairs of padded panties to give my derriere a more full and pleasant look under my women’s jeans!
Hugs,
Jamieanne
I’m so glad I got this list sent to me. I only have like 3 things on this list, I need more.
Hi Andrea wow 3 out of 10 and needing more that sounds like me I have a few bras and a few panties only two that sort of match and some very cheap camisoles they are shaping thank goodness don’t worry honey you will get more hopefully sooner than I do Love MJ