Wearing lingerie is a guaranteed way to feel feminine. Best of all, it’s something you can indulge in on a daily basis.
What are the lingerie pieces every trans woman or crossdresser should own?
I’ve compiled a list of 10 must-have transgender / crossdressing lingerie items that should be part of your MTF wardrobe. Read on to learn more!
1. Basic Black Or Nude Bra
Every girl needs a basic bra, so a simple nude or black bra is a must.
If you’re having trouble finding your size, try the Leading Lady Lightly Padded Contour Underwire Bra. It comes in a wide range of sizes that would fit most crossdressers and transgender women. (Band sizes 36-54, cup sizes A-G)
2. Panty Gaff
For a flat and feminine look, a panty gaff is your best friend. A gaff is an undergarment designed to offer a smooth and tucked appearance. Here are a few options:
- Gold Seal Gaff by The Dress Form Store
- Super Strong Hiding Gaff by Suddenly Fem
- Thong Gaff by Glamour Boutique
3. Shaping Camisole
Who couldn’t benefit from a little mid-section slimming? A shaping camisole can help you slim down your waist and stomach without constricting you like a corset or girdle would. I like the camisoles from Yummie, which go up to a size 3x.
4. Padded Panty
If you crave feminine curves (and who doesn’t?), padded panties offer an instant solution. Your options range from light lifting to full-on hip and butt shaping. Here are a few of my favorites:
- Light shaping – Ulta Sheer Padded Panty by FeelFoxy
- Medium shaping – The Glamour Gal Silicone Hip and Butt Padded Shaper
- Full shaping – Veronicas by Classic Curves
5. Nude Or Black Pantyhose
While women don’t wear pantyhose as often as they used to, pantyhose looks more polished than bare skin and enhances the appearance of your legs. Your lingerie wardrobe should definitely include a pair of black and/or nude hose.
6. Slinky Nightie
There’s nothing like slipping into a slinky nightgown to make you feel extra feminine. Whether you prefer long or short, you should own at least one silky nightie. Or better yet, buy a few in different lengths and colors.
7. Basic Panties
Sometimes simple is best! Whether you prefer thongs, bikinis, or briefs, you should own at least a few basic panties.
8. Sexy Bra And Panty Set
While the basics are important, half the fun of lingerie is expressing your sensual side. That’s why no wardrobe is complete without at least one super sexy bra and panty set.
9. Nubra
The Nubra is an adhesive bra that’s fantastic for creating cleavage. Since it’s backless and strapless, it can be worn alone or under another bra. To learn how to create feminine cleavage with the Nubra, see my post on How to Get Feminine MTF Cleavage.
10. Silk Or Satin Robe
A silk or satin robe is a classic boudoir piece that will make you feel ultra feminine. You should have at least one so you have something sensual to slip into when you are at home.
Let’s talk lingerie!
It was hard to narrow this list to just 10 items, so I’d love to hear your thoughts…
What are YOUR must-have lingerie pieces? Please share in the comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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Although I am in my early seventies, I still like to wear a short Teddy for those special occasions with cute panties.xoxo. What do you think? Here I am the other day. Thanks
Suzy,
You always look so feminine and pretty. This time you look exceptional! I am so attracted to you!
Love,
Amber
Ohhhh – thanks so much for the sweet comment. I try my best to fit in as a woman now wherever I go. I love my life now. It’s me!
you look nice in your pic
Hi Hon, I think you look absolutely gorgeous and I envy that special someone.
Thanks Brenda!
You forgot to mention slips, preferably full slips or pettipants. They feel wonderful and especially over pantyhose
I love wearing soft satin and lace bra’s, satin hi cut and French cut panties as a every day choice. I do have a assortment of satin and silk nighties to choose from based on the night ect. It is also a good idea to have a sheer slip or nightie for special occations and when you are feeling a little slutty . I have also been able to size my body to use the articles made for natural women which make it so much more fun. I love the feel of satin or silk against my very soft skin. So girl friends don’t be relucdent totry all types of lingie and make it a point to wear some every day it will increase your Femm confidence and when you look in the mirror you will see a woman looking back! Love to hear what you think on this?
Recently I purchased some sports bras at Ross Dress for Less. Not only did I get a good price, they are simply the best bra in terms of fit I have ever had in my wardrobe.
If you have a Ross in your area, check them out. They have an ever changing assortment of bras and lingerie, and the staff (at my store in any case) are very nonchalant.
Just wanted to say tha I am totally loving Chantelle. I’m not sure which model I’m using but it comes in a black and a beige and pink. It’s so comfortable and leaves such a nice form. I’m only on spirolactine right now and I don’t have too much development mat all. Even without inserts the padded bra really looks nice. I have 36a it doesn’t pull across the front or ride up and look fake. I recommend it. I have another that i use with an extender.
I also highly recommend origami customs for really cute and nice fitting gaffs and strappy bras. She is really awesome. I have decided I love lingerie and there is so much stuff coming out that works with us. I’m happy
I love wearing a t shirt bra and the bikini panties. I do plan on trying boyshorts
I have worn boyshorts a bunch of times and there worth it. Especially the ones with longer legs. They help to tuck better then the shorter legged ones.
Thanks
One of my favurite lingerie items is a basque, always feel so feminine wearing one x
I’d say you missed one. There is nothing like the feel and look of a nicely laced corset. Smooths the look. Hugs you gently all evening. Helps you remember your posture and maybe gives you a feminine waist we all want.