Model: Kayh Anderson
Let’s face it — embracing your feminine side can be pricey, especially if you’re a crossdresser or trans woman who loves to shop!
It gets even trickier when you’re juggling two wardrobes: one for your femme self and one for male mode.
But don’t worry — looking feminine and stylish doesn’t have to break the bank.
Here are my top 6 tips for building a beautiful feminine wardrobe on a budget!
1. Shop Smart at Thrift and Consignment Stores
To save on clothes and uncover unique gems, consider hitting up thrift stores and consignment shops.
While nothing beats in-person thrifting, you can also shop online. Here are my favorite sites to shop for second-hand clothing:
For higher-end fashion finds, try local consignment shops as they tend to be more selective about what they offer.
You could also explore these online consignment shops that focus on designer items:
2. Catch the Best Deals During Sales
Who doesn’t love a good sale? The key is knowing when to shop to snag those fantastic deals.
Retailers typically offer their best discounts during specific times of the year, such as:
- Major holidays like Labor Day, Mother’s Day, or the 4th of July
- After Christmas
- The end of summer
Many stores also host semi-annual sales; for instance, Victoria’s Secret holds its Semi-Annual Sale in winter and summer.
Sign up for your favorite stores’ email lists to stay in the loop about sales.
3. Explore Outlet Shopping
Outlet stores like TJ Maxx, Ross Dress for Less, and Marshalls offer year-round bargains. Prefer online shopping? These online outlets have got you covered:
4. Don’t Waste Money on Unworn Items
Spending money on items you’ll later regret is the ultimate waste. My rule is simple: don’t buy anything (no matter how inexpensive) unless it:
- Fits perfectly
- Is the right color
- Works with at least two outfits you already own
- Can be returned
I like to wait a week before removing any tags from my purchases. This way, I can make decisions at my own pace and still have the option to return things later.
5. Consider Affordable Fashion Finds
Fast fashion brands offer trendy styles at rock-bottom prices. While you can build a substantial wardrobe on a budget, there are some drawbacks.
Popular fast fashion sites include:
Keep in mind that fast fashion often means lower-quality items and poor return policies. Plus, there are ethical concerns, as fast fashion is known for its environmental impact and unfair labor practices.
Personally, I prefer to shop at thrift store and outlets over fast fashion sites whenever possible.
6. Know When to Save and When to Splurge
While saving money is crucial, there are certain items worth investing in. These are wardrobe essentials that can greatly enhance your feminine image and last a long time, including:
- Silicone breast forms
- High-quality shapewear
- A premium wig
These items can make or break your feminine image, so purchase the best quality you can afford. On the other hand, look for bargains when experimenting with trendy fashion pieces and accessories.
Share your savings secrets!
What are your go-to places for finding bargains and discounts? Do you have any additional tips for crossdressing on a budget or building a feminine wardrobe while saving money?
I’d love to hear your thoughts, so please share in the comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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Great set of tips!
I have shopped at a consignment shop locally for years that had both larger girl sizes, low prices, and amazing fashions. Recently I noticed they were no longer there. I was very sad:(
I am a BIG girl needing 3X or 4X sometimes with a size 12 W in shoes. I have found great deals at Meijer stores for clothing, especially casual clothes. And Lane Bryant is much less “old woman” than they once were.
For shoes, Payless has 12W and even 13 sometimes in the store, and once you find that perfect shoe, ou can order them online for amazing prices too. I even found over the calf boots this year that fit like a glove and I love them!
Other women have told me about Avenue and Cato’s but I have yet to shop there.
there are many places out there ladies, and for big girls along with reasonable prices too!
Veronica
Hi Lucille
I just loved your 5 ways especially the thing a lost of genuine girls seem to do such as
Spending money on things you’ll later regret is the ultimate waste.
I get a lot of clothes from ebay that are once worn and are still fashionable
My rule is not to buy anything (no matter how cheap) unless it:
Fits perfectly
Is the right color
Works with at least 2 outfits you already own
Is returnable
I like to wait a week to cut the tags off any clothes I purchase so I can make up my mind slowly and still be able to return things later.
A Lot of genuine girls do not obey your rules and that is where we wannabees can really get good stuff.
Thank you Lucille, for the wonderful tips, There are also department stores that offer discount racks with female clothing at a mere fraction of the original prices,I have found plenty of good modern clothing at dirt cheap prices there as well,, TTFN,, keep up the good work Lucille xxoo <3 , Joslin
I like shopping at Alloy and Amazon where I have prime and returns are no problem. Shoes (size 12) Amazon Also with great sales
http://www.barefoottess.com/
http://www.designershoes.com/
http://www.samantashoes.com/a/
it is hard to find clothes big girl
size 44 wast 45 cheat
For me, size is a problem, but I can find great bargains at Torrid on their clearance rack. Size 14 and up, and size 12 sexy pumps! (I once found a pair for $1.72!! YAY)
For me, size is a problem, but I can find great bargains at Torrid on their clearance rack. Size 14 and up, and size 12 sexy pumps! (I once found a pair for $1.72!! YAY)
I would like to suggest that you shop the clearance racks. The Dress Barn always has great dresses , tops ,and skirts at 50-70 percent off.