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Let’s face it — embracing your feminine side can be pricey, especially if you’re a crossdresser or trans woman who loves to shop!
It gets even trickier when you’re juggling two wardrobes: one for your femme self and one for male mode.
But don’t worry — looking feminine and stylish doesn’t have to break the bank.
Here are my top 6 tips for building a beautiful feminine wardrobe on a budget!
1. Shop Smart at Thrift and Consignment Stores
To save on clothes and uncover unique gems, consider hitting up thrift stores and consignment shops.
While nothing beats in-person thrifting, you can also shop online. Here are my favorite sites to shop for second-hand clothing:
For higher-end fashion finds, try local consignment shops as they tend to be more selective about what they offer.
You could also explore these online consignment shops that focus on designer items:
2. Catch the Best Deals During Sales
Who doesn’t love a good sale? The key is knowing when to shop to snag those fantastic deals.
Retailers typically offer their best discounts during specific times of the year, such as:
- Major holidays like Labor Day, Mother’s Day, or the 4th of July
- After Christmas
- The end of summer
Many stores also host semi-annual sales; for instance, Victoria’s Secret holds its Semi-Annual Sale in winter and summer.
Sign up for your favorite stores’ email lists to stay in the loop about sales.
3. Explore Outlet Shopping
Outlet stores like TJ Maxx, Ross Dress for Less, and Marshalls offer year-round bargains. Prefer online shopping? These online outlets have got you covered:
4. Don’t Waste Money on Unworn Items
Spending money on items you’ll later regret is the ultimate waste. My rule is simple: don’t buy anything (no matter how inexpensive) unless it:
- Fits perfectly
- Is the right color
- Works with at least two outfits you already own
- Can be returned
I like to wait a week before removing any tags from my purchases. This way, I can make decisions at my own pace and still have the option to return things later.
5. Consider Affordable Fashion Finds
Fast fashion brands offer trendy styles at rock-bottom prices. While you can build a substantial wardrobe on a budget, there are some drawbacks.
Popular fast fashion sites include:
Keep in mind that fast fashion often means lower-quality items and poor return policies. Plus, there are ethical concerns, as fast fashion is known for its environmental impact and unfair labor practices.
Personally, I prefer to shop at thrift store and outlets over fast fashion sites whenever possible.
6. Know When to Save and When to Splurge
While saving money is crucial, there are certain items worth investing in. These are wardrobe essentials that can greatly enhance your feminine image and last a long time, including:
- Silicone breast forms
- High-quality shapewear
- A premium wig
These items can make or break your feminine image, so purchase the best quality you can afford. On the other hand, look for bargains when experimenting with trendy fashion pieces and accessories.
Share your savings secrets!
What are your go-to places for finding bargains and discounts? Do you have any additional tips for crossdressing on a budget or building a feminine wardrobe while saving money?
I’d love to hear your thoughts, so please share in the comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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Gotta love when VS has a sale. Got a black bra, panty, and garter belt with white lace for $80. I recently went dress shopping and totally lucked out on a cute black mini dress for less than $4.
Try the discount racks at Forever 21. Sears is another good option as they have sales alot and the stuff is fairly inexpensive to start.When it comes places like Victoria’s Secret, you will want to wait for sales to buy stuff. 50 bucks for a bra, are they high?!
I save bunches of money by shopping on eBay. Great items, wonderful prices!!!
I am a lucky girl to have a younger, hipper wife who has no problem sharing. She has a good fashion sense and I have good taste as well so it works out for both of us. I know not all the “girls” have the good fortune I have, but she loves me in and out of my femme self. I love her more than you can imagine. Ladies the right mate for you is out there but finding them is sometimes a bit of a challenge.
Your tips are more useful in changing me. Thank you
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There is another way to save $$$ that I’ve found to be satisfying. Put on something short, sheer, and sexy. Take your most feminine allure to a nice bar, hike up your skirt, cross your legs and smile. You won’t have to spend one cent on drinks…and you might even get a dinner out of the deal.
Your idea made me smile… though it would only work if one has come out to the world and passes well with a reasonable femme voice. Alas, I can’t qualify on any of those counts (and I am also very shy) whereas u must do. I am convinced America is more liberated than the rest of the world, in Northern Ireland where i live hate crimes are not even recognised against TGs.
P.S. I think we have similar taste in skirts!
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