Feeling feminine is as easy as slipping into a beautiful bra.
However, it’s not always easy to get the right fit since most bras aren’t designed with crossdressers and transgender women in mind.
But fear not, because there ARE solutions!
In this blog post, I share how to solve your 7 biggest bra problems. Discover how to find the perfect fit and style, so you and “your girls” can look your absolute best.
Problem #1: Wrinkled Or Gapping Bra Cups
Bra cups that don’t lay smooth are a common problem. Fortunately, there are two easy fixes:
- Go down a cup size. The main reason for wrinkles is that your breasts don’t fill out the bra cups. Try going down a cup size. For example, from a 38B to a 38A.
- Choose a demi bra instead of a full coverage bra. Full coverage bras often have extra space at the top of the cup. A demi bra that’s cut lower eliminates this problem.
Problem #2: Can’t Find A Bra My Size
If you opt not to wear breast forms with your bra, it can be tricky to find the perfect fit. Crossdressers and transgender women often struggle to find bras with small cups and large band sizes, as they are not commonly available.
Luckily, I’ve curated a list of bra options specifically catering to those with smaller breasts and broader body proportions:
- Bodycon Multiway Bra – latte – Band sizes 40-46, Cup Sizes B-G
- Flatter Me Bra – Band sizes 40-46, Cup sizes AA-B
- Leading Lady Scallop Lace Bra – Band sizes 36-48, Cup sizes A-DD
- Prima Donna Couture Bra – Band sizes 38-48, Cup sizes B-H
Problem #3: Back Bulge
Another common issue many face is back bulge, often caused by back fat or an ill-fitting bra. So, how can you bid farewell to this dreaded problem?
- Opt for a larger band size. Wearing a band that’s too tight can lead to bulging. Increase your band size by going up one size, such as from a size 42 to a size 44 band.
- Seek bras with flexibility. Look for bras crafted from smooth and stretchy fabrics. These types of bras are less likely to dig into your skin compared to stiffer ones.
- Give longline bras a try. Longline bras feature a wider band that aids in eliminating back bulge. This design provides additional support and helps create a smooth silhouette.
Problem #4: Wide-set Breasts
Wide-set breasts can be a common concern for crossdressers and transgender women due to having a broader rib cage. This can pose two challenges: finding a properly fitting bra and achieving the desired cleavage.
Here are four solutions tailored to wide-set breasts:
- Look for pushup pads. A bra with padding on the sides helps push the breasts together.
- Wear a wireless bra. Underwires can be uncomfortable if they’re not properly centered beneath the breasts. In this case, a wireless bra will fit you better.
- Choose a bra with a wide center panel. The wider the center panel (the triangle-shaped area between the bra cups), the better the bra will fit.
- Find a front closure bra. Front closure tend to have wider-set cups due to the center clasp.
Problem #5: Bra Straps Fall Down
Nothing is more annoying than straps that don’t stay put. Here’s how to solve this problem:
- Tighten the bra straps. Bra straps stretch out over time, so they should be tightened every other month or so.
- Look for silicone bra straps. Some bras have a silicone lining on the straps that helps keep them in place. You can also purchase silicone bra strap cushions that can be worn with any bra.
- Try a different bra style. Balconette and plunge bras tend to have wider straps that are prone to falling. Instead, look for a bra with a racerback or crisscross straps.
Problem #6: Breast Forms Don’t Stay In Place
When it comes to wearing breast forms, choosing the right bra is crucial. Here are five essential tips to guide you:
- Look for a pocket bra. Opt for a bra with built-in pockets specifically designed to hold the breast forms securely in place.
- Go for a full coverage. Another option is a full coverage bra. The cups should fully cover the breast forms for a seamless look.
- Opt for underwires. Select bras with underwires for added support and shape, especially if you are wearing heavy or large forms.
- Ensure a snug bra band. This provides support for the breast forms. To test, put a finger under the band between your breasts. If you can fit two or more fingers, the band is too loose. Tighten it or go down a band size.
- Avoid low cut bras. Low cut bras don’t have enough coverage to support the breast forms. Choose a full coverage bra instead.
- Avoid bras that are too small. Bras that are too small can damage your breast forms. Look for a bra that fits you properly.
Problem #7: Bra Shows Through Clothing
Just like visible panty lines, a bra that peeks through your clothes isn’t exactly fashionable (unless, of course, that’s the look you’re going for).
Here’s how to ensure your bra stays discreetly concealed:
- Look for bras with smooth cups and minimal details. Lacy fabrics and trimmings are pretty, but they often show through lightweight fabrics.
- Wear a black or skin tone bra. The black bra should be worn under dark clothing, while a nude or skin tone bra words best with light colors. Avoid white bras since these tend to show through clothing.
What are YOUR biggest bra problems?
Hopefully your biggest bra problem now is having too many bras and too little time!
But if you have any bra woes that weren’t covered, share them below so we can help. And if you have any other tips to add to this list, I’d love to hear them!
Love,
Lucille
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I’m good with push-up bra !
That’s a great article – similar to ones found on bra sites but with more detail, excellent. I’m quite lucky that my sister has a friend who works in a lingerie department of a large store and is a “bra fitter”. WE went along early one morning and she fitted me with a bra – a very different size from what I had previously been wearing. What difference that made – to how my breasts looked and felt. Thanks again
“Diane9…I is great to get help to be fitted for a Bra…My Sister-In-Law helped me to started on wearing my Bras. Love, Paula
That IS a good fit. What bra style is that? What were you doing wrong before? Why do you think you made that error? Before you went to your sister’s friend, had you ever taken your chest measurements and attempted to apply bra fitting rules to find your size? Or were you in trial and error mode still back then? I’d love to learn from your mistakes, if possible.
Goodness Diane – how lucky were you to have a professional bra fitting. I went along to a “specialist” shop for women like us but the staff had no idea – waste of time. Good luck x
Hi Diane9 That bra is pretty where did you get it I like and like to buy one and does it come with matching panties so sexy Love Bethany Ps I’m in Australia on the West Coast Cheer’s
the only problem i have is i will not buy a bra that is not silky lace covered creation, and since i wear one every day. i came up with wearing a fitted tank top from roamans. they are great they have cletes in them and you can get them in dark colors. so even if i wear a bra in brite pink you can see it. under my tank and tee shirt. at least nobody has said so.it makes feel great to be out in public wearing such femine underpings and nobody even knows
“kristeen”…I love to show off my “Bra Wearing”…I never hide to fact that I am wearing my Bras. Love, Paula
trying to finding a 42 B or B/C that isn’t over priced .
I got fitted at two shops so I know my size but finding them isn’t easy. Ones that are sexy are harder. sigh.
My problem with bras is I have too many. I see one in the store or on-line that I like, I buy it. Now have 200 bras. Many size inserts, depending on which bra I’m wearing and do I want to go out A cup, B cup, or C.
When home, might wear larger, depending on what size my outfit will accommodate.
Jim
“Jim”…”A Girl” can never have enough Bras…I should know.
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“jeff”…I buy the majority of my Bras form amazon.com. Love, Paula
I have another problem – Money! I’m an age pensioner living a Fem and Male life so I have to do things on the cheap. Thus, I purchase cheap bras from Walmart style stores in Australia. I’m also pretty hefty around my bra line and larger bras come with larger cups which just don’t work on my natural “Flat to Fem” boobs.
I find an Australian 14 B (Possibly a 36 B) is perfect for me, but it won’t go around my chest of course. Therefore I purchased a couple of bra extension straps and bingo. The bras all fit, give me the cleavage I prefer and I’m happy. The total cost is about AU$15-20 (US$10-15).
The bra in the photo is a 14B T-Shirt bra that cost $4 in a dollar shop. I’ve had it for years and it’ still one of my favourites.
Because the 14b cups are closer together for smaller women, they pull by breasts together nicely. At least it’s easier on the pocket to experiment with el-cheapo bras and one may end up giving you what you need.
I had the same problems all the other girls were having until I got up the courage to go for a fitting. I always shop at Lane Bryant’s and the sales women were always kind to me so one day they were having a bra fitting event so I went and when I had the chance and not many real women were around I asked if they would measure me. They said sure and proceeded to measure me. They told me that I was a 42D to 42DD. I have good breast growth from use of estrogen over the years. I started with the 42D and now all my Bras are 42DD. Not all 42DD bras fit the same from manufacturer to manufacturer. All my Lane Bryant bras fit the same. I will be a customer for life. Thank you Lucille for all you do for the community. Roxanne