Feeling feminine is as easy as slipping into a beautiful bra.
However, it’s not always easy to get the right fit since most bras aren’t designed with crossdressers and transgender women in mind.
But fear not, because there ARE solutions!
In this blog post, I share how to solve your 7 biggest bra problems. Discover how to find the perfect fit and style, so you and “your girls” can look your absolute best.
Problem #1: Wrinkled Or Gapping Bra Cups
Bra cups that don’t lay smooth are a common problem. Fortunately, there are two easy fixes:
- Go down a cup size. The main reason for wrinkles is that your breasts don’t fill out the bra cups. Try going down a cup size. For example, from a 38B to a 38A.
- Choose a demi bra instead of a full coverage bra. Full coverage bras often have extra space at the top of the cup. A demi bra that’s cut lower eliminates this problem.
Problem #2: Can’t Find A Bra My Size
If you opt not to wear breast forms with your bra, it can be tricky to find the perfect fit. Crossdressers and transgender women often struggle to find bras with small cups and large band sizes, as they are not commonly available.
Luckily, I’ve curated a list of bra options specifically catering to those with smaller breasts and broader body proportions:
- Bodycon Multiway Bra – latte – Band sizes 40-46, Cup Sizes B-G
- Flatter Me Bra – Band sizes 40-46, Cup sizes AA-B
- Leading Lady Scallop Lace Bra – Band sizes 36-48, Cup sizes A-DD
- Prima Donna Couture Bra – Band sizes 38-48, Cup sizes B-H
Problem #3: Back Bulge
Another common issue many face is back bulge, often caused by back fat or an ill-fitting bra. So, how can you bid farewell to this dreaded problem?
- Opt for a larger band size. Wearing a band that’s too tight can lead to bulging. Increase your band size by going up one size, such as from a size 42 to a size 44 band.
- Seek bras with flexibility. Look for bras crafted from smooth and stretchy fabrics. These types of bras are less likely to dig into your skin compared to stiffer ones.
- Give longline bras a try. Longline bras feature a wider band that aids in eliminating back bulge. This design provides additional support and helps create a smooth silhouette.
Problem #4: Wide-set Breasts
Wide-set breasts can be a common concern for crossdressers and transgender women due to having a broader rib cage. This can pose two challenges: finding a properly fitting bra and achieving the desired cleavage.
Here are four solutions tailored to wide-set breasts:
- Look for pushup pads. A bra with padding on the sides helps push the breasts together.
- Wear a wireless bra. Underwires can be uncomfortable if they’re not properly centered beneath the breasts. In this case, a wireless bra will fit you better.
- Choose a bra with a wide center panel. The wider the center panel (the triangle-shaped area between the bra cups), the better the bra will fit.
- Find a front closure bra. Front closure tend to have wider-set cups due to the center clasp.
Problem #5: Bra Straps Fall Down
Nothing is more annoying than straps that don’t stay put. Here’s how to solve this problem:
- Tighten the bra straps. Bra straps stretch out over time, so they should be tightened every other month or so.
- Look for silicone bra straps. Some bras have a silicone lining on the straps that helps keep them in place. You can also purchase silicone bra strap cushions that can be worn with any bra.
- Try a different bra style. Balconette and plunge bras tend to have wider straps that are prone to falling. Instead, look for a bra with a racerback or crisscross straps.
Problem #6: Breast Forms Don’t Stay In Place
When it comes to wearing breast forms, choosing the right bra is crucial. Here are five essential tips to guide you:
- Look for a pocket bra. Opt for a bra with built-in pockets specifically designed to hold the breast forms securely in place.
- Go for a full coverage. Another option is a full coverage bra. The cups should fully cover the breast forms for a seamless look.
- Opt for underwires. Select bras with underwires for added support and shape, especially if you are wearing heavy or large forms.
- Ensure a snug bra band. This provides support for the breast forms. To test, put a finger under the band between your breasts. If you can fit two or more fingers, the band is too loose. Tighten it or go down a band size.
- Avoid low cut bras. Low cut bras don’t have enough coverage to support the breast forms. Choose a full coverage bra instead.
- Avoid bras that are too small. Bras that are too small can damage your breast forms. Look for a bra that fits you properly.
Problem #7: Bra Shows Through Clothing
Just like visible panty lines, a bra that peeks through your clothes isn’t exactly fashionable (unless, of course, that’s the look you’re going for).
Here’s how to ensure your bra stays discreetly concealed:
- Look for bras with smooth cups and minimal details. Lacy fabrics and trimmings are pretty, but they often show through lightweight fabrics.
- Wear a black or skin tone bra. The black bra should be worn under dark clothing, while a nude or skin tone bra words best with light colors. Avoid white bras since these tend to show through clothing.
What are YOUR biggest bra problems?
Hopefully your biggest bra problem now is having too many bras and too little time!
But if you have any bra woes that weren’t covered, share them below so we can help. And if you have any other tips to add to this list, I’d love to hear them!
Love,
Lucille
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Lucille,
Once again great advice on fit and how to select the right bra. I’m fortunate to actually have very natural looking feminine breasts. I was using natureday products but switched to suddenly fem that you have listed under resources. I also continue to use my noogleberry breast pump that you recommended, so currently my breasts are a very nice 38C.
I did get fitted at Macy’s, sales lady treats me really nice, love shopping there for all my bras and panties. My favorite bras are Vanity Fair Beauty Back and Maidenform Natural Boost and Demi. They fit me really well and make me feel very sexy and feminine. My favorite panties are Vanity Fair illumination bikinis and I always make sure they match my bra.
I buy all my clothes and shoes at Macy’s, my shoe size is 9.5 so very easy to find any style I like in my size. My sales lady at Macy’s kidded me because I wear one size smaller than her. She is really a sweet person, treats me really nice! I recently bought some Jessica Simpson 5 inch high wedges, really cute, love them!
I really enjoy all your blogs, great advice and responses from all the girls.You have really helped feminize me and realize that there is absolutely nothing wrong with one embracing their feminine side, for this I truly thank you.
Love Ya,
Kristin
Crossdressing for over 40 years I have worn hundreds of bras and not to sound like a commercial for VS but they have some really exceptional bras. My favorite is the bombshell + 2 cup sizes I love the way they fit the enhancement is truly wonderful and the best part is they are comfortable even after a full day of activities!! I have dozens of colors and styles although no front hook. I am flexible enough to fasten behind my back and adjust each strap for the best comfort. My true size is 38 B but I wear 38 C or 38 D if the outfit will allow it. Donated most of my other lightly used bras to goodwill with the exception of a select few that have a good fit and feel Longlines and Demis that were not exactly inexpensive! Once again Lucille you have pointed out some important things to consider when selecting our next bra or bras, Thank you.
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To complete my SRS by January 1, 2017
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Has anyone heard of the woman who had five breasts? Her bras fit her like a glove! LOL! Seriously now, I wear a 48c or d bra very nicely all natural thanks to 45 years of taking every herbal & prescribed female hormones as well as birth control pills. I prefer bras that don’t have much of a band below the cup but there are exceptions to that. I don’t care for a white bra, beige, black and pink seems to be my favorites. Lucille I hang on your every word now that I am SRS post-op, at lest as much as currently medically available (I still am short a Uterus fallopian tubes and ovaries 🙁 ) But I am happy with the corrections done to my errant body and feel blessed to have you here to guide me in my celebration of my feminine essence. Horace Mann once said “be afraid to die until you have won some victory for humanity”. You’ve got that covered Lucille. God bless you!
I’ve saw a woman on a beach in Greece once that appeared to have 3 breasts. One to spare.
I am friends with a woman who’s had breast augmentation and several surgeries on her face, nose, brows and lips. She looks wonderful. So I have some appreciation of the time and money invested, not to mention the emotional and physical pain endured.
Jamie
I thank you for your wonderful blog article. Since the age of 12, I am now 67, there have been many bras that have gone in and out of my drawers. Just wish we had the internet so many years ago. I now find that K-Mart of all places has the best fitting bras for my size and shape.
Once again thank you for everything.
Yvette
Very informative article , thanks so much for posting it. Believe it or not the Pink K Bar is an ideal bra for us crossdressers. The cups are cone shaped, and there is plenty of space between the cups. This has becum my very favorite bra. For $5.95 how can one beat it?
http://www.kmart.com/pink-k-women-s-embossed-full-coverage-tricot-bra/p-027B016998130001P?plpSellerId=Kmart&prdNo=2&blockNo=2&blockType=G2
I have now purchased 7 of these bras, 6 in nude and one in pink.
I am a happy bra wearer.
“Terri”…I love your choice of Bras…You are “One Pretty, Sexy Woman”. Love Paula
Great picture. Looks good filling the bra nicely in the top picture.