Feeling feminine is as easy as slipping into a beautiful bra.
However, it’s not always easy to get the right fit since most bras aren’t designed with crossdressers and transgender women in mind.
But fear not, because there ARE solutions!
In this blog post, I share how to solve your 7 biggest bra problems. Discover how to find the perfect fit and style, so you and “your girls” can look your absolute best.
Problem #1: Wrinkled Or Gapping Bra Cups
Bra cups that don’t lay smooth are a common problem. Fortunately, there are two easy fixes:
- Go down a cup size. The main reason for wrinkles is that your breasts don’t fill out the bra cups. Try going down a cup size. For example, from a 38B to a 38A.
- Choose a demi bra instead of a full coverage bra. Full coverage bras often have extra space at the top of the cup. A demi bra that’s cut lower eliminates this problem.
Problem #2: Can’t Find A Bra My Size
If you opt not to wear breast forms with your bra, it can be tricky to find the perfect fit. Crossdressers and transgender women often struggle to find bras with small cups and large band sizes, as they are not commonly available.
Luckily, I’ve curated a list of bra options specifically catering to those with smaller breasts and broader body proportions:
- Bodycon Multiway Bra – latte – Band sizes 40-46, Cup Sizes B-G
- Flatter Me Bra – Band sizes 40-46, Cup sizes AA-B
- Leading Lady Scallop Lace Bra – Band sizes 36-48, Cup sizes A-DD
- Prima Donna Couture Bra – Band sizes 38-48, Cup sizes B-H
Problem #3: Back Bulge
Another common issue many face is back bulge, often caused by back fat or an ill-fitting bra. So, how can you bid farewell to this dreaded problem?
- Opt for a larger band size. Wearing a band that’s too tight can lead to bulging. Increase your band size by going up one size, such as from a size 42 to a size 44 band.
- Seek bras with flexibility. Look for bras crafted from smooth and stretchy fabrics. These types of bras are less likely to dig into your skin compared to stiffer ones.
- Give longline bras a try. Longline bras feature a wider band that aids in eliminating back bulge. This design provides additional support and helps create a smooth silhouette.
Problem #4: Wide-set Breasts
Wide-set breasts can be a common concern for crossdressers and transgender women due to having a broader rib cage. This can pose two challenges: finding a properly fitting bra and achieving the desired cleavage.
Here are four solutions tailored to wide-set breasts:
- Look for pushup pads. A bra with padding on the sides helps push the breasts together.
- Wear a wireless bra. Underwires can be uncomfortable if they’re not properly centered beneath the breasts. In this case, a wireless bra will fit you better.
- Choose a bra with a wide center panel. The wider the center panel (the triangle-shaped area between the bra cups), the better the bra will fit.
- Find a front closure bra. Front closure tend to have wider-set cups due to the center clasp.
Problem #5: Bra Straps Fall Down
Nothing is more annoying than straps that don’t stay put. Here’s how to solve this problem:
- Tighten the bra straps. Bra straps stretch out over time, so they should be tightened every other month or so.
- Look for silicone bra straps. Some bras have a silicone lining on the straps that helps keep them in place. You can also purchase silicone bra strap cushions that can be worn with any bra.
- Try a different bra style. Balconette and plunge bras tend to have wider straps that are prone to falling. Instead, look for a bra with a racerback or crisscross straps.
Problem #6: Breast Forms Don’t Stay In Place
When it comes to wearing breast forms, choosing the right bra is crucial. Here are five essential tips to guide you:
- Look for a pocket bra. Opt for a bra with built-in pockets specifically designed to hold the breast forms securely in place.
- Go for a full coverage. Another option is a full coverage bra. The cups should fully cover the breast forms for a seamless look.
- Opt for underwires. Select bras with underwires for added support and shape, especially if you are wearing heavy or large forms.
- Ensure a snug bra band. This provides support for the breast forms. To test, put a finger under the band between your breasts. If you can fit two or more fingers, the band is too loose. Tighten it or go down a band size.
- Avoid low cut bras. Low cut bras don’t have enough coverage to support the breast forms. Choose a full coverage bra instead.
- Avoid bras that are too small. Bras that are too small can damage your breast forms. Look for a bra that fits you properly.
Problem #7: Bra Shows Through Clothing
Just like visible panty lines, a bra that peeks through your clothes isn’t exactly fashionable (unless, of course, that’s the look you’re going for).
Here’s how to ensure your bra stays discreetly concealed:
- Look for bras with smooth cups and minimal details. Lacy fabrics and trimmings are pretty, but they often show through lightweight fabrics.
- Wear a black or skin tone bra. The black bra should be worn under dark clothing, while a nude or skin tone bra words best with light colors. Avoid white bras since these tend to show through clothing.
What are YOUR biggest bra problems?
Hopefully your biggest bra problem now is having too many bras and too little time!
But if you have any bra woes that weren’t covered, share them below so we can help. And if you have any other tips to add to this list, I’d love to hear them!
Love,
Lucille
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Another great article – I think I have arrived at my bra size by trial and error together with information from the web. Of all women’s clothing I have to admit that my favourite item is a bra. I just love wearing a bra and sometimes wish I had the courage to have breast augmentation – my fantasy. How lovely it must feel to have your own breasts and I salute the courage of those who follow their dreams. Thanks again.
Looks like a fantastic outfit. Might be nice to see there est sometime too. Have a great day.
Hello Gurls, Thank you for the fantastic tips, they do help allot! Here’s my dilemma; I am not a fan of these foam cupped bras. I like the feel and look, of a soft,stretchy,nylon and Lycra cupped bra. I wear 36A, when I go “natural”, or a 36B, when I wear my Breast Forms. If anyone can advise a Gurl on a budget, where she can find, these Nylon Lycra soft cup bras, please share. Thank you, have a “Gurlie Day”!
This is very helpful, but I’d like to add to it finding the right forms AND bra. If you have forms that do not fit or rest on your chest properly, then an ill-fitting bra will look even worse. If you have any pectoral muscle or flesh, get forms with concave backs so they look more natural. Then, for the bra, take the measurements with the forms in place. Adhere them and measure. Finding the right bra is definitely a challenge on its own!
I too have had problems finding a correct fitting bra. I have been measured in several places an all have agreed that my “correct” size is a 40 Nearly B cup. However, NO ONE makes that size so going to a B cup is NOT an option. It is extremely hard to find a 40A size, and going DOWN a band size DIGS into the skin. Solution on band size I use bra extensions. Solution on Cup size: I get a 38D push up that gives nice cleavage. (I am a “heavy set” girl).
Hope this helps all of you “heavy set” girls that find it hard to get a proper fitting bra!
Lucille
You are my lifesaver.
The option of the Maidenform Longline Bra especially gets my vote, to reinforce my feminine image and sentiments.
The tips and advice about having our bras correctly fitting are superb.
Love Richard
“Richard”…Isn’t it great to wear our Bras that we love the best. Love, Paula
“Richard”…I would love to “Talk Bras” with you…I’m at “pzcapman@gmail.com”. Love, Paula (Paul)
That is so correct. The re-assurance you get from the right bra for yourself is considerable.
I like sports bras 🙂
Such a good feeling
Now THERE’S a super appropriate subject. Who doesn’t want to be sure they have the best bra? What a great resource you are, Lucille!
I also appreciated Lucille, Kristen, Cynthia, Dianne9, and I think a few others, suggesting being fitted at a store. The salesfolks will love to help you, girls, it doesn’t matter if you don’t perfectly match the female ideal.
One thing I noticed is that the nominal sizes really are nominal. The actual bras vary all over the map in a given size. I have found that my best fits are with a smaller band size, and a larger cup size. Extenders are helpful if you get tight bands, and might give you just the bra you need.
You can also bend the wires for a better fit.
I have been quite pleased with wireless bras, as well.
What feels really wonderful is having a bra with loose cups, that get filled properly later. Or having to discard a bra because it has finally gotten too small. YES!!
Yes it is wonderful when you find you can move up a cup size. Needing to go up in band size…..well that’s a different story. ; )
I am a 38D, and I love all my Bras from VS