Feeling feminine is as easy as slipping into a beautiful bra.
However, it’s not always easy to get the right fit since most bras aren’t designed with crossdressers and transgender women in mind.
But fear not, because there ARE solutions!
In this blog post, I share how to solve your 7 biggest bra problems. Discover how to find the perfect fit and style, so you and “your girls” can look your absolute best.
Problem #1: Wrinkled Or Gapping Bra Cups
Bra cups that don’t lay smooth are a common problem. Fortunately, there are two easy fixes:
- Go down a cup size. The main reason for wrinkles is that your breasts don’t fill out the bra cups. Try going down a cup size. For example, from a 38B to a 38A.
- Choose a demi bra instead of a full coverage bra. Full coverage bras often have extra space at the top of the cup. A demi bra that’s cut lower eliminates this problem.
Problem #2: Can’t Find A Bra My Size
If you opt not to wear breast forms with your bra, it can be tricky to find the perfect fit. Crossdressers and transgender women often struggle to find bras with small cups and large band sizes, as they are not commonly available.
Luckily, I’ve curated a list of bra options specifically catering to those with smaller breasts and broader body proportions:
- Bodycon Multiway Bra – latte – Band sizes 40-46, Cup Sizes B-G
- Flatter Me Bra – Band sizes 40-46, Cup sizes AA-B
- Leading Lady Scallop Lace Bra – Band sizes 36-48, Cup sizes A-DD
- Prima Donna Couture Bra – Band sizes 38-48, Cup sizes B-H
Problem #3: Back Bulge
Another common issue many face is back bulge, often caused by back fat or an ill-fitting bra. So, how can you bid farewell to this dreaded problem?
- Opt for a larger band size. Wearing a band that’s too tight can lead to bulging. Increase your band size by going up one size, such as from a size 42 to a size 44 band.
- Seek bras with flexibility. Look for bras crafted from smooth and stretchy fabrics. These types of bras are less likely to dig into your skin compared to stiffer ones.
- Give longline bras a try. Longline bras feature a wider band that aids in eliminating back bulge. This design provides additional support and helps create a smooth silhouette.
Problem #4: Wide-set Breasts
Wide-set breasts can be a common concern for crossdressers and transgender women due to having a broader rib cage. This can pose two challenges: finding a properly fitting bra and achieving the desired cleavage.
Here are four solutions tailored to wide-set breasts:
- Look for pushup pads. A bra with padding on the sides helps push the breasts together.
- Wear a wireless bra. Underwires can be uncomfortable if they’re not properly centered beneath the breasts. In this case, a wireless bra will fit you better.
- Choose a bra with a wide center panel. The wider the center panel (the triangle-shaped area between the bra cups), the better the bra will fit.
- Find a front closure bra. Front closure tend to have wider-set cups due to the center clasp.
Problem #5: Bra Straps Fall Down
Nothing is more annoying than straps that don’t stay put. Here’s how to solve this problem:
- Tighten the bra straps. Bra straps stretch out over time, so they should be tightened every other month or so.
- Look for silicone bra straps. Some bras have a silicone lining on the straps that helps keep them in place. You can also purchase silicone bra strap cushions that can be worn with any bra.
- Try a different bra style. Balconette and plunge bras tend to have wider straps that are prone to falling. Instead, look for a bra with a racerback or crisscross straps.
Problem #6: Breast Forms Don’t Stay In Place
When it comes to wearing breast forms, choosing the right bra is crucial. Here are five essential tips to guide you:
- Look for a pocket bra. Opt for a bra with built-in pockets specifically designed to hold the breast forms securely in place.
- Go for a full coverage. Another option is a full coverage bra. The cups should fully cover the breast forms for a seamless look.
- Opt for underwires. Select bras with underwires for added support and shape, especially if you are wearing heavy or large forms.
- Ensure a snug bra band. This provides support for the breast forms. To test, put a finger under the band between your breasts. If you can fit two or more fingers, the band is too loose. Tighten it or go down a band size.
- Avoid low cut bras. Low cut bras don’t have enough coverage to support the breast forms. Choose a full coverage bra instead.
- Avoid bras that are too small. Bras that are too small can damage your breast forms. Look for a bra that fits you properly.
Problem #7: Bra Shows Through Clothing
Just like visible panty lines, a bra that peeks through your clothes isn’t exactly fashionable (unless, of course, that’s the look you’re going for).
Here’s how to ensure your bra stays discreetly concealed:
- Look for bras with smooth cups and minimal details. Lacy fabrics and trimmings are pretty, but they often show through lightweight fabrics.
- Wear a black or skin tone bra. The black bra should be worn under dark clothing, while a nude or skin tone bra words best with light colors. Avoid white bras since these tend to show through clothing.
What are YOUR biggest bra problems?
Hopefully your biggest bra problem now is having too many bras and too little time!
But if you have any bra woes that weren’t covered, share them below so we can help. And if you have any other tips to add to this list, I’d love to hear them!
Love,
Lucille
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After experimenting lots i have finally found that i prefer gel or padded bras
After experimenting with different styles i tend to go for gel or firm padded bras
As a Drag Queen I have found that I have had (in the past) to get my breast forms to look like real breast with cleavage and everything. then One of the fellow Queens and a girly friend suggested that I push up my natural breast and put the breast forms under my real breast to help bunch up my cleavage. as you can see It works like a charm!
“Danielle”…You are sure one “Pretty, Sexy Girl”. Love, Paula
AH thanks, it takes a lot of work to look this good, and that was a couple of years ago. You could follow and like me on Facebook @ Danielle Josephina Standford and keep up with my progress into feminine expression
I’ve tried taping,(the aftermath is pure agony) and those glue and clench bra’s and the full on strap under with velcro, but have had Zero success in developing cleavage. There is a bra with pull to adjust straps, but not in my size. I did try something similar, where there were multiple adjustment’s to tighten each cup, but again limited success. The person who comes up with a successful cleavage bra for us Xdressers, I will be beating a path to their door.
OK have you tried wearing a compression shirt with a push up bra? if so then I would say that you will probably have to learn how to use makeup to make the look you’re trying for. not a lot people will like this but it takes having some body fat to actually achieve good cleavage. cause lets face it that really all Boobs are for women is just fat collectors
I highly recommend leating lady bras. My size is a 44A and they fit perfectly and come in many different colors.Also, many different companies carry them.
Numbers 2, 4, and 5 are definitely problems I have to deal with all the time.
2 and 4 are because I have small cup wide spaced breasts.
Being Australian size 20 (US band size 42) most bras in my band size are underwire and for far larger bra cups than I have. Most size 20 bras I see start at D cup. Some start at C. With a tiny minority starting at B, my size.
I have always found underwire bras to be just too uncomfortable to wear, so I always look for wireless bras.
5 is because what bras I do have, have slowly worn out over time, and I have not yet found suitable replacements. Straps wear out and eventually the slides won’t hold.
My skin and the stretchy sticky silicone used by some bras and on all stay-up stockings, does not get along at all. Skin irritation and blisters. So some nice looking bra designs I’ve found in my size have had to be passed by.
Sometimes 7 is NOT a problem, you want the bra to show through what you are wearing, so you specifically select a colour that will show through the clothes you are wearing.
I don’t have developed female breasts yet. So I’ve been wearing gorgeous silicone breasts that have a sticky double sided gel like strip that sticks to both the breast on one side and to your chest on the other side.
I’ve been able to support the 38C breast with either a wire supporting bra or non wireless bra. A pocket bra can also been worn. These high quality silicone breast are not cheap but they feel and look great. And the sticky silicone gel strip is a nice added feature.
If you’re interested in this type of breast check out “Take a Walk on the Wild Side”. This store is located in Toronto, Ontario Canada. They cater to transgenders mainly, and have been around for several decades.
Jamie
Thanks for the tip Jamie, I’m watching the breast taping video now.
There’s a second reason to avoiding bras that are too small a cup size for your breast forms.
Forms that are too big and/or heavy for the cups, will damage the cups and the bra straps.
not being able to wear them enough
Ok Honey, if you want to wear a Bra all the time but you don’t want people at work to know you are wearing a bra here is what i do. When I am Miss Danielle I wear a full on sexy bra to support and Breast forms and everything, Cuz while lets face it that her goal. However, when Mr. Daniel comes out, but I still want the feel of a good Bra. I will wear a cheap discount Sports bra with no cup built in. It give me the feeling of wearing a bra without the front breast look or flatting my bra cups out! try it and see what I’m talking about it!
“Danielle/Daniel”…I WANT PEOPLE TO KNOW THAT I AM WEARING MY BRA ! Love, Paula
Nice idea….wearing sports bra when you don’t want others to know ….and yet have the wonderful feeling of wearing a bra.
Absolutely agree, currently do not wear my bras to work, wish I could. Outside of work I’m definitely wearing them almost all the time. I’m a size 38C and need the support my bras give me. 🙂
If you want people to know that you are wearing a bar then Why worry if they notice the Bra pushing out, my suggestion was for those who wanted wear a Bra without others knowing they are. If your breast are biggest enough to need a Bra then you shouldn’t need to worry about other people commenting on you wearing a Bra, but rather that you aren’t wearing a Bra! IMO
“Kristin”…If you need the support, I think that you should wear some type of Bra all the time. Love, Paula
I have to say you nailed it with your comment. 100% Agree!!
One of my fave subjects. There are many bra reviews on YouTube that are quite informative. Bras are fun and sexy.