Feeling beautiful, feminine, and sexy isn’t just for the young. If you’re a crossdresser or transgender woman, you too deserve to feel sexy and confident at any age.
However, dressing sexy isn’t necessarily about wearing mini skirts and stripper heels, especially as you age. Remember, there’s a fine line between sexy and slutty!
Instead, the key is to present yourself in a stylish and sexy manner that complements your age and body type. In this blog post, I’ll be sharing my top 3 crossdressing / MTF fashion tips for dressing sexy at any age.
Rule #1: Show Some Skin (Just Not Too Much)
While short skirts and low-cut tops are undeniably sexy, it’s important not to go overboard. Here are a couple of guidelines to keep in mind:
- Your skirt should be no shorter than fingertip length when you stand with your arms at your sides. This ensures that you’re not revealing too much skin.
- Your top should show no more than 40% of your bust. This allows you to show off your assets in a tasteful and classy way, without overdoing it.
Remember, dressing sexy is all about finding the right balance between revealing and concealing.
Rule #2: Find the Right Proportions
Proportion is a crucial factor in how your clothes work together in terms of length, width, size, and volume. For example:
- A short skirt paired with a short top tends to look overtly revealing.
- A long skirt with a long top can appear frumpy.
- A full skirt with a full top may add visual weight.
- A tight skirt with a tight top can create an unflattering, sausage-like appearance (unless you have a flawless body!)
It’s important to strike the right balance in your outfit, so you should avoid going too far in any one direction.
If you opt for something tight or revealing, you should balance it out with the rest of your outfit. For example:
- A short skirt should be paired with a more covered top
- A skimpy top should be paired with a more covered bottom.
- A tight skirt should be paired with a fuller top.
- A tight top should be paired with a fuller skirt.
Rule #3: Wear Luxurious Fabrics
The fabrics you choose to wear is the final piece of the sexy puzzle.
When you hear the word “slutty,” you might picture a spandex skirt, a barely-there glitter top, and patent leather stripper boots.
On the other hand, “sexy” is often associated with luxurious fabrics such as silk, velvet, lace, and cashmere.
When shopping for clothes, look for fabrics that are rich and sensuous – rather than cheap and tacky.
Final Thoughts…
The bottom line is that you can look sexy and feminine at any age. Just be sure to keep it classy.
As always, I’d love to hear your thoughts on this topic. Please leave me your comments below!
And if you’re already mastered the art of sexy ageless dressing, don’t forget to include a photo.
Love,
Lucille
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I agree completely with the tips here. I have seen some utterly ridiculous crssdressers and transgender girls. I am an older cd and try to dress sexy but also age appropriately. I really don’t care for the too tight slutty look
I enjoy your tips so much and look forward to every installment. As a woman of transgender I missed out on so many beauty and fasion tips that women learn along the way.
Now as I am starting my new professional life as a woman I NEED the tips
with appreciation
Carla
Dear Lucille. I just love your transformation suggestions to help me be more feminine. Very useful information. Thank you for heling me. May I please ask if you think that shiny satin blouses or dresses are a luxurious fabric to wear for an older plus size cd? If so, what would you suggest wearing as a bottom ( skirt or pants) for the satin blouse, and what type and color should be paired with it
I agree with your three steps. I am told by other people I dress nicely and have good taste in clothes
I’ve been following your advise for years. Just look at me…
Jamie : You look Fabulous!
As a 71 yo, I appreciate how much effort “we” put into an outfit. ..Enjoy my pics. …..T.J
I am slowly getting more confident going out .I spent most of my day yesterday at the mall and shopped victorias secret and even was measured for bras!!!
i agree with your 3 Rules for Dressing Sexy at Any Age
I appeared in public two times. But still I am not confident much. I need more lessons from Luceiley