Feeling beautiful, feminine, and sexy isn’t just for the young. If you’re a crossdresser or transgender woman, you too deserve to feel sexy and confident at any age.
However, dressing sexy isn’t necessarily about wearing mini skirts and stripper heels, especially as you age. Remember, there’s a fine line between sexy and slutty!
Instead, the key is to present yourself in a stylish and sexy manner that complements your age and body type. In this blog post, I’ll be sharing my top 3 crossdressing / MTF fashion tips for dressing sexy at any age.
Rule #1: Show Some Skin (Just Not Too Much)
While short skirts and low-cut tops are undeniably sexy, it’s important not to go overboard. Here are a couple of guidelines to keep in mind:
- Your skirt should be no shorter than fingertip length when you stand with your arms at your sides. This ensures that you’re not revealing too much skin.
- Your top should show no more than 40% of your bust. This allows you to show off your assets in a tasteful and classy way, without overdoing it.
Remember, dressing sexy is all about finding the right balance between revealing and concealing.
Rule #2: Find the Right Proportions
Proportion is a crucial factor in how your clothes work together in terms of length, width, size, and volume. For example:
- A short skirt paired with a short top tends to look overtly revealing.
- A long skirt with a long top can appear frumpy.
- A full skirt with a full top may add visual weight.
- A tight skirt with a tight top can create an unflattering, sausage-like appearance (unless you have a flawless body!)
It’s important to strike the right balance in your outfit, so you should avoid going too far in any one direction.
If you opt for something tight or revealing, you should balance it out with the rest of your outfit. For example:
- A short skirt should be paired with a more covered top
- A skimpy top should be paired with a more covered bottom.
- A tight skirt should be paired with a fuller top.
- A tight top should be paired with a fuller skirt.
Rule #3: Wear Luxurious Fabrics
The fabrics you choose to wear is the final piece of the sexy puzzle.
When you hear the word “slutty,” you might picture a spandex skirt, a barely-there glitter top, and patent leather stripper boots.
On the other hand, “sexy” is often associated with luxurious fabrics such as silk, velvet, lace, and cashmere.
When shopping for clothes, look for fabrics that are rich and sensuous – rather than cheap and tacky.
Final Thoughts…
The bottom line is that you can look sexy and feminine at any age. Just be sure to keep it classy.
As always, I’d love to hear your thoughts on this topic. Please leave me your comments below!
And if you’re already mastered the art of sexy ageless dressing, don’t forget to include a photo.
Love,
Lucille
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i like shorts instead of skirts
i would like to go out dressed like this one day
I have been told that I have nice legs and I try to wear skirts that accent them
Most of my skirts are short and this allows me to show as much of my legs as I can
I like the attention that I get when I’m out shopping or dining and I know that it’s my legs that I’m showing that draws attention to me
When I’m wearing a short skirt and have a pair of 3 inch heels open toe with ankle straps on it really makes me feel feminine and sexy without really doing anything else.
As You Know Lucille that heels make a girl look and walk so sexy and paired with a short skirt only adds to the look
Thank you so much for letting me comment on your site.
I really enjoy reading the posts on this site
Do you wear pantyhose honey
No Gerrianne
I like thigh high suntan hose.
I like them because I live in Florida and thigh high stockings are a lot cooler than pantyhose
What could be a sexier fabric than nylon…so girls put on those sexy sheer pantyhose…I wear them all the time!!!.love your cute articles lucille….
Love pantyhose. As much as I can find them appropriate to wear I put them on. Susan.
I agree with you about what you should wear
Personally I like wearing skirts and long sleeve tops
I have quite a collection of skirts with many of them with a hemline about my knees but it doesn’t look slutty because I have great legs and like to show them off
I pair my skirts with long sleeve earth color tops so that the two complement each other
Is sexy associated with wearing a luxurious fabric like shiny charmeuse satin, or shiny liquid satin blouses, skirts, and dresses?
Looking for knee high boots with reasonable heels prefer dark tan.
when i go to the mall, my first stop is the washroom ( ofcourse ladies) and i love doing up me makeup there
how do you think is this footwear which i normally wear
i try to be soft and keep my eye lids partly shit. i try not to smile a lot as that doesnt look so nice