If you’re a crossdresser or transgender woman, you know how tricky it can be to strike a balance between sexy and stylish – especially as you get older.
Does that mean you need to turn down your sex appeal after a certain age? Absolutely not! Everyone deserves to feel sexy and confident at any stage of life.
However, dressing sexy isn’t necessarily about wearing mini skirts and sky-high heels, especially as you age. Remember, there’s a fine line between sexy and slutty!
The key is to present yourself in a way that’s both stylish and sexy, while complementing your age and body type.
In this blog post, I’ll share my top 3 crossdressing and MTF fashion tips to help you embrace your sexy side at any age.
Rule #1: Show Some Skin (Just Not Too Much)
While short skirts and low-cut tops are undeniably sexy, it’s important not to go overboard. Here are a couple of guidelines to keep in mind:
- Your skirt should be no shorter than fingertip length when you stand with your arms at your sides. This ensures that you’re not revealing too much skin.
- Your top should show no more than 40% of your bust. This allows you to show off your assets in a tasteful and classy way, without overdoing it.
Remember, dressing sexy is all about finding the right balance between revealing and concealing.
Rule #2: Find the Right Proportions
Proportion is a crucial factor in how your clothes work together in terms of length, width, size, and volume. For example:
- A short skirt paired with a short top tends to look overtly revealing.
- A long skirt with a long top can appear frumpy.
- A full skirt with a full top may add visual weight.
- A tight skirt with a tight top can create an unflattering, sausage-like appearance (unless you have a flawless body!)
It’s important to strike the right balance in your outfit, so you should avoid going too far in any one direction.
If you opt for something tight or revealing, you should balance it out with the rest of your outfit. For example:
- A short skirt should be paired with a more covered top
- A skimpy top should be paired with a more covered bottom.
- A tight skirt should be paired with a fuller top.
- A tight top should be paired with a fuller skirt.
Rule #3: Wear Luxurious Fabrics
The fabrics you choose to wear is the final piece of the sexy puzzle.
When you hear the word “slutty,” you might picture a spandex skirt, a barely-there glitter top, and patent leather stripper boots.
On the other hand, “sexy” is often associated with luxurious fabrics such as silk, velvet, lace, and cashmere.
When shopping for clothes, look for fabrics that are rich and sensuous – rather than cheap and tacky.
Final Thoughts…
The bottom line is that you can look sexy and feminine at any age. Just be sure to keep it classy.
As always, I’d love to hear your thoughts on this topic. Please leave me your comments below!
And if you’re already mastered the art of sexy ageless dressing, don’t forget to include a photo.
Love,
Lucille
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these are the kind of dresses i like and I guess they fit my age and posture o yes i am transgender woman age 58 actually i haf my srs about 7 years ago and i dont see myself any more as transgender , wish for all my friends love good health and happiness thank lucille for sharing this
My motto is to just try to blend in like any other woman given the situation. Here is me at the mall today. I’m addressed as ma’am or miss wherever I go! I love it!
I love your blog and I agree with your advice. But I wonder what does age have to do with it vs. your appearance. I mean, I like to dress provocatively at times, as you can see, but I am almost 55 years old if you can believe it. I guess, I just started to dress and go out in the last six months so maybe the pink haze has descended upon me and I will eventually mature (but not right yet lol).
Love
WOW You look Great!
Great rules. The finger tip rule is the best and the easiest to follow. I’ve used it ever since I started wearing short skirts.
I would have to be very careful with the finger tip rule. I have very short arms for being 5’12” tall. I would run the risk of being arrested for solicitation by the local police or charged with gross stupidity by the Fashion Police.
I agree & follow those rules. I love great nylon stockings, different colors, patterns. Great shoes are a must at the bottom of the hemlines.
At 71 yo I dress appropriately.
You go girl keep it up
You go girl you have the look
do you think I comply the 3 Rules for Dressing Sexy at my Age ?
Hi Carla
I see absolutely nothing wrong with how you dress. Maybe we Italian girls just have different genes? You can check my style above
Ciao bella
Gina
Carla, you are an amazing lady and would love to correspond with you, care for my email 🙂
I don’t know if you comply or not but you sure look great.
Yes Carla you definitely comply and you look fabulous and sexy.
Congratulation Girl
Pantyhose are ok during winter time or if it’s cool outside but then since they came out with leggings and others their ok to wear during cold day’s n night’s but if wearing certain colors can look tacky with nice outfits/ I go along with lucille depends on age and types of clothes u wear outward or in public I have dresses in short an long skirts pantyhose tops pants shorts still working on my shoe wear I’m lacking in