If you’re a crossdresser or transgender woman, you know how tricky it can be to strike a balance between sexy and stylish – especially as you get older.
Does that mean you need to turn down your sex appeal after a certain age? Absolutely not! Everyone deserves to feel sexy and confident at any stage of life.
However, dressing sexy isn’t necessarily about wearing mini skirts and sky-high heels, especially as you age. Remember, there’s a fine line between sexy and slutty!
The key is to present yourself in a way that’s both stylish and sexy, while complementing your age and body type.
In this blog post, I’ll share my top 3 crossdressing and MTF fashion tips to help you embrace your sexy side at any age.
Rule #1: Show Some Skin (Just Not Too Much)
While short skirts and low-cut tops are undeniably sexy, it’s important not to go overboard. Here are a couple of guidelines to keep in mind:
- Your skirt should be no shorter than fingertip length when you stand with your arms at your sides. This ensures that you’re not revealing too much skin.
- Your top should show no more than 40% of your bust. This allows you to show off your assets in a tasteful and classy way, without overdoing it.
Remember, dressing sexy is all about finding the right balance between revealing and concealing.
Rule #2: Find the Right Proportions
Proportion is a crucial factor in how your clothes work together in terms of length, width, size, and volume. For example:
- A short skirt paired with a short top tends to look overtly revealing.
- A long skirt with a long top can appear frumpy.
- A full skirt with a full top may add visual weight.
- A tight skirt with a tight top can create an unflattering, sausage-like appearance (unless you have a flawless body!)
It’s important to strike the right balance in your outfit, so you should avoid going too far in any one direction.
If you opt for something tight or revealing, you should balance it out with the rest of your outfit. For example:
- A short skirt should be paired with a more covered top
- A skimpy top should be paired with a more covered bottom.
- A tight skirt should be paired with a fuller top.
- A tight top should be paired with a fuller skirt.
Rule #3: Wear Luxurious Fabrics
The fabrics you choose to wear is the final piece of the sexy puzzle.
When you hear the word “slutty,” you might picture a spandex skirt, a barely-there glitter top, and patent leather stripper boots.
On the other hand, “sexy” is often associated with luxurious fabrics such as silk, velvet, lace, and cashmere.
When shopping for clothes, look for fabrics that are rich and sensuous – rather than cheap and tacky.
Final Thoughts…
The bottom line is that you can look sexy and feminine at any age. Just be sure to keep it classy.
As always, I’d love to hear your thoughts on this topic. Please leave me your comments below!
And if you’re already mastered the art of sexy ageless dressing, don’t forget to include a photo.
Love,
Lucille
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Lucille,
You are right on with your clothes recommendations. As an older crossdresser, keeping in shape and watching your weight are as important as the clothes selection. Thanks for your great advice.
I agree with Lucille’s rules but I would not want to wear tight skirts or dresses anyway as I do not have that hour-glass figure I desire. I love to wear skirts and dresses which go out beyond my narrow hips and also make use of my booty which does stick out. I have recently discovered some 1950s strapless dresses which I love and to wear these over a 42C bustier which makes me appear more busty than I actually am but there is nothing indiscreet about them. Until quite recently I never thought I could wear a strapless bra. How glad I am that I am wrong. Over the years I have been going back and forth as to whether to wear pantyhose or stockings. Well, I like to wear both but also to wear leggings too! I do like to show my belly which my adopted mother does not want me to do but I do it anyway upon occasion such as now with a long full skirt!
Tasteful makeup, jewelry. Wigs, and dresses…keep the skin and body in shspe,! Girls/sissies can look great and sexy @any age. If one does not believe it. Watch the dirty looks u,’l get from gaudy drag queens women and younger tgirld and sissies trying to look sexy u outdid them. Chao, girls!
I completely agree, although l do like to give guys something to look at.a short skirt or dress as my legs are great i am told.love amanda
Querida Lucille, waht do you think
about it ? It is correct ?
Thank,s for all, Kisses
Love ideas of dressing up but don’t want to cut/shave body hair. Are thee options
I like these rules and I think for the most part I follow them. There is an occasion that I just like to go slutty though.
Even though I was discussing Medicare at age 64 , what’s wrong with a halter neck sundress ? I think it looks good on me , and the weather was right .