Planning to step out en femme? Don’t forget your bag! More than just a stylish accessory, your purse is a toolbox for your female self.
While a cluttered bag isn’t chic, there are some essentials you shouldn’t be without. You never know what life will throw at you – and a lady is always prepared!
In this blog post, I share 15 transgender / crossdressing items to keep in your purse when you are on the go.
1. Cell phone
Needless to say, you should never leave home without your phone. Besides, you never know when the perfect selfie opportunity will arise!
2. Lip Gloss or Lipstick
A moisturizing lip gloss or lipstick in your favorite shade is a female essential.
3. Mints or Gum
Freshen your breath on the go by keeping a stash of mints or gum on hand.
4. Nail File
There’s nothing more annoying than a broken nail, so throw one of these babies into your bag.
5. $20 Cash
Even though most of us rely on credit or debit cards, you never know when you might need some cash.
6. Hand Cream
Keep your hands feeling soft and feminine with a tube of hand cream.
7. Blotting Paper or Powder
Reduce shine on the go with blotting paper or pressed powder.
8. Bobby Pins
These come in handy if you need to secure your wig or tame some loose strands of hair.
9. Compact Mirror
A must-have for checking your teeth or makeup.
10. Stain Removal Pen
The sooner you treat an unexpected stain, the less likely it is to be permanent.
11. Band-Aids
Not just for cuts and scrapes, a Band-Aid can relieve blisters caused by new shoes.
12. Safety Pins
Those can be a lifesaver if you break a strap or pop a button.
13. Emergency Info
Not to be a downer, but if anything should happen, this could literally save your life.
14. Advil or Tylenol
Keep a couple painkillers on hand in case you get a surprise headache.
15. Healthy Snack
Hunger can sneak up on you, so keep a healthy snack bar or some nuts in your bag.
What are YOUR purse essentials?
They say you tell a lot about somebody by what she keeps in her purse! Are you a stylish survivalist or do you prefer to travel light?
I’d love to know what YOUR purse essentials are, so please share in the comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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The only thing I also carry in my purse is a little bottle of my favorite perfume, mmmmmmmmmum!
I carry all of these plus condoms and hair brush.
I keep in my purse, all you mentioned above, plus:
Tampons – even though I am a transwoman. I have been asked for one on more than one occasion in the ladies room.
Condom.
Pepper spray or taser – protection first.
Ink pen.
Small umbrella when is rains
Tampons are a must. Great if your a feminine male.
In addition to what Lucille mentioned, I always pack a charging cable/plug in for the phone and a pad or two.
As for the shoes, I find that torrid.com carries larger sizes of shoes that fit me well and are pretty.
One unmentioned thing for your purse would be a condom – safety first.
I need to fine a store that carries heel’s and boot’s and tennie shoe that will fit my feet i need 13wor 13ww size in women’s shoe’s.
I’m in the same boat but I found from time to time that Zappos has wide shoes.
I buy all my shoes at Long Tall Sally, and they carry size 13. I buy pumps, heels, sandals and boots there.
in my purse i carry some of basic thing’s you mentioned lipstick small mirror eye shadow color marker few shades of eyeshadow eyeliner bandaids a brush for my hair tube of makeup cell phone id drivers lisenes some smell good two or three sticks of gum n few others
Hi Lucille.
RE High heels for cross dressers with wide feet,and large length feet.
I need good advice ,about Crossdressers that has wide feet and large size feet..
As you know ,that men and women feet sizes different a little bit.
I’m a crossdressee and I need to buy me a pair of ladies High heels, but struggle with the sizes.
What good advice do you have or tips for a person like me ,who have wide size feet ànd a large size(length) feet?
I like your tips ,you send on a regular basis to my email address.
Please send me your answers to my email address asap.
I wear nothing but women’s shoes and clothing now, having discarded all my men’s clothing and shoes back in 2016. I am a ladies size 13. I buy all my pumps, heels, sandals and boots at Long Tall Sally. I have a couple pair of LTS 4 inch heels that are very comfortable and sexy, as you can see in the attached photo.
Hi – I mentioned this topic in another forum here recently, but if you have a Rack at Nordstrom close to you, I would recommend them. They have great high heels and at a discount. They have sizes up to 13 and beyond I think! I only wear a size 10 women’s shoe. Anyhow, here I am the other day trying on some heels! Good luck, Suzy
Hey Suzy Q…
My wife and I both worked with the Nordstroms; she as an Executive Employee & me as a foot specialist in OC. CA. when they came back to South Coast Plaza.
I sent pts with mismatches feet and they always accommodated every one.
Made many Racks purchases…always pleased. Half Yearly is a great event.
You Always look great!
T.J.
Hey Suzy Q…
My wife and I both worked with the Nordstroms; she as an Executive Employee & me as a foot specialist in OC. CA. when they came back to South Coast Plaza.
I sent pts with mismatches feet and they always accommodated every one.
Made many Racks purchases…always pleased. Half Yearly is a great event.
You Always look great!
T.J.
Milanoo has many modern low medium, high and skyhigh heels of all sizes, i’ve even seen EU size 47!! medium heels
Try shoes.com and pleaser. I wear a ladies size 15!and they always have shoes I can fit in.hard to find flats or espadrilles in my size though.
yes since men an guy’s have broader n sometimes longer feet thing to do try get wider size then comes in female shoes and such along with getting longer length try to avoid pointed one’s if possible i sometimes have same problem even with shorter feet plus might need get shoe widener if can find or afford one