Do you love shopping? What girl doesn’t! Whether it’s a new lipstick or a cute pair of shoes, it’s a lot of fun to splurge on your female self, isn’t it?
Even with all the online shops, there’s nothing like hitting the mall to do some good old-fashioned shopping in person.
But maybe you’re wondering where you should spend your hard-earned money?
In this article, I share the 7 best trans and crossdresser friendly stores to shop at. These retailers support transgender causes and/or have gender inclusive policies – meaning they are truly worthy of your business.
Note: I focused on U.S. retailers since that’s where I’m based. Please share in the comments if you have any international shops to add!
1. SEPHORA
Sephora is like a candy shop for girls and I could easily spend half my salary there.
Besides the amazing assortment of beauty products, they also offer mini makeovers and beauty classes. At one point, Sephora even offered skincare and makeup classes specifically for the transgender community.
While these classes are no longer listed on the site, they have launched a dedicated online group called Trans is Beautiful. I love Sephora’s philosophy of inclusivity and acceptance.
2. LUSH
LUSH is the best smelling store at the mall with their amazingly-scented natural beauty products.
Here’s another reason to love them: In early 2018, they ran a two week #TransRightsAreHumanRights campaign, featuring quotes from their transgender employees in all the windows of their North American stores.
They also distributed a guidebook called How to Be a Trans Ally in their shops and online.
3. Torrid
I’ve heard from so many of my blog readers that Torrid is one of their favorite places to shop at! This retailer is known for its affordable and trendy plus-size clothing.
Just as importantly, they are welcoming and supportive of their transgender and crossdressing customers, so you can always feel comfortable going in to shop.
4. Target
A few years ago, Target was at the center of controversy for its inclusive transgender bathroom policy. I’m pleased to see that they have not backed down and their inclusive policy is still proudly displayed on their website.
Aside from that, Target is a great place to shop for stylish, affordable fashion and beauty products – pretty much everything you could need for your feminine self.
5. Lane Bryant
Lane Bryant is another popular plus-size retailer. While their clothing style is more classic and mature, they are also known for their gender inclusive atmosphere.
As an added bonus, Lane Bryant offers a wide range of sizes from 10-40W, making them a favorite of plus size crossdressers and transgender women.
6. Macy’s
Macy’s is another corporate giant that is out and proud with its inclusive policies, including gender friendly changing room policies. Macy’s is also a big supporter of LGBTQ Pride Month and LGBTQ-owned brands.
Macy’s continues to be one of the best places to shop for cosmetics, lingerie, women’s clothing, and shoes. This is one department store chain I hope stays around for a long time.
7. Nike
Nike might seem like an unlikely store to have on this list, but I’ve included them for their very cool commercial featuring transgender vogue dancer Leiomy Maldonado. Check out the video below:
If you’re in the market for some cute workout leggings or a sports bra, Nike should definitely be the first place you look!
What are YOUR favorite places to shop at?
I love that these retailers support the transgender community on a corporate level, but they aren’t your only options.
Helpful sales people and supportive shops can be found almost anywhere if you look. (And if somebody doesn’t treat you with respect, take your business elsewhere!)
What are YOUR favorite places to shop at? Do you have any great shopping experiences to share?
Please share in the comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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My favorite place for shoes is Torrid. They have wide shoes up to 13W. Because they are wide, there’s no size translation between mens and women’s sizes. I am size 12 in mens and size 12W at Torrid.
The haved everything else too. Dresses, tops, pants, skirts all up to size 28. I have a good number of dresses from them and as few skirts. Their tops fit a bit too short for me.
Best of all, they are 100% cool with crossdressers. They know me by my male name and usually give me their biggest fitting room.
Closer to home, Canada that is, my hands down favorite store is Laura. A bit more expensive, but the quality and style are worth it. Their sales staff are all very knowledgeable and professional, and they don’t just accept me, they appear to ENJOY the prospect of helping a CD find her finest inner woman.
I have been to a number of Maurices stores and the sales associates were always welcoming and very friendly
I have been very happy shopping at Ulta for my makeup needs. The staff was very supportive and didn’t bat an eye the first time I walked in, and the first sales associate to walk up to me was Trans (M2F) and her help and advice was amazing.
It’ll only work for Special Occasions (and i’ve only confirmed it in person at their Keizer Oregon location), but David’s Bridal is pretty supportive of transgender and transvestites.
Has anyone had any success shopping at latin women’s clothing stores? They have great styles for crossdressers, but I’m curious how welcoming they would be culturally.
Now that Payless is gone, where can we go to get shoes in our sizes? I am a shoe size 13.
Try Nordstrom Rack. I have bought a number of really cute shoes there in size 13
Now that Payless Shoe store has closed all its shops, can anybody direct me to a place to get some size 13 heels besides amazon??
DSW (Designer Shoe Warehouse) has multiple locations and an online store. They have larger shoe sizes available and very stylish options.
Their main site is: dsw.com
Their store locator is stores.dsw.com
I use to shop Payless regularly. Now I resort to online shopping for shoes 13 and up. Torrid is a great source, True size 13 and in wide sizes.
I shop eBay and Poshmark as well. Hit and miss for selection, but some good prices. I like Long Tall Sally shoes for fit. Website prices are high, so I shop eBay and Poshmark for deals. Shoes of Prey, now out of business, made well-made shoes and shop eBay and Poshmark for them as well.
Try Nordstrom Rack. I have bought a number of really cute shoes there in size 13
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