Expressing your feminine side is about much more than just clothes and makeup. After all, women are a little more complex than that!
That’s why I wanted to go beyond the obvious and explore some unexpected strategies to help you enhance your feminine expression.
In this blog post for crossdressers and transgender women, I share 3 unexpected ways to be more feminine. Read on to learn more!
1. Buy a New Perfume
The right perfume can make you feel irresistibly feminine. While it’s great to have a signature scent, sometimes it helps to switch things up and discover new perfumes to bring out your inner woman.
Here are some suggestions to match your desired vibe:
- Floral scents: Embrace your soft, romantic side with the allure of flowers.
- Fresh or fruity scents: Boost your confidence and energy levels with invigorating notes.
- Woody or oriental scents: Unleash your inner seductress with warm, captivating fragrances.
To learn more, check out my article on MTF Feminization Tips: How to Choose the Perfect Perfume.
2. Be More Polite
Did you know that politeness plays a significant role in enhancing your feminine image?
Countless studies have shown that women tend to excel in the realm of manners, and adopting these social graces can truly elevate your femininity.
Here are three suggestions to keep in mind:
- Embrace the power of “please” and “thank you” – These little words hold huge power in conveying respect and gratitude. Remember to use them often in your daily interactions.
- Soften your language – For example, instead of bluntly saying “I can’t hear you,” opt for a more gentle approach like, “I’m sorry, I can’t quite hear you.” This subtle shift demonstrates empathy and consideration.
- Mind your online presence – Politeness shouldn’t be limited to face-to-face encounters. It’s equally important to be polite when texting, emailing, or engaging in online discussions.
3. Loosen Up
If you’re looking for an instant way to enhance your feminine image, here’s a simple secret: loosen up! This applies to both your body and your mind, and it can work wonders in unleashing your true feminine grace.
First, let’s focus on loosening up your body:
Women naturally possess a graceful, limber quality. If your body feels tense and tight, it can manifest in stiff, jerky movements that lack femininity. Here’s how you can loosen up:
- Consciously relax your body, especially your jaw and shoulders.
- Stretch your muscles on a daily basis.
- Take lots of deep, relaxing breaths.
These simple body-loosening techniques can do more to feminize your movements than all the hip shaking in the world!
Now, let’s shift our focus to loosening up your mind:
The happiest crossdressers and transgender women I know don’t get hung up on “passing” or trying to please everybody. Instead, they embrace who they are while constantly striving to improve themselves.
Life is short, so above all, relax and enjoy the journey!
What are YOUR favorite ways to feel feminine?
As always, I’d love to hear from you on this topic.
What are your favorite – and perhaps unexpected – ways to feel feminine? Please share in the comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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I just try to do everything aruund the house as feminine as possible. Not mincing, prancing, but as i have observed my Mother and Sisters doing things. Admittedly not easy at times.
I also mentally recite Coulett’s mantra “…. each and every day i will try to do better in every little way…” almost a century old but still effective.
Love to All
hiliary
I want to affirm that a smile can sure set a positive mood where ever you are. It’s positive energy, your happiness, brightens up a room in amazing ways that is often reflected back to you from other person’s own smiles.
Also… don’t be in a rush. Enjoy the moment. So many persons forget this especially during the holidays. Relax… smile… and enjoy your family and friends in your life.
I feel especially feminine when I put on my favourite pair of heels and some perfume and makeup! I’ve been studying to become a nail tech and now that I’m almost qualified, I’m in touch with my feminine side for most of the day and not to mention, I’m always surrounded by woman in my new found profession which helps me with my feminine ways!
It probably helps that I live FT now. I love getting a little dressy and hanging out with my best BF and sipping wine and watching chic flics. Giving myself an at home facial and pedicure or oing down to my local dyke bar and flirting with the cute butches don’t hurt either.
I feel especially feminine when I put on my favourite pair of heels and some perfume and makeup! I’ve been studying to become a nail tech and now that I’m almost qualified, I’m in touch with my feminine side for most of the day and not to mention, I’m always surrounded by woman in my new found profession which helps me with my feminine ways!
Three of my favourite ways to feel more feminine are having my body free of body hair and totally moisturised,nails manicured and painted.house filled with floral scents
One the most wonderful things I discovered when I transitioned was the freedom to not be in control. I discovered I could be publicly vulnerable (and yes, I do still remain wary..) and didn’t have to seem to be in control of every situation. I could let the world flow around me. Another wonderful discovery was that as my voice still isn’t where it should be, I learned to be quiet. Another loss of control so to speak, and I found that being quiet and listening more brought its own rewards.
Love this, Dana! You really get the essence of femininity. Pushing is not the only way to be powerful. 🙂
That’s a wonderful observation. I too love the idea of being vulnerable and just letting things flow. However, I have been taking voice lessons for quite some time and this experience helps with confidence. In addition creating you new voice helps identify with your female side.
What I do to feel more feminine is walk.. I observe how I normally walk and I pull my shoulders back pick my head upand start to walk!! Something simple!!
Krystal, I am the same way. I love how it feels to dress up. but when I start walking in my high heels, I feel so feminine and almost girly. When I’m out to a bar, I often get up to walk around because of how warm and feminine I feel inside.