Expressing your feminine side is about much more than just clothes and makeup. After all, women are a little more complex than that!
That’s why I wanted to go beyond the obvious and explore some unexpected strategies to help you enhance your feminine expression.
In this blog post for crossdressers and transgender women, I share 3 unexpected ways to be more feminine. Read on to learn more!
1. Buy a New Perfume
The right perfume can make you feel irresistibly feminine. While it’s great to have a signature scent, sometimes it helps to switch things up and discover new perfumes to bring out your inner woman.
Here are some suggestions to match your desired vibe:
- Floral scents: Embrace your soft, romantic side with the allure of flowers.
- Fresh or fruity scents: Boost your confidence and energy levels with invigorating notes.
- Woody or oriental scents: Unleash your inner seductress with warm, captivating fragrances.
To learn more, check out my article on MTF Feminization Tips: How to Choose the Perfect Perfume.
2. Be More Polite
Did you know that politeness plays a significant role in enhancing your feminine image?
Countless studies have shown that women tend to excel in the realm of manners, and adopting these social graces can truly elevate your femininity.
Here are three suggestions to keep in mind:
- Embrace the power of “please” and “thank you” – These little words hold huge power in conveying respect and gratitude. Remember to use them often in your daily interactions.
- Soften your language – For example, instead of bluntly saying “I can’t hear you,” opt for a more gentle approach like, “I’m sorry, I can’t quite hear you.” This subtle shift demonstrates empathy and consideration.
- Mind your online presence – Politeness shouldn’t be limited to face-to-face encounters. It’s equally important to be polite when texting, emailing, or engaging in online discussions.
3. Loosen Up
If you’re looking for an instant way to enhance your feminine image, here’s a simple secret: loosen up! This applies to both your body and your mind, and it can work wonders in unleashing your true feminine grace.
First, let’s focus on loosening up your body:
Women naturally possess a graceful, limber quality. If your body feels tense and tight, it can manifest in stiff, jerky movements that lack femininity. Here’s how you can loosen up:
- Consciously relax your body, especially your jaw and shoulders.
- Stretch your muscles on a daily basis.
- Take lots of deep, relaxing breaths.
These simple body-loosening techniques can do more to feminize your movements than all the hip shaking in the world!
Now, let’s shift our focus to loosening up your mind:
The happiest crossdressers and transgender women I know don’t get hung up on “passing” or trying to please everybody. Instead, they embrace who they are while constantly striving to improve themselves.
Life is short, so above all, relax and enjoy the journey!
What are YOUR favorite ways to feel feminine?
As always, I’d love to hear from you on this topic.
What are your favorite – and perhaps unexpected – ways to feel feminine? Please share in the comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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i want to have big breast a c cup and quite large buttock and i want to walk on public beaches in bikini.i feel as if am a woman but could not realise am a male.i like to go for swiming at sea where there are nobody but one day i accidently came in front a man .that day i was very ashame what am doing.but till now i use to go but in hidden places.but i would like to walk normally same as every woman.
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Today I was “window shopping” with my girlfriend at Macy’s. I was not dressed up, that is to say I was dressed as my normal guy-self. We had a great time critiquing the latest fashions–wondering how some of the lines made it into the store while ooing & aweing over other lines. I LOVE browsing through women’s apparel whether with my gf or alone! It always makes me feel feminine! And because I have a true passion for this it seems to show as the women who work at these stores are eager to show me more and share their opinions on fashion (I consider it my participation in girl-chat). I’ve even been asked if I would like to try something on! I can NEVER walk past the women’s shoe department without stopping and looking! I had a saleswoman at Nordstroms thank me for picking up a pair of women’s pumps and looking at them by saying, “thank you for not being freaked-out by women’s shoes!” My girlfriend said, “Are you kidding…he could design them!” I was simply beaming after that! Which of course made my smile all the more feminine!
Thank you all!
Hugs,
Rachel
Thanks Lucille for putting up with our emotions.
As a transgender we are all special and unique people.
We are typically shy and introverted.
I love who I am and have always felt special.
I love all these girls and I am so happy to not feel alone.
Louise St John
I love to chat on-line with my friends. I do use my webcam when I do. I love giving compliments to my friends when they impress me with new looks or when they give me advise. I feel especially like a lady when I am wearing RED. I mean everything red, from my underwear to what I am wearing out. I love to put on rings, necklaces, and bracelets. Hair accessories also help me feel my best.
I like to go shopping and I do it when dressed in something nice and not grubby. I get noticed, and I like the attention. I love getting complements when ever I go out and that makes me feel special. Taking time to put on just the right outfit and complementing make-up gets me noticed and I feel extra special.
I look forward to starting my transition soon. I have met with all but the Endro to start HRT and I am looking forward to my appointment.
Oh feeling feminine comes from deep within. I love moving around the house with my favorite lounger, legs freshly shaved and moisturized… you must try Lucille’s alo vera lotion hit from a while back it tingles and make your legs sooo silky. I love to go have a manicure and peticure/ leg massagge. I’ve done it often enough some of the gg’s that have been there before visit. Smiling comes naturally for me as a female. It must be my inner self throughly enjoying itself. Another of my favorite times is as I’m getting dressed in my capris and blouse is Clinque Happy I could bathe in it if I could. It’s almost as good as chocolate! Shaping brows and pubic hair finishes my just being me time.
XOXO Stephie
HI LUCILLE! I love all the advise you have given and I have followed them very carefuly. the only thing I have a problem with is to develop a feminine breast without surgery. I have been taking the 3 items you suggested for a long time now with very little result. can you suggest something else? if anyone else out there can help me I would love to hear about it. thank you in advance M.M. BEST REGARDS: CHELSY.
Hi Manfred
I do not know how long you have been on Lucilles program,but I am sure she will also say,that it does not happen overnight.Truthfully I have forgotten how long I have been with her program,but it definately works.I sent her a photo a few years ago & I am so proud to see she still uses it.I have at least doubled my bust size since then.They are all mine & natural & there is no possible way to explain the extreme pleasure I feel every single time I touch them.All else I accomplished in life ,means nothing compared to them
Just don’t give up
Gayle
Hi love all the coments got a lot out of them some or parts fit me to a T.Having felt like a girl all my life dress up with sis and brother not to mention the sex and now latter in life with a history of sexual abuse from others I am very quiet around men and find that they want me even if I am not dressed as a girl. Now at 60 and having had surgeries after surgery and getting older and more wrinkles I find it harder to evan think as a girl or think to be a girl teeth missing a right finger missing .All happened because life and the way a man is supposed to be protrayed. I have gone with out my own self happiness.Don’t get me wrong I have had a beutiful marriage and loving really good kids.I still can’t stop thinking how much I have passed up not being what I want to be .And at this time in my life I don’t want to hurt anybody involved in my life or around me that love me. I understand and hurt drastically but don’t know what I should do.All of the sugestions are very helpfull in my femininety and remember girls keeping your legs crossed tightly as possible helps in lots of ways.Thankl You lucille you have always been very helpful.te
Terriann hello,
I am Louise and I am 59 nearly 60.I have a great wife, three kids and 8 grandkids.
My wife has always known about my desire to be feminine. I had always said that my time would come. She has given me tips on make-up and how to walk and dress. I have high heels and a small clothing collection.
The kids are all gone and my time is here.I have always been more feminine than masculine on the inside.I played sports and did the macho thing, but, I am still me.
It is never too late. My wife is very encouraging and agrees that I need to be the best girl I can be. Even at 60.
Thanks Lucille,
Their is no age to femininity.
Louise St John