Do you go out in public as a woman?
If the answer is no, you’re not alone. Nearly 75% of my readers rarely or never leave the house en femme.
While going out en femme can be exciting and empowering, it’s not the only way to express your feminine side as a crossdresser or transgender woman.
Whether you choose to go out or keep it private, both options are valid!
This is an important topic, and I’d love to know what you think.
Where do YOU present yourself as a woman?
- Strictly in the privacy of your own home?
- At select places – like nightclubs, meetups, or conferences?
- Anywhere and everywhere as a full time woman?
Please take my poll and share your comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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Hi Lucille,
Glad to hear you are getting settled I look forward to getting the help and advice from you. I am a woman full time now. your programs on presenting yourself as a woman are brilliant and have helped me immensely. As you may know I am going through the gender reassignment process and the end of this month sees me going to hospital in Koh Samui, Thailand for the full SEX CHANGE operation. You can imagine how pleased I am to finally become a complete woman. I have also saved some pennies to buy a sapphire bracelet.
To get back to your question, lately I have been taking dancing lessions. Believe it or not dancing lessions help me present myself both as a woman and as a female.
Wonderful! Congratulations! 🙂
The courage to go out ‘en-femme’, and embrace life, is a difficult decision and ones confidence naturally waivers from time to time. Acceptance and self belief naturally helps and I must confess to having had some ‘Dutch courage’ on occasion. Just go about your business in a nonchalent way and don’t constantly fret about being ‘read’. You will never know whether someone is looking at you in an admiring way or aghast at your cheek in thinking you can get away with it. Does it really matter at the end of the day?
I know it is very tempting to ‘glam up’ and put on a mask but look at other women in the Supermarket. More likely than not they will be dressed down for such a mundane task unless they are on their lunch break from the office. Try and blend in as best you can.
My bete noir is my voice. That is often the give away until you engage in conversation and move the focus. Don’t exaggerate your female voice or mannerism. Try to be natural and confident. Be yourself.
Those coming into very close proximity, such as your hairdresser, are pretty certain to know you are Trans but it is their job and your money. Most welcome you as a small diversion in an otherwise mundane day.
Personally, I have been dressing since childhood. I have never married and live my life as I wish which nowadays is pretty well exclusively as a woman. There are times naturally when I have to revert to a male personna (hey, that is life!).
Good luck to you all.
Juliet
Since a long time I’m en femme at home, together with my wife, neighbours and sometimes friends.
I go out shopping with girlfriends(bio women). Go visiting them en femme. Although sometimes I’m to busy with work as a nurse. A also went to a client en femme. was really great.
That’s the best I like. I than feel complete feminine.
For the rest I try to be dressed as much feminine as possible in my daly live. There’s enough female clothes that a man can wear in daily live.
Sweet greetings Henriette.
Lucille, wonderful to hear from you. Since new Year, I have bought my first pair of high heels, my first skirt, a blouse..Most exciting of all I tried on a skirt in the fitting room of a shop and did not get any raction from staff at all. I also shaved all my body hair. Finally a GG froiend wanted me to turn up at her house fully dressed but circumstances are against us at the moment. I might be able to manage it if i can find a nice pair of women’s trousers, but a skirt would be too daring for me in the street. So you see various things have happened – all driven by you and my Girl friend. xx
mostly at home alone becuz i’m afraid of coming out to my friends and family right now
I live Full time and have for 1 1/2 year now, I get estrogen and what else helps;) and I am so happy now:)
I don’t allways pass as a woman, not yet anyway. I have no problem with work family or anything else.
And it is just sooooo good to feel as a beautiful woman, True? 😉
I have gone out in public. I was on Sr hormones about a year ago for 8 months. My breasts started to develop. I went to San Francisco to be among other Tg/Ts’s . I found some immediately there. The “made me over” beautifully and I walked the streets as a beautiful blonde w/ blue eyes in a nice “daisy” flowerprint miniskirt & heels. It was wonderful. Recently, after dressing up with 2 tg’s in downtown Chicago I was stuck “dressed” and “Made Over” with having to walk the streets of the South side of Chicago to the train station and arrive home about 3 hours later. I got rid of a lot of fear the hard way this way. I’ve also gone to the local gas station “dressed”. Both my parents have seem my “enfemme”. Mom liked to call me a ‘sissy” for the longest time. With dad, I just told him the other “gurls” dressed me that way. He didn’t want to know anymore. They are both very traditional. I am in the process of moving residences in the next few months, at which point I’ll have more freedom to “transgender” and live my life as a female.
HI.My name is Marie and i am from Sweden.I am a transsexual and i will have my SRS this year.I going to voice therapy,i have get laser so its finish now.Ilive full time as a woman.
Best regards to every body