Do you go out in public as a woman?
If the answer is no, you’re not alone. Nearly 75% of my readers rarely or never leave the house en femme.
While going out en femme can be exciting and empowering, it’s not the only way to express your feminine side as a crossdresser or transgender woman.
Whether you choose to go out or keep it private, both options are valid!
This is an important topic, and I’d love to know what you think.
Where do YOU present yourself as a woman?
- Strictly in the privacy of your own home?
- At select places – like nightclubs, meetups, or conferences?
- Anywhere and everywhere as a full time woman?
Please take my poll and share your comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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Hi Lucille: I “came out” thirty years ago and was well recived by several close friends and relatives with whom I went places and enjoyed many happy times as Melanie. The greatest time was when I spent a whole week in Florida (going both down and back -it was when airport security was not so much “in your face” as it is now). Some people I met had been told about me, though many were not,-but everyone was kind and friendly. Once or twice one of my nieces wispered “I think you just were “read”, and perhaps I was, but nothing ever came of it. Back in the day I was way younger and prettier looking as Melanie. I did go out alone a lot locally, usually to shops and often to Church (which I forgot to mention in my list). I only wish your program had come along back then. I am old and sick now and seldom go out. I am so grayeful for all you do for our sisters who are such lovely persons and yet so desperate for love and acceptance.
Love, Melanie.
in my house alone.I’m afraid to go out dressed as a woman
i’m trying to grow breast for myself
“tom”…Even though you don’t have breasts, do you wear a Bra like I do ???
Where do I present myself en-femme?
It’s always with my beloved Mistress. She delights in feminising me and I love it. I dress to please her and it is best is when she dresses me in her clothes. She is so encouraging as my breasts grow and in her private company I can be the girlie lesbian she wants. In the privacy of her rooms I realy feel liberated and feminine
Good for You Danielle , a perfect and dreamy relationship
Other – when on a date with a man.
I really adore the guidance and advice that Lucille provides, and the support offered by the other girls. I project myself as feminine as I possibly can, including lingerie and forms, when I am meeting with a very close circle of empathic friends; when I travel, shop and when I go to a nightclub. I am very much looking forward to absorbing further tips about further embracing my femininity.
I have seen LOTS of advice for women.. BUT very little directed at women of Afican back ground ( Black/Dark skinned) thx!!!
Thanks for making this point. What are the specific challenges you would like help with? I will address this in the future.
Hugs,
Lucille
my love of contortion eveuntally became a love of the female body as a guy i always felt different than other guys a lot of bad experinces has happend to me in my life being kicked out of 3 colleges bullied in junior high . i never thought of myself as a man just a tomboy in a guys body i have a femmine voice i have a easier time talking to girls rather boys i never really liked most sports(except martial arts no matter as a man or a woman that is my second love)