Do you go out in public as a woman?
If the answer is no, you’re not alone. Nearly 75% of my readers rarely or never leave the house en femme.
While going out en femme can be exciting and empowering, it’s not the only way to express your feminine side as a crossdresser or transgender woman.
Whether you choose to go out or keep it private, both options are valid!
This is an important topic, and I’d love to know what you think.
Where do YOU present yourself as a woman?
- Strictly in the privacy of your own home?
- At select places – like nightclubs, meetups, or conferences?
- Anywhere and everywhere as a full time woman?
Please take my poll and share your comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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I started hrt 8 months ago and go everywhere (outside of work) as female. I dress, look and act like the woman I was born to be. I’m still a bit heavy, but working very hard on that. I hope to be looking great in a bathing suit by summer.
It’s getting hard at times now family and two best friends left the state ow most of my time is at the park’s and beach early morning or late at night love the beach at night with out really having someone else to be with is hard and sometimes I feel alone but I keep on doing it I do love being a woman
Hi Joann, please tell me you’re on the lower side of the west coast.. . .
I am about at the 4 year mark from when I crossed the blurry boundary between de facto woman to a self-identified & affirming woman. (About this time, people who had been watching me change through the years decided “she must be a woman.” and when I realized this was commonly happening, I relaxed into my identity, and claimed it publically by changing my legal name and gender marker)…
…Today was a little odd because I have let my facial hair grow-out a couple days so that I can have my first electrolysis session tomorrow morning: odd, partly because I was ma’m-ed at the AutoZone this morning despite dressing like someone “in between…”
I consider myself transitioned and whatever I do now, I do as the woman I am.
…It may seem odd that I am finally getting to electrolysis after 7 years of transition, but I’ve had to do this on a shoestring budget (due to my spouse’s chronic health issues). I am blessed that my facial hair is relatively sparse and colorless: this electrolysis is to get rid of the few dark hairs I have…
…Because I’ve been living as myself all these years now, my gender dysphoria is mostly gone – my facial hair is really the only thing that triggers me now. I had an orchidectomy last spring (as women’s surgery), and hope to have the rest of my GRS at some point (blessedly my insurance covered this!)…I’m holding-off the rest of it if/until my spouse can manage with me having fully female genitalia…
…Nevertheless: I am a woman whether I have the clothes, voice, movements & mannerisms, name, legal status, affirmation, hormones, surgery, or whatever. I have always been a female person, and these things affirm the woman I am.
Blessings & Joy!!
Bretta
H’I Bretta WOW YOU LOOK LIKE THE REAL DEAL and CUTE like to get to know you and how you came out of your shell I want to do the same have any pointers pleases email me love to know bless you on your new journey. Love Petra
*Thank You* Teresa!! 🙂
Most female people *become* women through their girlhood and adolescence, but *this* female person has become through her transsexuality and transition…
…I am a transgender woman, and for me that means that parts of my body are male, parts are female and the rest of my body is in the overlap of the two sexes. As a “DES child” (endocrine-disruption via diethylstilbestrol exposure in gestation), I occupy the blurry space between transsexual and intersex…
…Always a female person, once I lived as a special sort of man, and now by God’s grace I live as a special sort of woman…
…I am *so blessed*, so blessed, so blessed to *be* 🙂
Bretta, I to see you as a natural looking girl. Huggs Teresa
*Thank You* Petra, you’re very kind 🙂
Please feel free to contact me: Bretta.Blatchley at gmail.
Blessings!!
I hardly get the chance anymore, due mostly to the loss of all my local friends in the area (moved on mostly), or the conditions in which I live, (non-supportive). As much as I would love to be able to express my femme self more, I need the friends and locations to do so and they are lacking now.
H’I Michelle if your own local friends left you they were not your real friends as they say turn over a new leaf. Petrasweetheart69
I go anywhere and everywhere as I live completely as a woman and do not care if I am sometimes “read”. I have not had any real problems with people not accepting me for a long time, things have changed a lot since I started out in 1983.
Since I own very few mens clothes (a few tee shirts) every I go I dress femm. I don’t do the wig thing but then I like my own natural hair…63 and still have a full head of hair.
I go out occasionally shopping and to trans friendly bars. I used to be really self conscious, but the more I would go out the more I just didn’t care anymore. I think being on hormones helps a lot since I just feel more comfortable in general and identify more as a woman. I am tall for a woman, especially in high heels, but seldom do I get looks or comments. I think the more confident one becomes the less you care what others think.