Do you go out in public as a woman?
If the answer is no, you’re not alone. Nearly 75% of my readers rarely or never leave the house en femme.
While going out en femme can be exciting and empowering, it’s not the only way to express your feminine side as a crossdresser or transgender woman.
Whether you choose to go out or keep it private, both options are valid!
This is an important topic, and I’d love to know what you think.
Where do YOU present yourself as a woman?
- Strictly in the privacy of your own home?
- At select places – like nightclubs, meetups, or conferences?
- Anywhere and everywhere as a full time woman?
Please take my poll and share your comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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I go out like this all the time and I don’t care about what eneyone thinks we should all be like that but I do know that it’s very hard it took me 30 years to do it but I’m happy with my self now just do it it will be exciting and scary the first time
I recently had a glamorous make-up done Vera Vanguard of Hollywood. It was so good I went out in public and even got a flattering comment from a natal female! After I lose some more weight I will do it again and again. Yay!
Let’s do a makeup day
I used to date another TV/CD and although that was never my dream or goal, one good thing that came out of it was that we pushed each other to go out in public. Sometimes the gay/TG bars can become just an expanded closet. We went to restaurants, movies, museums, concerts, cultural events, art galleries, bike riding, malls, etc. 95% of the time there was never a problem. Once in awhile we would get a smart aleck remark or get called the “S” word (“sir”). If it was a store or restaurant that used the “S” word, that was the last time they got my money. The two places that I’m still reluctant to go to are a sports bar or a major sporting event – i.e. places where there are a lot of drunk men.
From this picture I think you pass quite well.I don’t know why anyone would call you Sir.
Well Lucille ! When i do go out dressed i am on a date i just feel more comfortable being on the arm of a male companion. I feel people don’t really pay that much attention to me and just pass as a couple out for the evening. I know it sounds crazy but i’m just more relaxed an seems to work well for me any ways. An i do go out with other TG’s and crossdressing women to clubs that accept us as who we are. But i never have really been or gone out totally alone be side’s i think its safer then being by your self. May be some day will all be able to go out wearing any thing we want with out worrys of being attact or well who knows. The world we live in is a bit crazy you just never know. But any ways thats how i do it and it seems to work quite well it has so far any ways (smile) BYEEEEEEEE 4 NOW !
I very rarely go out dressed entirely in “female” clothing, because in my neighborhood, that simply isn’t safe. Oh, nothing would happen in a public area, but the Klan is quite active here (though “underground”). It is a rural enough area that they could easily figure out where I live, and make things generally miserable.
I have gone out “dressed” on Halloween, and when playing shows such as Cabaret, wherein the orchestra is supposed to be “in drag”. On those occasions, I have discovered that I “pass” fairly well, until I open my mouth. 🙂
I don’t feel terribly dis-gendered, But wish I were free to wear whatever I wanted to whenever I wanted to. Maybe someday this country will learn to accept that.
I’m so so sorry to hear that Dorothy. To have to live in fear is not the American Way. I hope you find a safe place to be you sister.
I have never been out in Public, except for Halloween, but I don’t count that. I wish I could be Susan 24/7, but I have to consider my Wife. She supports my dressing, but does not want me to do it all the time.
I have slowly been transitioning. I can’t help myself. I love being a Woman!!!
Lucille, when I go out ‘en femme’ I go anywhere I would normally go as a male. Though not often enough, I can pass quite easily. Unfortunately, my male career keepsme quite busy and I have very little free-time. I am so looking forward to retirement so I have more freedom to express myself.
I use to go to work fem but now I can’t closer to where I live , plus all my clothes have been trashed by others in my family