Did you know that your clothes are the first thing people notice about you?
It’s true! And that means that the right clothing is critical to your female image.
In this article, I share 10 essentials that should be part of your feminine wardrobe. Here are the must-have transgender / crossdressing clothes you need to own!
1. Little Black Dress
Every woman should own a little black dress. It’s a wardrobe staple. A simple black dress in a flattering length can go from day to night and will never go out of style.
2. Basic Bra
A great fitting bra is every girl’s “breast” friend. Here are 3 tips for choosing the right MTF bra:
- Start with the two basic bra colors: one black and one nude color that matches your skin tone.
- Avoid frilly or lacy textures that can be visible from beneath your clothes.
- If you wear breast forms, choose a full coverage bra with underwires and substantial straps.
Avoid the temptation to wear a white bra under white or lightweight fabrics – white tends to show through while nude blends in with your body.
3. A Vibrant Scarf
A colorful scarf is a wardrobe must. Scarves are extremely versatile, particularly for trans women and crossdressers.
A scarf can be worn around the neck to disguise an Adam’s apple or draped over the shoulders to minimize the look of a broad upper body.
4. Black Pumps
Shoes are your most important accessory. Classic pumps are sexy, feminine, and work well with many types of clothes. Black pumps with a 2″-3″ heel and rounded toe are classic and will give you the most mileage. (Choose a lower heel if you are tall.)
5. Shoulder Bag
Bags are a status symbol among women, so it’s worth investing in a great shoulder bag. You don’t have to splurge on a designer bag, but look for a classy, upscale design that complements your existing wardrobe.
6. Waist Cincher
A waist cincher is a great way to reduce the belly for crossdressers and transgender women who tend to carry weight in the midsection. Here’s how to figure up the sort of waist cincher you’ll need:
- Use a boned waist cincher for a dramatic shaping effect.
- Use a shaping camisole for comfort and control.
7. Two Skirts
Two simple skirts in neutral colors will give you almost endless options for mixing and matching with other items in your feminine wardrobe. Choose:
- One fitted skirt, like a pencil skirt
- One skirt that’s pleated or full
8. Sheer Black Hose or Tights
Bare legs might be trendy, but in cooler months, nothing beats the polished look of hosiery. Control top hose or tights are also great for helping flatten out the tummy. Go for classic black pantyhose or tights.
9. Figure Flattering Jacket
Jackets are endlessly versatile. Since they are more structured than other pieces, they’re great for figure shaping. Look for tailored jackets that accentuate the waist and add curves.
Styles of jackets that work well for crossdressers and transgender women include:
- Peplums
- Belted styles
- Empire waists
- Gathered fabric
- Feminine details like princess seams and darts
Avoid boxy jackets and shoulder pads as these can accentuate a square body shape and/or broad shoulders.
10. Evening Clutch
A sleek clutch can dress up even the most casual outfit and is a must for the evening. Clutches look more chic than shoulder bags at night and can really set your outfit apart.
What are YOUR wardrobe essentials?
These 10 transgender / crossdressing clothing pieces are a great place to start. Once you’ve covered the basics, the fun begins and you can add on items that reflect your own unique style.
Now it’s your turn to tell me about your must-have items. Share them in the comments below, or better yet, upload a selfie showing off your favorite outfit!
Love,
Lucille
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A good pair of slimming jeans with a high waist – ABSOLUTE must have
I love bright dresses,high heels,bras,panties,& always stockings. I love my pierced ears,naval too,& what girl don’t want to shave her legs. There is nothing better than going out,& enjoying being out dressed as a woman. Never look back but move forward in being a woman. Kisses Charlotte in Mississippi
I totally agree! Shine on you Crazy (in a Good way) Diamond!
I would add a nice silky evening wrap dress as another essential. I love to wear a nice dress when I go out to dinner or to a show and a nice dress always goers so well with a nice clutch handbag.
Love your advise blog,
Have 5 sets of dress, heels, hand bags…
That’s a start. Be your own Barbie!
Great advice.I forgot about the scarve.Yes that is so sexy and having two purses is a must.
I think a sexy pair of jeans is a must.Wear a nice light low cut but classy top. Add the earrings, a nice necklace and a bracelet.Put half nylons on your feet and a pair of low highheels or platforms.Have a nice wig.Add your elegant makeup and perfume.Then use the other feminine lessons taught here and your ready to go.A nice waist cincher adds to the figure.Make sure you have your inner feminine phycology together so the outside refects the inside.Thank-you Lucille for once again adding to making a better feminine person.
Absolutely fab site. joined as soon as i found it. we gurls must have all the info we can get, right?
Love ya
billie
I was wondering what tips you might offer to a person in a wheelchair that seeks fem. I could really use the advice. here is my email for anyone to contact me if they wish lordjedra@yahoo.com I hope I will not be in trouble for posting it
I would add one more thing to the list: a nice pencil skirt with a complementary top. It looks so sleek and feminine and tasteful. I also love suits; nothing makes me feel more like myself when I wear one. However, I seem to be read more when I wear them.
Where can I get tops like you have on?
This one came from Nordstrom. They frequently feature similar styles.
Your pic. proves your point very well.
Thank you, Daphne!