If you’re like many of my transgender or crossdressing readers, you might not be able to present yourself as a woman each day.
That doesn’t mean you have to lose your female side when it’s time to put on the pants!
In this post, I share 5 ways to stay in touch with your femininity – even in male mode.
1. Wear Women’s Underwear
Let’s start with the most obvious tip, shall we? Wearing women’s underwear underneath your male clothing is the easiest way to connect with your feminine self on a daily basis.
Aside from that, women’s panties tend to be more comfortable than men’s boxers or briefs. Plus, they come in loads of cute and sexy styles to add some secret pizazz to your outfit.
2. Try Stealth Crossdressing
Wearing lingerie under your clothes is a classic, but why stop there? Sneaking a piece of women’s clothing into your daily outfit is a great way to feel girly.
A lot of women’s clothing can pass for unisex, so try wearing women’s:
- Basic tees
- Button-down shirts
- Jeans and pants
Don’t forget about accessories! You could also play with wearing women’s boots or using a tote bag as a laptop bag or briefcase.
3. Apply Incognito Makeup
There are lots of ways to incorporate makeup into your daily look, even when presenting as a male. Here are 4 must-have makeup items:
- Concealer or foundation – Apply a thin layer to cover under eye circles or blemishes.
- Setting powder – Apply to shiny spots on your face, like the nose or forehead.
- Clear mascara – Use it to make your eyelashes look subtly longer and fuller.
- Uncolored lipstick – Instead of boring Chapstick, care for your lips with a clear lipstick.
4. Use the Power of Scent
Scents have a powerful effect on your brain chemistry and mood, so this is a great way to connect with your feminine side.
Wear women’s perfume instead of cologne. Musky fragrances are the most unisex, so you can wear them without anybody knowing your secret. (Check out my article on perfume to learn more about choosing the right scent.)
Another option is to burn a scented candle with a feminine fragrance in your home or office.
5. Keep Reminders of Your Female Self
Another tip is to surround yourself with reminders of the woman within.
One way to do this is through photos. Keep photos of your femme self on your phone, in your wallet, or even framed and hung up so you can see them often.
You could also carry around items personalized with your feminine name, such as a necklace, keychain, or coffee mug.
6. Try Feminizing Hypnosis
Hypnosis is a powerful way to increase confidence, reprogram habits and behaviors, and improve the way you express yourself as a woman.
Best of all, it’s the ultimate mental escape – allowing you to connect with you female self regardless of your current situation.
Try it for yourself by signing up for my free Unleash Your Inner Woman hypnosis mini-session here.
How do YOU stay connected?
In an ideal world, you’d be free to present yourself as a woman whenever and wherever you wanted. Until then, I hope this gives you ideas for expressing your female side anytime you want!
How do YOU stay connected to your feminine self? I’d love to know, so please share in the comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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Hi Lucille.
Thanks to your awesome Flat-to-Fem and Sublime Bust products, I am a 42 C and wear the appropriate sized bra everyday regardless of whether I am in male mode or not – and I usually am.
In fact, everything I wear every day is feminine. I wear a bra, Maiden Form panties, women’s jeans, women’s denim vest (to help hide my boobs) , women’s Jersey, women’s knee highs and women’s sneakers.
Occasionally I wear Shalimar and brown mascara – because my hair color is red.
I wear a lace night dress every night – so sexy and feminine.
I ABSOLUTELY LOVE having breasts and feeling feminine!
I dream of the day I might be able to get the surgery and be able to feel and look 100 hundred percent female – if only.
Hi Mikhaela, I’m so happy these products have helped you. Love to hear how you are enjoying your femininity. ❤️
Forgot to mention … I sometimes wear a faux diamond heart pendant under my jerseys and paint my nails with clear nail polish as well.
I’m living 24/7 as my true female self. On HRT and had gender confirming surgery and resently had revision surgery done.
Your journey is so inspiring Christy! I hope the revision surgery was a success as well. ❤️
You look great
Obviously lingerie underneath, I love Nars tinted lip balm, I am dark, so wearing normal Mascara works. Perfect nails, pink toenails, perfume, a silk or satin shirt or blouse. Skinny jeans or slim trousers. I carry a tote bag. These all make me feel girly even when in man mode!
When I was still working I would wear panties and hose or thigh highs under my work clothes. One day I decided to wear a bra also. I was so excited all day I didn’t get much work done. I miss work for that reason. Janice
I’ve done all you mentioned even at home, adding a bra and vividly colored socks as well. Although I’m in boi mode all week as a handyman I just don’t like seeing myself that way in a mirror at home.
i get monthly pedicures with colored polish. clear mascara to keep lashes long. of course panties. I dont own any male underwear. stockings almost daily.
Love the article. I wear panties in various styles 24-7. Really like wearing a sexy thong to work under my business suit and if I know I’m will not be taking off My suit jacket I wear a matching bra. Also the only jeans I own are woman’s and wear them as much as possible.
Thanks for your tips and help.
Fran
Hi Lucille,I try to keep my feminine side alive everyday.I have read your super tips and I’m glad to say that this is how I tend to go about it.I always wear at least a bra and knickers,always that match as I much prefer this.I get out wearing stealthy gear and it feels so good.I wear my knee high leather riding boots under my jeans and polo-neck tops under my coats.
May I thank you for all the advice and tips you give in your blog,they are invaluable hun!!!
Take care and I look forward to more of your wisdom soon!!!
Hugs and Kisses,Paula B,XXX
Thanks for the kind words Paula! Love your style!