If you’re like many of my transgender or crossdressing readers, you might not be able to present yourself as a woman each day.
That doesn’t mean you have to lose your female side when it’s time to put on the pants!
In this post, I share 5 ways to stay in touch with your femininity – even in male mode.
1. Wear Women’s Underwear
Let’s start with the most obvious tip, shall we? Wearing women’s underwear underneath your male clothing is the easiest way to connect with your feminine self on a daily basis.
Aside from that, women’s panties tend to be more comfortable than men’s boxers or briefs. Plus, they come in loads of cute and sexy styles to add some secret pizazz to your outfit.
2. Try Stealth Crossdressing
Wearing lingerie under your clothes is a classic, but why stop there? Sneaking a piece of women’s clothing into your daily outfit is a great way to feel girly.
A lot of women’s clothing can pass for unisex, so try wearing women’s:
- Basic tees
- Button-down shirts
- Jeans and pants
Don’t forget about accessories! You could also play with wearing women’s boots or using a tote bag as a laptop bag or briefcase.
3. Apply Incognito Makeup
There are lots of ways to incorporate makeup into your daily look, even when presenting as a male. Here are 4 must-have makeup items:
- Concealer or foundation – Apply a thin layer to cover under eye circles or blemishes.
- Setting powder – Apply to shiny spots on your face, like the nose or forehead.
- Clear mascara – Use it to make your eyelashes look subtly longer and fuller.
- Uncolored lipstick – Instead of boring Chapstick, care for your lips with a clear lipstick.
4. Use the Power of Scent
Scents have a powerful effect on your brain chemistry and mood, so this is a great way to connect with your feminine side.
Wear women’s perfume instead of cologne. Musky fragrances are the most unisex, so you can wear them without anybody knowing your secret. (Check out my article on perfume to learn more about choosing the right scent.)
Another option is to burn a scented candle with a feminine fragrance in your home or office.
5. Keep Reminders of Your Female Self
Another tip is to surround yourself with reminders of the woman within.
One way to do this is through photos. Keep photos of your femme self on your phone, in your wallet, or even framed and hung up so you can see them often.
You could also carry around items personalized with your feminine name, such as a necklace, keychain, or coffee mug.
6. Try Feminizing Hypnosis
Hypnosis is a powerful way to increase confidence, reprogram habits and behaviors, and improve the way you express yourself as a woman.
Best of all, it’s the ultimate mental escape – allowing you to connect with you female self regardless of your current situation.
Try it for yourself by signing up for my free Unleash Your Inner Woman hypnosis mini-session here.
How do YOU stay connected?
In an ideal world, you’d be free to present yourself as a woman whenever and wherever you wanted. Until then, I hope this gives you ideas for expressing your female side anytime you want!
How do YOU stay connected to your feminine self? I’d love to know, so please share in the comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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I wear panties, sometimes bra to work. Also, perfume. I work construction so it’s not always possible.
I began to wear nylon panties years ago. I followed that with nylon hose and garters, and a bra. At that time my breast were rather small. Over a period of years I chose silicone implants to give me a more fuller breast shape. I now wear a C cup bra.
I have enjoyed my feminine changes very much without regrets.
Skirts and dresses have become a regular part of my wardrobe now.
So I work in freezer so I have my freezer gear over me. I have my woman pant on. I have my matching bra and panties on. Bra is slightly pad so not obvious. I also have some cute girly socks on. Long sleeve shirt that are big for me are the only thing I haven’t found yet so I just call them unisex shirt and roll with it. I grew my hair out with working in freezer it help protect my head.
I started wearing panties under my male drab. I love the sense that even though I can’t present as a woman, I feel like one. On some days I will wear pantyhose as well. It helps me get through those times when Barbara can’t reveal herself. But she is always inside me.
Ich trage einen slip strumpfhose und einen Bh. Und auch eine knall enge miederhose
I wear silk panties all the time, ladies jeans or shorts out and about, sexy leggings around home. I swim in a Boyleg bikini bottom. I prefer to use nice scented body washes and lady deodorant, the nice fresh scent helps to keep me feeling feminine. I love thigh high stocking and garters too
While most people see me only as male, I dress everyday only in women’s clothing. Panties: socks, stockings or tights; skinny jeans: sweater or blouse; and shoes. I have 5 pairs of women’s loafers, 3 ankle or combat boots, and even riding boots. Earrings and bracelets. I know I am a woman even if everyone else is clueless. It is a terrific way to cope until I can present more openly and flamboyantly female. Sam Edelman, Nine West, and Franco Sarto have some beautiful androgynous loafers and ankle boots.
Where can I find the clear the clear mascara and the uncolored lipstick I really enjoy crossdressing but its hard to find what I like Silk blouses are pretty and skirts I like but how do I find my size?
My name is Michael Muhammed Gammon and I am 47 years old and I live with my mother Denise Johnson and I want to be a female and I take estrogen pills but when I was younger I seen a Bluefield WV police officer shot and kill a black kid and the Bluefield WV police ran over my mother Denise Johnson and my daughter Brooklyn Nevaeh Gammon and the Bluefield WV police made Gary A Hurt shot and kill a black kid and the Bluefield WV police let the black people and a drug dealer name CJ Wallace kill 15 teen black kids and the Bluefield WV police started shooting at my daughter Brooklyn Nevaeh Gammon when I was living at 412 Carroll Street in Bluefield WV and the Bluefield WV police started shooting at my daughter Brooklyn Nevaeh Gammon when I was living at 121 Park Street in Bluefield WV and the Bluefield WV police officer last name Adam’s killed a young black girl in front of the Bluefield WV police department and the Bluefield WV police officer last name Adam’s chased my mom down Bluefield WV avenue and flipped her car when she was driving it and I can sue for 1 billion dollars