Stepping out publicly as a woman is a powerful way to validate your female self.
In fact, I recently published a poll asking “How often do you go out in public as a woman?”
I was happy to see that the majority of my readers (transgender women and crossdressers) go out at least occasionally.
No matter how often you do it, I’m sure you can remember your first time presenting as a woman or crossdressing in public.
Since this is such an important gender-affirming step, I’d love to hear about it!
When was it? Where did you go? And what was your experience?
Please share with us in the comments below!
And if you’ve never been en femme in public, I’m sure you’ll find lots of inspiration in these stories.
As always, thank you for reading and participating!
Love,
Lucille
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Lucille
we are all so proud of what we all achieved by transforming ourselves
from males into your beautiful girls since you showed and teach us all
how to perfect our feminine image by the right choice of clothes and makeup and soothing hypnosis tutorials that make and program our
thoughts and minds as girls each and every one of us girls shared our
journeys and photos into womanhood both young and all and me included that stepped out in women’s tops and trousers and thank you
for being there with us girls we are your girls forever more .
all my love
Frankie smales
the sorella girl in training
Years ago I went out dressed conservatively in a beige blouse & a green skirt. I had casual looking beige high heel sandals on also. I had been shopping at a Goodwill. After I exited the store I tripped and fell. A few folks rushed over to help me. One gentleman said “Are you okay ma’am?” I was embarrassed that I had fallen. I was also excited that I was called ma’am. It was not my first time out of the house but it was my first time out and interacting with the public. I felt great even with the embarrassment of the fall.
My first time going out as a woman I was in my twenties. It was later at night I visited an adult book store in my area. I wore a black mini skirt a sweater (it was a cool night) heals, hose and wore make up. My hair was long back then so I styled it very pretty I thought. I received a few unapproving looks but I was surprised to get all the positive reactions and compliments. From then on I would go out at least once a month as a woman whether to shop run errands etc. mainly at night. After I started my business I work dressed in all womans cloths but discreetly. Sweeters, tops and jeans or dress pants all womans. I bought a pair of shoes that where for both men or woman although they were on the feminine side. of course unpadded bra, and pantyhose. I would wear light mascara and eye liner cover up for those rough mornings LOL and some blush and lip gloss . Occasionally I would wear a dress or a skirt not at work but in other situations.Both of my ears are pierced so I wore earings and Tommy Girl perfume. I also openly shop for womans cloths.I love to shop for cloths haha… I don’t do it as much anymore and miss it. I will get back to doing it again though. I feel so complete when I allow the girl in me to come out and shine. Good luck all you girls, I’m proud of you and support all of you. XOXO
last week I bought some tops from the womens section
at my local charity shop one was an strappy top that
doubles as my nightie and I went out in the public in my sexy orange
top and it was great and most recently bought some gorgeous white
sex wide leg pants and I look great in them but come Halloween I will
show my full feminine side for the first time and i’m very proud to be
one of you girls and it is great and I love my girly side as I progress
i’m a girl in body and soul .
all my love
Frankie smales
subservient feminine
My first time as a woman in public happened early April this year when i went for a graduation ceremony, i was one of the graduates and it was my first time to wear proffesional. i was in long shoes and my hair was done perfectly like for a real grown up woman. The ceremony went so nice but later after the ceremony one of my friend told me that i was walking like a guy when i was walking up on stage to collect my qualification. It made me feel bad and i could no longer continue with the party which emanates after the ceremony.
I feel so badly when i think of the fact i am not living freerly in my life since the time i started to change my lifestyle. Sometimes i experience this bad mentality of ending up my life as i am struggling to achieve my true life of being a real grown up woman.
You made it that far. It took courage. Now you fix the imperfections. Bata bing…
My first time was likely the same as many other gurls. Halloween. I have heard it referred to as international crossdresser day. Anyway I got dressed up in a long gown did my hair up and lots of makeup. My gf helped me of course she thought it was for fun i was absolutely thrilled inside. I t was a big day for me. about 6 monyhs later I went by myselg to a tv/ts club and I havent stopped since.
My first time as a woman happened on my way home I had dressed in clothes I had taken from my mothers closet I had suspenders stockings and bra all matching and looking sexy I had chosen a dress and shoes that matched I had taken time over my make up and I thought looked good I must of too as the first store i walked into the shop assistant asked if they could help me miss I asked for some make up item and they helpe me match it to skin type I was only 17 at the time it made me feel good as a female and has been in my thoughts ever since making me feel very femmine every time I think of this .
My 1st time out I meet up with a bunch of girls from DFE a nod went to a club off maple,I was 55 and it was something I’d been wanting to do for many years.I had a great time and met a couple of great friends who I’ve been out with again.