Do you ever find yourself wondering if it’s okay to crossdress? Do you feel weighed down by society’s judgment and expectations?
Well, it’s time to shed that weight and liberate yourself! Let’s talk about why crossdressing is absolutely okay, and why you should embrace it without any guilt.
1. Self-Expression Matters
As humans, expressing ourselves is a basic core need.
Crossdressing is just one way to showcase your personality, tastes, and preferences through clothing. It’s an ideal outlet for creativity and individuality.
2. Fashion Has No Gender
Who says certain clothes are meant only for specific genders?
Clothes don’t have an inherent gender; they are pieces of fabric that can be enjoyed by anyone. So, wear what makes you feel confident and fabulous!
3. Breaking Free from Gender Norms
Crossdressing challenges outdated gender norms. It’s time to break free from rigid ideas of what’s “appropriate” to wear.
Crossdressing allows you to take a stand against society’s expectations and encourages others to do the same.
4. It’s Not Harmful
Let’s be clear – crossdressing is harmless. As long as you’re not hurting anyone, there’s no reason to feel bad about it.
Feeling guilty about expressing yourself through clothing is unnecessary and unproductive.
In conclusion
Being true to yourself is a beautiful thing, and it sets an example for others to do the same.
So, let go of the guilt, and embrace your fabulous, feminine side!
Now I’d love to hear your thoughts on this topic. Do you ever feel guilty about crossdressing? If you’ve overcome feelings of guilt, how did you do so?
Please take my poll and leave me your comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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transformation tips?
Make a profile on completely different browser than your Guy Profile. This way you can post your femme pictures online. I do it all the time. Be sure to use a name and email of your feminine name. Then you can talk to others with the same interests. It works !!!!
Rachel
I am very confident with my female role and expressions. I have worked for years to be her.
I’m an older male (71) and am thinking about cross-dressing. I’d like to buy one item of clothing to gauge my feelings.. something simple and cheap.. like a push-up bra with an open upper part. Where do I get help in figuring out measurement and a store that will help me without feeling uncomfortable? Can you name stores that cater to the LBGTQ+ community or maybe a forum I can check out?
Amazon is a great place to buy.
They usually have a size guide to help you decide what size to buy.
If your not sure. Buy the larger size. I hope this helps you. Sometimes it just doesn’t fix. Returns are real easy with Amazon.
This is a topic that I can’t help but respond to, many times. I’ve concluded that guilt and embarrassment are learned feelings, not something that is naturally innate. Perhaps these feelings are a response to the reactions and imposition of others. If we grew up in a society where it was acceptable to dress as I we desired, there would be no reason to feel embarrassed or guilty.
As usual Morgan you have described the opinion that I and likely many of us share. Why should we feel ashamed or embarrassed about expressing our individuality in a way that’s in sync with our personality. No one should be criticized or judged for being their own unique human being! No harm no foul. I believe those who attempt to pass judgment on us are merely expressing the societal insecurities that have been entrenched since birth.
I have been crossdressing for years and briefly my wife did accept me doing so but only privately at home. For the last at least 15 years my wife came to dissaprove of my desire. I was able to indulge occasionally when she went away with our children to her parents for a weekend. Since they have moved near to us she is home virtually all the time so I don’t get the opportunity. I did however manage to go for a boudoir session for ladies and had intended to arrive dressed en femme but didn’t have the courage. With serious butterflies I still went for the session and arrived dressed in my boring male clothing. I had warned the lady that I might turn up as a man. She was absolutely fine and very reassuring even though I was her first crossdresser. I told my wife I was going to a trade show as the other colleague had been made redundant as we’d had redundancies recently. I wasn’t sure if she had suspected anything and I managed to get my changes of clothing into my car without her knowing. The session was absolutely amazing and there was a lady there who did my makeup and prepared my wig. I felt like a lady for the session which lasted for 5 hours. As it’s been a while I can’t believe it really happened without looking at the photos. The upload is what I relaxed in while I had lunch with the lady photographer.
I just wish I could do it again or go for a male to female makeover and go out for a walk and lunch fully dressed as a lady. I have a feeling that will never happen. Thank you for reading my message.
Hi all,
My name is Murphy. I am a 33 year old, married, heterosexual guy, and I do have deep feelings of guilt about my crossdressing. I have been married for ten years. To the best of my knowledge my wife is not aware of my hobby. I do dress fully on occasion, much more so before I got married. For the most part I am able to keep my urges at bay. However, my primary obsession is with pantyhose, and that is one urge that I simply can’t control. It’s completely the other way around. The pantyhose really control me. As I said, I have great feelings of guilt over this, and I can go for long periods of time without dressing completely. However, the pantyhose are a daily thing. I was just wondering if others have this same obsession. ThAnks
Your desire to dress up will never go away. I have many times stopped. Even for over a year. Your desire will always come back. I started when I was 5 years old. I am 65 now. Still dressing up. You know you love it. So wear what and when you can.
Be Safe honey.
Rachel.
Maybe when I was younger I felt embarrassed about it but never guilty, I would have preferred to just have been born female but hopefully next year I will become the woman I truly am.
I had a dream last night that I got caught be a few women who saw some of my lingerie collection. I have never put a picture of myself online without my face being partially blurred. I wonder sometimes if I will have regrets when I am older by not living out my other side more and think that you only live once and not brave enough to come out more. The danger seems like it can be real, but of course, most people are self-absorbed in themselves, and you really are not that important. Anyway, just some of my thoughts.