Do you feel guilty about crossdressing or being transgender? Sadly, many of “my girls” tell me that they do.
If you feel you have to lie or sneak around to keep your feminine side hidden, I can understand the conflict.
But let’s get one thing straight – there’s nothing wrong with crossdressing or being transgender. Period.
We live in a world with very defined gender roles. Unfortunately, these roles are even more rigid for males.
It’s OK for women to express their masculinity by dressing like tomboys or by acting strong and assertive. But if a guy looks or acts feminine, he’s labeled as weird, weak, or gay.
The underlying message is that it’s OK to be masculine (even if you’re a woman), but femininity is something to be ashamed of.
What the heck!?
Society is slowing changing, but the time to reject these outdated messages is NOW.
I think Iggy Pop said it best:
“I’m not ashamed to dress like a woman because I don’t think it’s shameful to be a woman.”
There’s no shame in changing your gender to match who you are on the inside either!
I’d love to hear YOUR thoughts on this topic…
Do you struggle with guilt or is it a non-issue for you? If you’ve overcome feelings of guilt, how did you do so?
Please take my poll and leave me your comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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aside from religious reasons and the sin of crossdressing, I can just imagine the disappointment in my parents eyes. The few people that loved to gossip or who disliked them would love to hear of it. For sadistic reasons. I would definitely lose family and friends. I thought of death many times. What else to do with my shame? I can only be Julie once a wekk at best
I was born transgender, I have heard of a study that says that’s caused by a hormonal imbalance in the mother during pregnancy. My mother had me at a very young age. Why be ashamed of something that wasn’t your falt? We will change the concept s of the small minded but have to work together.
Why should anyone be ashamed of being themselves.
First. Research tells me that there is a difference between Crossdressing or being a Sissy. Yet many web sites indicate they are the same. Because of my Dominent rank in the Fetish community, I cannot cross dress in public, only in my private bedroom can I play girl. I am NOT a sissy in any way shape or form. However I do like to dress up in girly items once in a while and to justify that, doing it is a Girly Hollween constume. Now I do have friends and submissive Transgenders who are changing their bodies to female with hormones, but that is different. Someone needs to say it loud and clear. A crossdresser is NOT a sissy. My spouse says I can be a girl, but that too spooks me a little. I just want to cross dress once in a while. Again, I am NOT a sisy. Help me to understand why this bothers me.
I overcome guilt by remembering that so many others are like me!!!