Want to know the secret to becoming a sexy woman?
Here’s what it’s NOT:
- Wearing super short skirts and stripper heels
- Putting on huge breast forms
- Pouting your lips and sticking your butt out
True sexiness is a state of mind!
There are lots of small things you can do to boost your feminine sex appeal – without crossing the line from sexy to slutty.
Here are 4 must-try tips:
1. Wear red
Color is a huge part of the impression you make on people. Each color has a meaning that is communicated on a subconscious level.
Without a doubt, RED is the sexiest color of all!
Red is associated with passion, desire, and love – so wear red to increase your feminine sex appeal. Even a few touches of red (like a red bag or heels) will put you in touch with your sensuous side.
2. Try a sexy workout
A fit, toned body is undeniably sexy. But that doesn’t mean you need to spend hours on a boring treadmill.
Instead, why not try a “sexy workout?”
Belly dancing, pole dancing, or cardio striptease will help you burn calories while channeling your inner seductress. These workouts will also help you achieve more feminine and fluid body movements.
Here are some sexy workouts to try:
- Luscious: The Bellydance Workout for Beginners
- Carmen Electra’s Aerobic Striptease
- Pussycat Dolls Workout
3. Wear sexy lingerie
It’s hard NOT to feel sexy in a pretty bra and panties.
Even if you don’t plan to show off your underwear, wearing sexy lingerie under your clothes will make you feel more seductive and confident.
You should also get rid of any lingerie that doesn’t add to your sex appeal. This includes anything that’s worn out or that doesn’t fit properly. If it doesn’t make you feel hot, don’t keep it!
4. Make seductive eye contact
The way you make eye contact communicates your level of confidence, femininity, and sex appeal.
It’s important to make eye contact, but at the same time, you don’t want to overdo it.
Here are 3 seductive eye contact skills to practice:
- Look people in the eye, but break contact every 5 seconds or so. Staring too intensely can creep people out.
- Try the triangle technique. When you are listening to somebody, look at one eye for 5 seconds, then the other eye for 5 seconds, and finally the mouth for 5 seconds. Continue rotating your gaze in this pattern.
- Look from the side. To appear more flirtatious, try a sideways glance instead of looking at somebody straight on. Do this while smiling and raising the eyebrows slightly.
What makes YOU look and feel your sexiest?
I’d love to hear your thoughts on this hot topic, so be sure to leave a comment below!
Love,
Lucille
transformation tips?
Au contraire. Short skirts work wonderfully if you have the legs and luckily I do. Not much on top but as a big fan of Audrey Hepburn & small breasts I’m quite happy about that. Long blonde hair (all my own but dyed), helps too.
I still get cars and have even had a bus stop to let me cross the road (we do a lot of walking here and can cross anywhere we like), which is reassuring that I’m passing.
I only wear short skirts and nothing normally past my fingertips. Today it was raining so I was able to wear my beautiful PVC macs too which I always pined for as a male but couldn’t have. So, short white skirt, white mac (bright yellow one later) tights (normally bare legged) and white trainers (sneakers). Love the look.
Thanks for the tips. Big help. Feeling a little more confident.
Colors make me feel sexy. Like a nice shade of lipstick.
You look gorgeous
Well, thank you Peter
Hi Lucille, Thanks so much for your tips. I appreciate how supportive you are and how knowledgeable you are on such a wide range of topics. Particularly liked your mention of red, the statement “If it doesn’t make you feel hot, don’t keep it!” and your insight into effective seductive eye contact. I am aware of many communication techniques to link people together, but your three eye contact skills were information that I had never thought of before. Thanks for another informative and helpful article!!!