Want to know the secret to becoming a sexy woman?
Here’s what it’s NOT:
- Wearing super short skirts and stripper heels
- Putting on huge breast forms
- Pouting your lips and sticking your butt out
True sexiness is a state of mind!
There are lots of small things you can do to boost your feminine sex appeal – without crossing the line from sexy to slutty.
Here are 4 must-try tips:
1. Wear red
Color is a huge part of the impression you make on people. Each color has a meaning that is communicated on a subconscious level.
Without a doubt, RED is the sexiest color of all!
Red is associated with passion, desire, and love – so wear red to increase your feminine sex appeal. Even a few touches of red (like a red bag or heels) will put you in touch with your sensuous side.
2. Try a sexy workout
A fit, toned body is undeniably sexy. But that doesn’t mean you need to spend hours on a boring treadmill.
Instead, why not try a “sexy workout?”
Belly dancing, pole dancing, or cardio striptease will help you burn calories while channeling your inner seductress. These workouts will also help you achieve more feminine and fluid body movements.
Here are some sexy workouts to try:
3. Wear sexy lingerie
It’s hard NOT to feel sexy in a pretty bra and panties.
Even if you don’t plan to show off your underwear, wearing sexy lingerie under your clothes will make you feel more seductive and confident.
You should also get rid of any lingerie that doesn’t add to your sex appeal. This includes anything that’s worn out or that doesn’t fit properly. If it doesn’t make you feel hot, don’t keep it!
4. Make seductive eye contact
The way you make eye contact communicates your level of confidence, femininity, and sex appeal.
It’s important to make eye contact, but at the same time, you don’t want to overdo it.
Here are 3 seductive eye contact skills to practice:
- Look people in the eye, but break contact every 5 seconds or so. Staring too intensely can creep people out.
- Try the triangle technique. When you are listening to somebody, look at one eye for 5 seconds, then the other eye for 5 seconds, and finally the mouth for 5 seconds. Continue rotating your gaze in this pattern.
- Look from the side. To appear more flirtatious, try a sideways glance instead of looking at somebody straight on. Do this while smiling and raising the eyebrows slightly.
What makes YOU look and feel your sexiest?
I’d love to hear your thoughts on this hot topic, so be sure to leave a comment below!
Love,
Lucille
So glad that I’ve found your website!
x Anne
As always Lucille, I read your comments/suggestions with great interest. I suspect your latest blog is aimed at the younger meembers. Looking sexy at 70 without looking and feeling silly is a very hard job. I do not aggree with the idea that once your past your best you should only wear ‘sensable’ clothes, but I have seen women of my age wear short skirts and high heels which in my view is just as bad. No I try to wear stylish, smart and attractive dresses, skirts, tops and heels, yes I agree with you a splash of colour can make all the diffrence, I must try and upload some photographs so that you will get a better idea of what I am talking about.
Thank you Lucille and keep up all the good work that you do,
Love, Lesley Ann xxxxxx
you do look good hon, I know us older gurls are the best , lol kisses LIz
Hello all, I’ve found a halter style tankini top that takes my forms well and gives me a very natural look, but I’d just die to find a halter top that would handle my forms as well. I live in Florida, so using glue and/or tape doesn’t work well in our humid heat. So I’d need a halter capable of handling the forms as is. I wear a 38D bra. If someone would please email me directly if they have a good solution I’d just have my summer complete from the beginning.
SBC/Stephanie
Stephanie…a hard problem..simplified by looking for a solid color bathing suit halter top..that has removable pads..take the pads out and put your forms in..I have multiple colors and love the feel..the look and the simplicity… Robin
Hi LUCILLE! What makes me feel my sexiest is the feeling of silk against my body, the color pink and red, when I’m dressed up my brain switches over to the feminist side, and leaving my manhood behind. however I still have the problem going out in public dressed up. Yes you may say I’m still in the closet. I love your comments and suggestions about bringing out your feminent side. If I could just meet an other srossdresser in this town to go out with maybe then I would go out in public. GOD knows I have been trying to find someone. It is hard though when you’re up in age like I am. Thank you LUCILLE for listening to my story.
BEST REGARDS MANFRED.
I just took a burlesque class and did a stage performance with 5 genetic women. If you have the courage, it is a wonderful experience. Most women have body image issues, so I was no different from any other student. Burlesque girls also have a wide range of breast sizes, so mine were not the smallest.
That’s awesome! You go, girl! 🙂
totally Agree !
I am new here and looking for help I want to start looking more like the female I am. I have been looking for help in FOrt Worth for counseling. Any one have suggestions. I just want to start looking like who I feel I am ( a female)
I love wearing halter tops with shorts or a nice flowing skirt also like wearing maxi dresses in the summer
Love to be able to wear the tank top with blue jeans or shorts. Just to show off what I have accomplished
XOXOXOX
Michelle
Me TWO
Hello Michelle, first I have to say you have very lovely breast.Second is, how long and what did you do to make them that lovely.I have been on a three month effort with very little success. My goal is a 36c, nothing bigger. Yours are just beautiful. Can you help a girl out.