Stepping out publicly as a woman is a powerful way to validate your female self.
In fact, I recently published a poll asking “How often do you go out in public as a woman?”
I was happy to see that the majority of my readers (transgender women and crossdressers) go out at least occasionally.
No matter how often you do it, I’m sure you can remember your first time presenting as a woman or crossdressing in public.
Since this is such an important gender-affirming step, I’d love to hear about it!
When was it? Where did you go? And what was your experience?
Please share with us in the comments below!
And if you’ve never been en femme in public, I’m sure you’ll find lots of inspiration in these stories.
As always, thank you for reading and participating!
Love,
Lucille
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I go out in public at flea markets wearing these shorts and i get a rush from guys and girls comments telling me i got a nice ass.
I love the rush of going in public wearing my short running shorts. I get a lot of positive reactions from guys and girls.
The FIRST time… well, i walked down the stairs in my apartment building… wearing nothing but a sexy top and a pair of white panties i had just ordered. There was a guy across the parking lot hanging out leaning against his car. I walked down the stairs and to the main door, and turned around, and he started running towards me as I walked back up the stairs. I got scared and jumped back in my apartment and locked the door. He thought i went to the other door, my neighbor and I heard him saying “C’mon girl, don’t be scared, lets hang out”. So there it was right there… he thought I was a girl!
I asked a female coworker (who knew I was already a crossdresser) to accompany me to the local mall to shop. She asked me to meet her in the entrance inside the main doors. I was nervous at first, but tried hard not to show it. I wore a feminine t-shirt with cutoff jean shorts over my tan pantyhose and white feminine tennis shoes. She arrived and complimented my appearance and told me to be like her as much as I could. Although I walked with her in and out of many stores, it felt great, especially when store employees referred to us as “ladies” (plural). I used my most feminine voice, too, when buying things. It all was very emotionally uplifting being one of the ‘lady shoppers’, like a ‘high’ I wanted more of. From that point on, I went out shopping alone and also went to local LGBT clubs as well. When I met with other cis and transgender women, it felt just right, I was where I wanted to be. I just never wanted to be anyone’s play-toy.
I bought a pair of leggings and was amazed by how sexy it made me look, I couldn’t resist i had to show off my big round booty. I went to a park and walked around. I felt so sexy my ass was shaking with each step i took and it felt so good!!!!!!!! driving home in this outfit was also a rush, felt sexy the entire time
I have been crossdressing for a long time. Started with wearing my Mom’s panties and bras around 4 or 5 years old. She got tired of me wearing her things so she started buy me my own. Now lets fast forward to my first time in public fully dressed as a girl was when I was 13. I was attending a private school and the girls there had accepted me pretty much as a girl, even though my uniform I wore to school was that of a boy. They knew I wore bras and panties under my uniform everyday. I was accepted so much that I got invited to one of the girls birthday/slumber party. It was on a Friday night and all five of us were going to all go to the mall after school and then to her house afterwards. When school let out the birthday girl stopped me and gave me a uniform skirt and told me to change into it. I asked her where was I supposed to change at and she lead me into the girls bathroom and watched the door as I changed. The biggest difference between the boys and girls uniforms was the skirt and pants. I was already wearing knee socks and my legs were shaved. When I was changed we went to catch the bus to the mall with the other three girls. On the bus to the mall the girls put make up on me and when we got to the mall I was just another school girl out with friends. It was not as nerve racking as I thought it would be I think because I was out with a bunch of friends. We shopped and tried on clothes in several of the stores. I don’t feel any one noticed I was a boy dressed as a girl because I was in a group and my hair was as long as could be to stay in the school dress code for boys. When the birthday girl’s mom picked us up she said I looked cute as a girl.
I’m just starting to transition and being comfortable with doing my make up hair the only thing I Im terrified to go out in public eve though when I dress like a boy other men call me miss her but I’m still scared any advice my girls
You’re gorgeous. I went out to a gay bar for my first time because there was a drag show and I figured if there’s anywhere you can get away with this, it’s there. I’m actually dressed right now and thinking about going for coffee!! Yikes!! I’m so nervous. I’m not even close to as pretty as you, even with makeup.
I do agree that a gay bar with a drag show is pretty safe. There is HG Roosters in West Palm,Florida that around Halloween has a drag bingo night. It was really fun
All the luck in the World and you are so pretty Debra xx
Very beautiful!
I am a male of 55 years. I started cross dressing when I was about 35 years. My breasts started growing when I was about 35 years and nipples become perky. As my breasts started growing and I feel pain when breasts bounce. After consulting with my wife I started wearing bra. Ever since Ihave been wearing bra with the knowledge of my wife. She select good bras for me. Now I wear bra cup D and size 42″. My breasts are bigger than that of my wife. My wife envy my breasts and perky nipples. I wear T shirt and underneath bra. As the size of breasts are so big it is clearly visible to all expecially the nipples clearly showing through the bra. I wear bra when we go out in public. Initially it was embarrasing but now I am used to it. Many ladies appreciate my ample breasts.