Stepping out publicly as a woman is a powerful way to validate your female self.
In fact, I recently published a poll asking “How often do you go out in public as a woman?”
I was happy to see that the majority of my readers (transgender women and crossdressers) go out at least occasionally.
No matter how often you do it, I’m sure you can remember your first time presenting as a woman or crossdressing in public.
Since this is such an important gender-affirming step, I’d love to hear about it!
When was it? Where did you go? And what was your experience?
Please share with us in the comments below!
And if you’ve never been en femme in public, I’m sure you’ll find lots of inspiration in these stories.
As always, thank you for reading and participating!
Love,
Lucille
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It was just as Fall was drawing to a close and I had pondered it for a very long time. I made up my mind that this was to be the weekend that I stepped out. I had to drive 25 kms to get to a local town but I made it and was excited every bit of the way. I had a nice above the knee dress, black hose a late fall jacket and a pair of wedge booties. I had tried hard to get my make-up right despite darkness starting to fall when I could have hidden and parking the car I stepped out into my new world. Looking gorgeous wand with painted nails I had something to flaunt. What started as a quick walk around town to dip my toes in the water ended up being 2 hours of wandering and sitting watching the world go by. It was amazing and my confidence grew as I realized few if any people even pay attention closely enough. Time to head home and I decided to push the envelop a little and stopped to get gas. Expecting to do it myself, a lovely young man came to my assistance which was lovely. Treated like a lady. Success! I went back a few more times to town and emboldened by that I now try to go out en-femme at every opportunity. The hardest path it seems was recording the adventure on camera…lol. It is an amazing feeling, something I have discovered I truly cannot live without.
My first time out was at the woods.
I know i was dressed up all feminine wearing make up, blonde wig, sweater, leggings all girly with some cute boots.
I was like 16 years old and during my walk i was spotted by a girl of propably 20 years old. She walked up to me and asked me if she could walk along with me. She told me i looked very good as a girl and even gave me tips how to improve. I was very nervous buy happy that i did it. Now i go outside enfemme almost daily and i enjoy my feminine me.
My first time out in public dressed as a girl was at a dandy gas station I wore a size 2x pink metallic mini skirt and a pair of gray leggings and I got tons of compliments on my skirt all the cashiers there are all woman and one of them her name is Carol she is in my same age range witch is in the 20s she told me I look very cute in skirts
The first time I went out was late at night when no one would see me i went for a long walk last time I went out I was brave went to the shop and got a bottle of wine wow it felt so good
Me right out side my house, scary but fun
Im a trans girl and I remember the first time I went out I had a dark brn wig on and makeup ,I went to the car and got in and I was so nervous I went to a local bar as I was going in a couple of young men whistled at me ,what a great feeling I have big boobs and 4 different men ask me to dance one of them walked me out to my car , he ask if he could talk for a while and I said yes! he got in and right off he ask if he could kiss me I said yes he kissed me so hard and long I told him to go home with me ! when we got home hesak me if he could fuck me! and I told him yes again! and we fucked for about 3 hrs! it was great!!!
The first time I went out as a female I was 14. I was staying with some friends of the family who live in Germany (We’re from NYC). I became very close with their daughter Lillian who was 18 and her girlfriends were the same age. With the adults gone for a few days the girls wanted to go to the clubs but I wasn’t old enough. It was suggested that I dress up as one of them so I could go along. Now this really scared me, you have no idea! But after a lot of coaxing and assurances that I wouldn’t be laughed at, I did it. I wound up wearing white fishnet stockings underneath a light blue thin strap leotard and then blue hot pants. I wore a white short sleeve jacket that I think is called a bolero or shrug. I wore my friend’s clogs which were a little weird but I got used to them pretty quickly. Lastly, I wore a pink wig. What was really scary is that I really looked like a teenage girl! I am very fair skinned with little hair on my arms or legs so that helped.
We took a cab to the first club and walked from there to some others throughout the evening. We did this over the course of a few days. I have to say, after the first hour, I really started identifying as a female, which was very strange at first but after a while, I became very comfortable with it. Some of the girls I was with even began to treat me like one of them, even holding my hand as we walked or walking with me arm in arm.
Since then I’ve only gone out as a female on rare occasions. I still have to be quite private in this for personal reasons. But when I do it, it’s so much fun.
That sounds so cool my first time I was so nervous that I/O you I went there five minutes and left and I want to go out but I’m too scared so that’s my story but I’d like to dress I see some pictures I was unable to take pictures
My first night out is this upcoming Wednesday!! Scared beyond belief but also excited beyond belief 🙂