There’s nothing like silky smooth skin to make a girl feel extra feminine!
For crossdressers and transgender women, hair removal plays a big role in creating a feminine appearance. But when you’re dealing with lots of face or body hair, things can easily go wrong.
The secret to a smooth, hair-free chest, soft feminine face, and silky smooth legs lies in avoiding some common mistakes.
Here are 5 MTF hair removal mistakes to avoid – and what to do instead!
Mistake #1: Not Exfoliating
All methods of hair removal can cause ingrown hairs, particularly in the beard, chest, and bikini area. You can reduce ingrown hairs by exfoliating your skin 2-3 times per week. This helps get rid of dead skin cells that can trap the hair.
To exfoliate, gently massage your skin with a washcloth, loofah, or exfoliating scrub. My favorite tool is The Body Shop’s exfoliating Body Polisher washcloth. You can find similar exfoliating clothes on Amazon.
It’s important to note that exfoliating immediately after hair removal can irritate the skin. Instead, it’s best to exfoliate either right before or a few days after the hair removal process.
Mistake #2: Forgetting to Moisturize
Dry skin is another cause of ingrown hairs, so it’s important to keep your skin hydrated. (Besides, you want the added benefit of soft, smooth skin, right?)
Pure aloe vera gel is a great moisturizer to use immediately after hair removal. Aloe vera is a natural moisturizer and skin soother.
Another option is to use an unscented lotion or body oil. Perfumed lotions can irritate freshly shaved, waxed, or lasered skin, so avoid them for the first 24 hours after hair removal.
Mistake #3: Not Treating Ingrown Hairs
Exfoliating and moisturizing your skin can help prevent future ingrown hairs. But what should you do about existing ingrown hair bumps?
First, let’s talk about what NOT to do. Resist the temptation of shaving over the ingrown hairs or attempting to extract them with a needle. These actions can lead to infections and scarring.
Instead, try using a specialized ingrown hair treatment like Tend Skin or PFB Vanish. These products are designed reduce razor bumps and ingrown hairs.
Mistake #4: DIY Hair Removal Gone Wrong
Professional waxing, electrolysis, and laser hair removal treatments are expensive, so it can be tempting to try to do them on your own.
However, be careful as some DIY hair removal techniques can lead to painful side effects if your technique isn’t perfect. Here are some pitfalls to watch out for:
Waxing – Mistakes to avoid
Newbie waxing mistakes – like waxing over the same area twice, pulling the hairs in different directions, or pulling too hard – can lead to rashes, bruises, and torn skin. Ouch!
If you still want to do it yourself, I recommend investing in a professional waxing treatment first, so you can observe and learn the proper techniques.
Laser hair removal – Mistakes to avoid
Home laser hair removal systems can save you a lot of money compared to professional treatments. However, it’s important to understand the risks (including burns, scars, and hyperpigmentation) if the devices are not used correctly.
Proceed with caution, take your time, and carefully follow the provided instructions.
Electrolysis – Mistakes to avoid
While there are some home electrolysis machines available, I do not recommend venturing down this path.
Performing electrolysis hair removal is a complex process, which is why professional electrologists are required to obtain licenses.
Not only are most home electrolysis machines unreliable, but there’s also a considerable risk of burning or scarring yourself. It’s best to consult a professional electrologist for this particular procedure.
Mistake #5: Going for the Biggest Bargain
I’m all for beauty bargains, but don’t let price be your sole criteria when choosing a provider for hair removal treatments.
Opting for an ultra-cheap price tag may result in a waxing service that leaves behind stray hairs or a laser treatment that yields patchy results. In the worst-case scenario, you could even end up with burns or scars.
Check the qualifications of the person treating you and read the reviews on any place you are considering. Yelp is your friend!
Also, keep in mind that upscale places tend to put more emphasis on comfortable treatments. If you’re a waxing or laser wimp like me, it’s worth spending a bit more for a less painful experience.
In conclusion
To achieve silky, soft, feminine skin, it’s crucial to avoid these common MTF hair removal mistakes. This is a major DO for any crossdresser or transgender woman.
Now that you’re aware of the don’ts to steer clear of, here are some articles that delve deeper into the topic of hair removal:
- Transgender Body Hair Removal – Which Method is Best for You?
- MTF Facial Hair Removal: Top 8 Ways To Remove Or Reduce Beard Hair
- Permanent Hair Removal: What Really Works? (Male to Female Transformation Tips)
- Bikini Hair Removal Tips for Your Male to Female Transformation
As always, I’d love to hear your thoughts. What are your preferred hair removal methods, and do you have any additional tips to share?
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Love,
Lucille
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I prefer to shave but have been really considering getting a waxing from a professional due to the hassles of having to shave almost everyday just to stay smooth. Do they wax your facial hair if requested or not?
I have used an epilator on my chest so many times the hair hardly comes back now. It was a bit painful at first but only the first few times. But, then, I never had thick hair on my chest anyway – rather sparse compared to many men.
I have managed a small amount on my face but you have to go just a tiny bit at a time because it is even more painful than the chest and causes a lot of redness. A few whiskers and stop. Next time a few more and stop. It will take some time but I think I can eventually get my face hair free.
I moisturize and then use Nair.
I personally prefer to use Nair or need to remove the hair from my body, the aloe in it leaves my skin feeling soft,silky and totally hairless. That’s important to me with the swimsuit season almost upon us. And I love the way I feel afterwards.
I like it to using hair removal cream is best but take time love the SMOOTH FEEL MMM so sexy
I last saw this post two years ago – the link to the Body Shop is no longer valid.
I use a Nair hair removal cream i put it on wait for 10min then i step in the shower and wash it off no hair for two week..
Am i to old to trasform to a women i am 60 and i want to have big hips and butt
Once we’re past puberty, our skeleton is already built in the shape it will remain for life. Hormones won’t change that. So the pelvis size and masculine facial features stay masculine unless you transition in your teens.
Hormones will feminise the body fat distribution, reduce body hair, and give you breast growth at 60 though, I know people who have done this; as long as you remain medically fit to qualify for HRT it shouldn’t be a problem getting a pleasingly feminine body form.
Monica, I’m 55yrs.old myself. Finally getting serious about my transition. No your not too old to transition. Go for it and just be yourself girl!!!
Michael have been on hormone already and how long have you been out of the closet
I shave all over my body and get the smooth mode I desire. My partner likes me smooth and silky. It helps with wonderful sex.
Lucky you! Great sex helps EVERYTHING. Unfortunately I don’t get nearly enough. Anyway, I actually prefer to shave all my body as well. I make a big deal of it, relaxing music, aroma, hot shower and a slow shave. I was a swimmer in college and we used to shave every little hair. Then I spend the rest of the day running my hands over myself, how smooth and sexy I feel. I usually wait a couple of hours before I apply moisturizer or perfume, it burns a bit otherwise.
Roni, Since I am bi-sexual, climbing in the sack with another bi-sexual and getting warm and lubbered up, makes sex terrific. It’s too bad I waited so long for this experience. LOL, Geri.