There’s nothing like silky smooth skin to make a girl feel extra feminine!
Hair removal is an essential part of your feminine image. But let’s face it – when you’re dealing with lots of facial and/or body hair, it’s easy to go wrong.
The secret to a smooth, hair-free chest, soft feminine face, and silky smooth legs lies in avoiding some common mistakes.
Here are 5 male to female hair removal mistakes to avoid – and what to do instead!
Mistake #1: You didn’t exfoliate
All methods of hair removal can cause ingrown hairs, particularly in the beard, chest, and pubic area. You can reduce ingrown hairs by exfoliating your skin 2-3 times per week. Exfoliation helps get rid of dead skin cells that trap the hair.
To exfoliate, gently massage your skin with a washcloth, loofah, or exfoliating scrub. My favorite exfoliation tool is The Body Shop’s exfoliating Body Polisher washcloth. You can find similar exfoliating clothes / towels on Amazon.
It’s best to exfoliate before you remove hair instead of after you do it. Exfoliating too soon after hair removal can irritate your skin.
Mistake #2: You forgot to moisturize
Dry skin is another cause of ingrown hairs, so it’s important to keep your skin hydrated. (Besides, you want the added benefit of soft, glowing skin, right?)
A great moisturizer to use immediately after hair removal is pure aloe vera gel. Aloe vera is a natural moisturizer and skin soother. Perfumed lotions can irritate freshly shaved, waxed, or lasered skin, so avoid them for the first 24 hours after hair removal.
Mistake #3: You didn’t treat ingrown hairs
Exfoliating and moisturizing help prevent future ingrown hairs – but what should you do about existing bumps?
Avoid the temptation to shave over ingrown hairs or dig for them with a needle. These tactics can lead to infections and scarring. Instead, try an ingrown hair treatment such as Tend Skin or PFB Vanish.
Mistake #4: Your DIY was a DON’T
Professional waxing, electrolysis, and laser hair removal treatments are expensive, so it’s tempting to try them on your own. But be careful…
Newbie waxing mistakes – like waxing over the same area twice, pulling the hairs in different directions, or pulling too hard – can lead to rashes, bruises, and torn skin. Not a sexy look!
If you insist on doing it yourself, pay for some professional waxing treatments first so you can observe the proper techniques.
Home laser hair removal devices aren’t as effective as professional systems, but they’ve definitely improved in recent years. Be sure to read reviews and do your research. I go into more detail on this topic in Permanent Hair Removal: What Really Works?
Mistake #5: You got what you paid for
I’m all for beauty bargains, but don’t let price be your sole criteria when choosing a place for hair removal treatments.
A cheap price tag often means a wax job with a bunch of stray hairs left behind or a patchy laser treatment. At worst, you could end up with burns or scars.
Check the qualifications of the person treating you and read the reviews on any place you are considering. Yelp is your friend!
Also, keep in mind that upscale places tend to put more emphasis on comfortable treatments. If you’re a waxing or laser wimp like me, it’s worth spending a bit more for a less painful experience.
What’s YOUR favorite hair removal method?
This is a hot topic, so I’d love to hear your thoughts! What’s your hair removal method of choice? Are you a diehard do-it-yourselfer or a pampered princess who loves her spa treatments?
Take my hair removal poll below and leave me your comments!
Love,
Lucille
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I am so happy to have found these tips! I absolutely love being feminine
and smooth all over. Glad to hear I am not the only one that will shave two times a day. Nothing better than a hot tub at night and shaved smooth all over, moisturize and a sexy teddy to just hang out in until bedtime.
Does epilation hurt? Of course it does!!! So, that’s the perfect excuse for a glass of wine before the “procedure”. The results are awesome ♡ and it lasts way more than shaving. Also, after few sessions with my epilator the pain is not as bad… or I may be getting use to it. I’m lucky that I am not so hairy to begging with. I don’t want to spend $$$ in laser hair removal, so my epilator (I love it!!!) is a pretty good alternative. I have a date with myself every 3 weeks, soft music, wine, my epilator and… voilà silky skin ♡. Give it a try, but get ready to scream…
Berenise, XX
Which brand do you use?
i like to shave butt i dont now must i do it evry day or evry week.
somtimes i wax butt it hurts en come fast back.
I would say that depends on the individual and how fast the hair grows. Fortunately I’m not very hairy (thank goodness not the back) but I still feel I need to shave completely every day. I suppose I could get away with the arms and legs every other day, but I hate the little fuzz that I can see. Face and crotch, twice a day, every night in the shower and with an electric razor in the morning. I’ve been doing this for somewhere around 40 years, I like fresh, fairly new (maybe used only 4-5 times) 5 blade razors. I love feeling smooth all the time, and like another poster has said, even when I wear shorts and tank tops no one has ever seemed to notice, or ever said anything, about my being smooth. Oh, and lotion, lotion, lotion, every morning, every night.
Hi i started shaving my armpits and chest recently and i love how smooth i feel.im nervous about shaving my legs.will my legs be really white as well after shaving for the first time.how many times a week do i need to shave them to keep them smooth
I do home home hair removal using laser. So far I have just done my legs and the hair is permanently gone. I am really happy with the results with laser hair removal. Not sure what’s next.
Hi jamie im curious are ur legs smooth forever after the laser treatment
I would say 90% of the hair is permanently gone and what grows back is very fine. I will continue using my home laser until no hair grows back.
Hi Jamie, May I ask what home laser you are using?
The home laser treatment really works. I had coarse dark hair on my legs and after a few treatments, 80% of the hairs are gone and the rest are much finer. I can laser my legs now and then shave and I will be pretty smooth for at least a week. Maybe the permanance of this option is not for everyone, but I wear shorts all the time in boy mode and no-one has ever commented. I expect that if they even notice, they do not care.
Hello,
I tried nair and then went back to shaving, but after a few years of taking finasteride, the hair on my legs and arms has never grown back. I only have a few hairs on my chest and underarms, could not be happier.
Best,
Wanita
Hi I’m starting to shave my legs and arms again and I wanted to know if they’re are any tips for shaving itself? I’m pretty bad and keep cutting myself and I’m trying to get better.
I always shave in the shower with the water spraying on the area I am shaving. The hair is softer and the hair washes out of the razor automatically. I shave in various directions. Try not to use a brand new blade. Maybe at least least 3-4 facials used. Dont press the razor into your skin to hard or shave over the area more than a few times. Good luck. Stephanie Cates
I would like to add to what Stephanie has said. Yes, the newer the razor the more careful you have to be but the longer you will be smooth. I get the closest shaves with the least cuts using a 4 or 5 blade razor. I’m currently using a mid price mans model from Wal-Mart that came with 2 extra heads for under $10. Try different ones to see what works best for you. I shave in a warm shower to soften the hair but I don’t actually shave under the water. I found shaving gels and certain body washes, currently Old Spice, work well as a lubricant for me. Afterwards I wash all over with lilac scented Olay body wash. I need to be especially careful on the shin and ankle as well as the side and back of the knee as those areas seem to slice easily. After drying off lotioning makes my skin feel creamy soft and feminine.
I wish you the best in your journey.
Hugs,
Jenny D
Thank you both so much! I’m going off to college in about a week and I’m hoping to finally start crossdressing so I’ve been reading a lot more of these. I need to slim down a bit, but otherwise I think I’m on the right track thanks to this site and people like you so thank you!