Have you ever felt like you looked more feminine or attractive when you were younger?
If so, you’re not alone – many crossdressers and trans women have shared the same feeling with me.
The good news? You can look beautiful and feminine at any age!
While we can’t stop the clock, there are simple things you can do to recapture that youthful glow.
In this post, I’ll share 7 easy tips to help you look younger and feel more confident on your feminization transformation journey.
1. Choose the Right Hairstyle
Hair has a huge impact on your appearance. Long hair is undoubtedly feminine, but remember that excessively long hair can accentuate signs of aging.
Consider these styles for a fresh, youthful look:
- Shoulder length hair: Universally flattering and youthful.
- Bangs: Cute, youthful, and great for concealing forehead wrinkles.
DO: Shoulder length hair
DO: Bangs
2. Embrace Your Sensual Side
While you shouldn’t dress like a 20 year old, you definitely want to avoid looking like a buttoned-up old lady.
Here are some ways to add a bit of youthful sex appeal to your look:
- Wear high heels and playful stockings.
- Choose clothing in sensual fabrics like lace, velvet, and fur.
- Show some skin (tastefully, of course).
Check out my previous article How to Dress Sexy at Any Age: 3 Crossdressing / MTF Fashion Tips to learn more.
3. Get Enough Sleep
We all need our beauty rest, and as you age, the effects of sleep deprivation become more apparent on your face.
Under-eye bags, dark circles, and lackluster skin can detract from a feminine look, so make sure to prioritize sleep.
4. Add Some Color to Your Wardrobe
If you tend to stick with black or neutral tones, consider incorporating some bright colors into your wardrobe.
Vibrant colors add a youthful energy and vitality to your appearance.
5. Whiten Your Teeth and Eyes
Your teeth can give away your age – over time, they often turn yellow or gray.
Whitening them can freshen up your whole face and make you look younger. Products like Crest White Strips are an easy and affordable way to brighten your smile.
The same idea applies to your eyes. Making the whites of your eyes look brighter can instantly lift your whole appearance.
LUMIFY Redness Reliever Eye Drops are a great option – they whiten your eyes without causing the rebound redness some other drops can.
6. Use the Right Skin Care Products
While most skin creams may not live up to their “miracle in a bottle” claims, there are specific ingredients that have demonstrated anti-aging benefits.
Combat wrinkles and firm your skin by using products containing ingredients such as:
- Retinoids
- Vitamin C
- Growth factors
- Peptides
- Hyaluronic acid
You can easily find affordable products with these ingredients at your local drugstore.
If you really want to take things up a notch, consider using an anti-aging skincare device. My favorite beauty devices include:
- Medicube Age-R Booster Pro
- Omnilux Contour Face LED Light Therapy Mask
- ZIIP HALO Nanocurrent and Microcurrent Facial Toning Device
7. Smile
Yes, it’s a cliché, but it’s true – a smile is the quickest way to enhance your appearance.
Smiling elevates your cheeks and functions like an instant facelift. Plus, it makes you look more pleasant and approachable when presenting yourself as a woman.
Beautiful at every age
Now for my favorite bonus tip: Look to stylish and attractive mature women for inspiration.
I know we have a lot of gorgeous, ageless beauties in this community, so I’d love to hear from YOU: What are your favorite tips for looking sexy and stylish at every age?
Even better, inspire us by sharing your photos below!
Love,
Lucille
P.S. If you liked this article, you will LOVE my Feminine Glow Up Starter Pack.
Kickstart your successful MTF transformation with this 5-topic bundle – only $7 for a limited time only!
yoga is also really good for gracefulness. i am not a dancer, but yoga i can do.
iam a young man.but iwant to look like a women.so first step was underdressing.so i bought a lor of panties and bra.then i tried skirt and make up.when i put make i look pretty.
All these stars are so beautiful that I have problems to choose any one of them.
But i am fortunate enough that I look younger en femme than I do as a male. I would love to get an estimate of my age from these three fotos here. I might reveal my real age in return.
Erika, all 3 pics are just Beautiful,and you should feel proud of these photos.
At 73, I have been out in public since the 1960’s.I understand about looking younger as en femme, it’s the hair,eye makeup that accentuates all your natural beautiful features.
Guessing you also are in your 70’s as well…get back to me with the answer…anxiously awaiting your answer.
Dr TJ.
Erika so you don’t hit me with your handbag,
I’ll say you’re 21+.
But a closer guess late 60’s to early 70
My choice, for an older woman is Susan Lucci. As Erica Kane on All My Children, she looked stunning. Also, she shares the same identical birthday as I do. We were both born on 12-23-46. Now you know why, I think she is the sexiest and most beautiful woman out there. If I could look half as good as her, I would really be totally happy. One thing, I am not Italian. Blessings, Whitney Roberts
Vikki LaMotta, nude in Playboy at age 51, not bad! And she was good looking after that too, I still remember her TV ads since she looked very much younger than she was.
Kim Cattrall gets my vote. I’ve tried adopting her posture and style of clothes, with limited success of course. She is just too beautiful. To be a woman like her must be heavenly.
It was a toss-up between Sharon Stone and Demi Moore, but I chose Sharon Stone.
The ” Other, please specify” wouldn’t let me specify anything (using Safari on a Mac). My choice is Claire Bloom.