Have you ever felt like you looked more feminine or attractive when you were younger?
If so, you’re not alone – many crossdressers and trans women have shared the same feeling with me.
The good news? You can look beautiful and feminine at any age!
While we can’t stop the clock, there are simple things you can do to recapture that youthful glow.
In this post, I’ll share 7 easy tips to help you look younger and feel more confident on your feminization transformation journey.
1. Choose the Right Hairstyle
Hair has a huge impact on your appearance. Long hair is undoubtedly feminine, but remember that excessively long hair can accentuate signs of aging.
Consider these styles for a fresh, youthful look:
- Shoulder length hair: Universally flattering and youthful.
- Bangs: Cute, youthful, and great for concealing forehead wrinkles.
DO: Shoulder length hair
DO: Bangs
2. Embrace Your Sensual Side
While you shouldn’t dress like a 20 year old, you definitely want to avoid looking like a buttoned-up old lady.
Here are some ways to add a bit of youthful sex appeal to your look:
- Wear high heels and playful stockings.
- Choose clothing in sensual fabrics like lace, velvet, and fur.
- Show some skin (tastefully, of course).
Check out my previous article How to Dress Sexy at Any Age: 3 Crossdressing / MTF Fashion Tips to learn more.
3. Get Enough Sleep
We all need our beauty rest, and as you age, the effects of sleep deprivation become more apparent on your face.
Under-eye bags, dark circles, and lackluster skin can detract from a feminine look, so make sure to prioritize sleep.
4. Add Some Color to Your Wardrobe
If you tend to stick with black or neutral tones, consider incorporating some bright colors into your wardrobe.
Vibrant colors add a youthful energy and vitality to your appearance.
5. Whiten Your Teeth and Eyes
Your teeth can give away your age – over time, they often turn yellow or gray.
Whitening them can freshen up your whole face and make you look younger. Products like Crest White Strips are an easy and affordable way to brighten your smile.
The same idea applies to your eyes. Making the whites of your eyes look brighter can instantly lift your whole appearance.
LUMIFY Redness Reliever Eye Drops are a great option – they whiten your eyes without causing the rebound redness some other drops can.
6. Use the Right Skin Care Products
While most skin creams may not live up to their “miracle in a bottle” claims, there are specific ingredients that have demonstrated anti-aging benefits.
Combat wrinkles and firm your skin by using products containing ingredients such as:
- Retinoids
- Vitamin C
- Growth factors
- Peptides
- Hyaluronic acid
You can easily find affordable products with these ingredients at your local drugstore.
If you really want to take things up a notch, consider using an anti-aging skincare device. My favorite beauty devices include:
- Medicube Age-R Booster Pro
- Omnilux Contour Face LED Light Therapy Mask
- ZIIP HALO Nanocurrent and Microcurrent Facial Toning Device
7. Smile
Yes, it’s a cliché, but it’s true – a smile is the quickest way to enhance your appearance.
Smiling elevates your cheeks and functions like an instant facelift. Plus, it makes you look more pleasant and approachable when presenting yourself as a woman.
Beautiful at every age
Now for my favorite bonus tip: Look to stylish and attractive mature women for inspiration.
I know we have a lot of gorgeous, ageless beauties in this community, so I’d love to hear from YOU: What are your favorite tips for looking sexy and stylish at every age?
Even better, inspire us by sharing your photos below!
Love,
Lucille
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Tanya at 72 for a calendar photoshoot
Beautiful….woman and gown! That must have been such fun.
I have often seen women over 50, who seem to think they are in their 20 with their dress. I dress according to my age. No mini skirts or bare midriff.
I have been whitening my teeth because I noticed that I looked older because of them being dull.
And I always smile, because I know I look more feminine.
I guess I am lucky in that even as myself, most people think I am about 15 to 20 years younger than I am. However my problem is my big nostiles, obvious several times broken nose, big chin, and small lips.
About nose. Lucille has given me a very good advice. Wear eyeglasses close to the end of your nose. It’s dividing your nose to 2 parts and for them who are looking at you at this moment, your nose will be look smaller. If you haven’t special eyeglasses you can wear eyeglasses with simpe lenses. My favorite type of eyegasses is foxie.
Another great post Lucille, loved the tips about colour and smiling – so simple and they work so well !!!
Hugs
Joanna
this artiop acle hit a chord. It’s so easy not to shop and dress when you’re feeling too old to look pretty.
I’m going out this afternoon and shop. I’ll be looking for an above the knee plaid skirt to go with opague stockings and nude pantyhose I have the cutest puff sleeve white blouse and a new pearl bracelet I want to wear with it.
what hair es accessories can a girl over 50 wear?
Am I too old to wear Mary Janes with this outfit?
I was asked last week at my LGBTG center why don’t wear any girl’s clothes to events and meetingis. This article is just the nudge I needed. thanking you….
thanx for all your advice.
I can’t go full time yet,
but I can study and practice.
xoxoxo,
Janie
I am right there with you. I embrace the days when I can be who I want instead of what others expect.
Thank you for your looking younger tips Lucille especially the use of bright colours. This is me at 73 and I certainly feel at least 10 years younger.
Brenda xxx
Me and you girl at 73…looking FAB -GEAR!!!
beautiful dress and the woman wearing it.Great hair shoes and pose.evaluation pics for you…Dr TJ
Brenda, you look amazing and your garden too.
Love your outfit Margo! You look fabulous and a lovely smile!
Brenda 73! I don’t believe it ‘we demand to see a birth certificate’.. it’s a tyo isn’t it .. you meant to say 33.. Lisa x !
You can’t possibly be 73!!! 🙂 You look far younger than that!
I agree, you look fantastic!
Wish I could have voted for more than two ladies! I love Helen Mirren and Susan Sarandon.
You look great Vickie! I turned 50 in this picture and I’m loving life. This picture was taken March 25th 2010. Age is a number and Lucille is right it’s in the right cloths and a smile on your face.
Brenda you are an inspiration. You look gorgeous!
Chelli
In full disclosure, I am wearing forms in this photo, but the herbs and other tips here are “working”. I’m 51, this photo was taken on May 16th 2010.